i just wasted a year with my girlfriend..

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  • Sian-of-the-dead
    Sian-of-the-dead Posts: 8,963
    ah dude, sorry to hear that, it sucks :(

    She obviously has no backbone... do you really want a gal with no backbone?! C'mon, as Helen said, it's not a waste, just a learning curve!

    When you feel ready, get yourself out there and do your thang ;)
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  • Stone Is God
    Stone Is God Posts: 1,331
    Drop The Leash 10 wrote:
    i was gonna buy prom tickets after school tomorrow. now im gonna buy a truckfull of crap that i dont need.

    That's the best way to deal with it. I had a girl break-up with me when I was around your age. I had just bought her a really nice piece of jewelery for Christmas. She was nice enough to return it to me and I was smart enough to keep the receipt. I got it back and that afternoon I went directly to the mall, returned the gift, walked right across to the sporting good store, and bought my self a $100 North Carolina hoops jersey. Being the dick that I am I wore it to school the next day and everyone knew what the deal was.

    You're young bro. You're going to experience worse. I'm also assuming you're on track to go to college. Just wait till you meet the girls when you first get there. It's like shooting fish in a barrel.
    I'll ride the wave where it takes me.
  • libragirl
    libragirl Posts: 4,632
    Im sorry...that's a pretty tacky way to breakup with someone. Im sure it wasn't a total waste. You are young you will have lots of gfs.
    These cuts are leaving creases. Trace the scars to fit the pieces, to tell the story, you don't need to say a word.
  • AmentsChick
    AmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    aww...I'm so sorry to hear that DTL. I know how much you liked her. :( Break ups are the worst. I wish there was something I could say to make you feel better. :cry:
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  • jamie uk
    jamie uk Posts: 3,812
    Lizard wrote:
    i am sure it was not wasted----unless you planned on being with her the rest of your life??
    You learned a lot i am sure. :D

    This is true.
    It all sounds like cliches but it's all true, you learn as you go along....it doesn't stop actually.
    Put it down to experience, and move on, you'll be just fine, just give it time :)
    I came, I saw, I concurred.....
  • Steve Dunne
    Steve Dunne Posts: 4,965
    DTL - I'll give you a day or so to sulk around school. That's it.

    Then pick up your guitar and write a song about it, and play it at the next talent show....kind of like this guy...

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LTnq268y ... L&index=11

    Cheers my friend!!!
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  • SPEEDY MCCREADY
    SPEEDY MCCREADY Posts: 26,953
    Drop The Leash 10 wrote:
    only to get broken up with through an IM. :cry: this is the worst ive felt in a longass time.
    did she at least give you the classic bullshit line...."i hope we can still be friends"

    i havent heard that line in 20 years.......but it still cracks me the fuck up....
    Take me piece by piece.....
    Till there aint nothing left worth taking away from me.....
  • Poncier
    Poncier Posts: 17,936
    SPEEDY MCCREADY wrote:
    Drop The Leash 10 wrote:
    only to get broken up with through an IM. :cry: this is the worst ive felt in a longass time.
    did she at least give you the classic bullshit line...."i hope we can still be friends"

    ...
    Nah, she told him, "its not you, its me"
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  • SPEEDY MCCREADY
    SPEEDY MCCREADY Posts: 26,953
    Poncier wrote:
    SPEEDY MCCREADY wrote:
    Drop The Leash 10 wrote:
    only to get broken up with through an IM. :cry: this is the worst ive felt in a longass time.
    did she at least give you the classic bullshit line...."i hope we can still be friends"

    ...
    Nah, she told him, "its not you, its me"
    hehehehehe....

    when they give you the bullshit line "can we still be friends???"

    your response should be....."sure, after all im still fucking your sister"

    hehehehehehe.............
    Take me piece by piece.....
    Till there aint nothing left worth taking away from me.....
  • patrickredeyes
    patrickredeyes Posts: 8,834
    SPEEDY MCCREADY wrote:
    did she at least give you the classic bullshit line...."i hope we can still be friends"


    Has that bullshit line ever worked????? I think not. lol
  • libragirl
    libragirl Posts: 4,632
    patrickredeyes wrote:
    SPEEDY MCCREADY wrote:
    did she at least give you the classic bullshit line...."i hope we can still be friends"


    Has that bullshit line ever worked????? I think not. lol

    ha...it is bullshit..ive had that said too me and usually i hated the person so much at that point being friends withem was out of the question. :P
    These cuts are leaving creases. Trace the scars to fit the pieces, to tell the story, you don't need to say a word.
  • gobrowns19
    gobrowns19 Posts: 1,447
    Poncier wrote:
    SPEEDY MCCREADY wrote:
    Drop The Leash 10 wrote:
    only to get broken up with through an IM. :cry: this is the worst ive felt in a longass time.
    did she at least give you the classic bullshit line...."i hope we can still be friends"

    ...
    Nah, she told him, "its not you, its me"

    I invented that! :)

    DTL, like everyone said, it's a learning experience, your next one will be better. And i'm sure you had good times, try to think of those. After a while those negative/hurt feelings will come up in your mind less and less and you'll remember just the good ones.

