only to get broken up with through an IM. this is the worst ive felt in a longass time.
did she at least give you the classic bullshit line...."i hope we can still be friends"
...
Nah, she told him, "its not you, its me"
I invented that!
DTL, like everyone said, it's a learning experience, your next one will be better. And i'm sure you had good times, try to think of those. After a while those negative/hurt feelings will come up in your mind less and less and you'll remember just the good ones.
[and what's the deal with everyone saying wait until college, it's like shooting fish in a barrel? i must just really suck, i've had worse luck in college than any other time in my life, lol]
This should be a great period of self discovery for you, start smoking crack, go on a 5 day bender and in all seriousness try to figure out if you prefer banging two girls or three girls at one time.
When you were dating this bitch who dumped you, did you ever have interactions with other girls in which you said to yourself "damn if only I was single" . . . well your single now. Tonto . . jump on it.
This should be a great period of self discovery for you, start smoking crack, go on a 5 day bender and in all seriousness try to figure out if you prefer banging two girls or three girls at one time.
When you were dating this bitch who dumped you, did you ever have interactions with other girls in which you said to yourself "damn if only I was single" . . . well your single now. Tonto . . jump on it.
look at it this way, you are young, so you have way worse things to look forward to !!
like a cheating wife
best friends that steal from you
you know, all kinds of fun stuff that will make this almost seem like fun.
all kidding aside, that really sucks.
keep swinging for the fence though.
good luck.
the wolf is correct. olderman knows this all too well.
i feel the need to add to this..
'a best friend that never contacts you again due to an attitude of superiority'
like uncle neil wrote...
don't let it bring you down, it's only castles burning, find someone who's turning and you will come around
Down the street you can hear her scream youre a disgrace
As she slams the door in his drunken face
And now he stands outside
And all the neighbours start to gossip and drool
He cries oh, girl you must be mad,
What happened to the sweet love you and me had?
Against the door he leans and starts a scene,
And his tears fall and burn the garden green
only to get broken up with through an IM. this is the worst ive felt in a longass time.
The fact that she couldn't be respectful enough to tell you in person doesn't really show a lot for her.
You can do much better man, just keep your head up my friend.
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6/12/08 - Tampa, FL
8/23/09 - Chicago, IL
9/28/09 - Salt Lake City, UT (11 years too long!!!)
9/03/11 - East Troy, WI - PJ20 - Night 1
9/04/11 - East Troy, WI - PJ20 - Night 2
Prior to engaging in divorce, most white people train for it by engaging in a series of long term relationships that end very poorly. At some point, you will likely encounter a white person who is in the middle of a difficult breakup with a boyfriend or girlfriend.
The suffering of heartbreak is universal, but it is important to be aware that white people thrive during these trying times. If you play your cards right, you can parlay these moments into future favors and valuable trust.
The majority of white person art is created after a difficult breakup; films, indie music, and poetry are all kicked into high production during the end of a relationship. This helps train white people to prepare for the pain that is coming.
Once breakup proceedings have been initiated, a white person is immediately thrust into the center of attention in their circle of friends. During this time, they are permitted to talk at great lengths about themselves, listen to The Smiths, and get free dinners from friends who think “they shouldn’t be alone right now.”
It is imperative that you do not attempt to kick them out of their misery by saying things like “get over it,” “there are other people out there,” or “I don’t want to read your poem.” Implying that there things in the world more important to you than their breakup is considered one of the rudest actions possible.
If you are lucky enough to speak a second language, the best thing you can do for a white person in this situation is to give them an expression in that language that relates to breaking up. This will make them feel better since they are comforted by the gesture and happy to be learning a new sentence that they can reuse to with their friends.
...try to figure out if you prefer banging two girls or three girls at one time.
i've been going more toward foursomes myself lately, because if one girl backs out, you still get to have a 3some. and if another girl backs out, well you're still having sex.
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ha...it is bullshit..ive had that said too me and usually i hated the person so much at that point being friends withem was out of the question. :P
I invented that!
DTL, like everyone said, it's a learning experience, your next one will be better. And i'm sure you had good times, try to think of those. After a while those negative/hurt feelings will come up in your mind less and less and you'll remember just the good ones.
[and what's the deal with everyone saying wait until college, it's like shooting fish in a barrel? i must just really suck, i've had worse luck in college than any other time in my life, lol]
I'm going through a very confusing women time atm myself!
:twisted:
The ONLY thing better than a glass of beer is tea with Miss McGill
A protuberance of flesh above the waistband of a tight pair of trousers
When you were dating this bitch who dumped you, did you ever have interactions with other girls in which you said to yourself "damn if only I was single" . . . well your single now. Tonto . . jump on it.
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look at it this way, you are young, so you have way worse things to look forward to !!
like a cheating wife
best friends that steal from you
you know, all kinds of fun stuff that will make this almost seem like fun.
all kidding aside, that really sucks.
keep swinging for the fence though.
good luck.
"To question your government is not unpatriotic --
to not question your government is unpatriotic."
-- Sen. Chuck Hagel
the wolf is correct. olderman knows this all too well.
i feel the need to add to this..
'a best friend that never contacts you again due to an attitude of superiority'
like uncle neil wrote...
don't let it bring you down, it's only castles burning, find someone who's turning and you will come around
As she slams the door in his drunken face
And now he stands outside
And all the neighbours start to gossip and drool
He cries oh, girl you must be mad,
What happened to the sweet love you and me had?
Against the door he leans and starts a scene,
And his tears fall and burn the garden green
The fact that she couldn't be respectful enough to tell you in person doesn't really show a lot for her.
You can do much better man, just keep your head up my friend.
6/12/08 - Tampa, FL
8/23/09 - Chicago, IL
9/28/09 - Salt Lake City, UT (11 years too long!!!)
9/03/11 - East Troy, WI - PJ20 - Night 1
9/04/11 - East Troy, WI - PJ20 - Night 2
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#70 - Difficult breakups
Prior to engaging in divorce, most white people train for it by engaging in a series of long term relationships that end very poorly. At some point, you will likely encounter a white person who is in the middle of a difficult breakup with a boyfriend or girlfriend.
The suffering of heartbreak is universal, but it is important to be aware that white people thrive during these trying times. If you play your cards right, you can parlay these moments into future favors and valuable trust.
The majority of white person art is created after a difficult breakup; films, indie music, and poetry are all kicked into high production during the end of a relationship. This helps train white people to prepare for the pain that is coming.
Once breakup proceedings have been initiated, a white person is immediately thrust into the center of attention in their circle of friends. During this time, they are permitted to talk at great lengths about themselves, listen to The Smiths, and get free dinners from friends who think “they shouldn’t be alone right now.”
It is imperative that you do not attempt to kick them out of their misery by saying things like “get over it,” “there are other people out there,” or “I don’t want to read your poem.” Implying that there things in the world more important to you than their breakup is considered one of the rudest actions possible.
If you are lucky enough to speak a second language, the best thing you can do for a white person in this situation is to give them an expression in that language that relates to breaking up. This will make them feel better since they are comforted by the gesture and happy to be learning a new sentence that they can reuse to with their friends.
i've been going more toward foursomes myself lately, because if one girl backs out, you still get to have a 3some. and if another girl backs out, well you're still having sex.