    [and what's the deal with everyone saying wait until college, it's like shooting fish in a barrel? i must just really suck, i've had worse luck in college than any other time in my life, lol]
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  • Brisk.
    Brisk. Posts: 11,581
    So sorry to hear this dude

    I'm going through a very confusing women time atm myself!
  • Phantom Pain
    Phantom Pain Posts: 9,876
    "Your days of finger-banging ol' Mary J. Rottencrotch through her pertty pink panties are over! "

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  • Snaggletooth
    Snaggletooth Posts: 63
    This should be a great period of self discovery for you, start smoking crack, go on a 5 day bender and in all seriousness try to figure out if you prefer banging two girls or three girls at one time.

    When you were dating this bitch who dumped you, did you ever have interactions with other girls in which you said to yourself "damn if only I was single" . . . well your single now. Tonto . . jump on it.
  • Wilds
    Wilds Posts: 4,329
    Snaggletooth wrote:
    This should be a great period of self discovery for you, start smoking crack, go on a 5 day bender and in all seriousness try to figure out if you prefer banging two girls or three girls at one time.

    When you were dating this bitch who dumped you, did you ever have interactions with other girls in which you said to yourself "damn if only I was single" . . . well your single now. Tonto . . jump on it.



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  • the wolf
    the wolf Posts: 7,027
    thats shitty man, and i'm sorry to hear that.

    look at it this way, you are young, so you have way worse things to look forward to !!

    like a cheating wife

    best friends that steal from you

    you know, all kinds of fun stuff that will make this almost seem like fun.

    all kidding aside, that really sucks.

    keep swinging for the fence though.

    good luck.
    Peace, Love.

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  • olderman
    olderman Posts: 1,765
    the wolf wrote:
    thats shitty man, and i'm sorry to hear that.

    look at it this way, you are young, so you have way worse things to look forward to !!

    like a cheating wife

    best friends that steal from you

    you know, all kinds of fun stuff that will make this almost seem like fun.

    all kidding aside, that really sucks.

    keep swinging for the fence though.

    good luck.

    the wolf is correct. olderman knows this all too well.

    i feel the need to add to this..

    'a best friend that never contacts you again due to an attitude of superiority'

    like uncle neil wrote...

    don't let it bring you down, it's only castles burning, find someone who's turning and you will come around
    Down the street you can hear her scream youre a disgrace
    As she slams the door in his drunken face
    And now he stands outside
    And all the neighbours start to gossip and drool
    He cries oh, girl you must be mad,
    What happened to the sweet love you and me had?
    Against the door he leans and starts a scene,
    And his tears fall and burn the garden green
  • dcfaithful
    dcfaithful Posts: 13,076
    Drop The Leash 10 wrote:
    only to get broken up with through an IM. :cry: this is the worst ive felt in a longass time.


    The fact that she couldn't be respectful enough to tell you in person doesn't really show a lot for her.

    You can do much better man, just keep your head up my friend.
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  • fanch75
    fanch75 Posts: 3,734
    http://stuffwhitepeoplelike.com/2008/02 ... -breakups/

    Stuff White People Like
    #70 - Difficult breakups

    Prior to engaging in divorce, most white people train for it by engaging in a series of long term relationships that end very poorly. At some point, you will likely encounter a white person who is in the middle of a difficult breakup with a boyfriend or girlfriend.

    The suffering of heartbreak is universal, but it is important to be aware that white people thrive during these trying times. If you play your cards right, you can parlay these moments into future favors and valuable trust.

    The majority of white person art is created after a difficult breakup; films, indie music, and poetry are all kicked into high production during the end of a relationship.     This helps train white people to prepare for the pain that is coming.

    Once breakup proceedings have been initiated, a white person is immediately thrust into the center of attention in their circle of friends. During this time, they are permitted to talk at great lengths about themselves, listen to The Smiths, and get free dinners from friends who think “they shouldn’t be alone right now.”

    It is imperative that you do not attempt to kick them out of their misery by saying things like “get over it,” “there are other people out there,” or “I don’t want to read your poem.” Implying that there things in the world more important to you than their breakup is considered one of the rudest actions possible.

    If you are lucky enough to speak a second language, the best thing you can do for a white person in this situation is to give them an expression in that language that relates to breaking up. This will make them feel better since they are comforted by the gesture and happy to be learning a new sentence that they can reuse to with their friends.
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