i just wasted a year with my girlfriend..

Drop The Leash 10
Drop The Leash 10 Posts: 7,011
edited March 2009 in All Encompassing Trip
only to get broken up with through an IM. :cry: this is the worst ive felt in a longass time.
I will be what i could be
Once I get out of this town


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  • Cinnamon Girl
    Cinnamon Girl Posts: 1,854
    Drop The Leash 10 wrote:
    only to get broken up with through an IM. :cry: this is the worst ive felt in a longass time.

    I'm sorry. :( Did you see it coming?

    You look young. There will be plenty of lovely ladies in your future, I'm sure.
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  • Wilds
    Wilds Posts: 4,329
    Sorry to hear that. Hope the Sox can cheer you up. :D

    Although I wouldn't call it a waste. You probably had some great times together, learned a lot and had all the benefits of having a girlfriend. ;)

    Sucks now, but you will find someone, in the meantime enjoy the single life. :mrgreen:
  • Travelar
    Travelar Posts: 3,448
    Sorry dude... the last time I got dumped was by email. I was like, you couldn't even tell me in person?

    Keep your chin up. Something better will come along.
  • Drop The Leash 10
    Drop The Leash 10 Posts: 7,011
    Cinnamon Girl wrote:
    Drop The Leash 10 wrote:
    only to get broken up with through an IM. :cry: this is the worst ive felt in a longass time.

    I'm sorry. :( Did you see it coming?

    You look young. There will be plenty of lovely ladies in your future, I'm sure.
    i kind of saw it coming and i wanted to address it in person and hope we could maybe stay friends.. but after this.. i really dont know


    wtf
    I will be what i could be
    Once I get out of this town


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  • CHANGEinWAVES
    CHANGEinWAVES Posts: 10,169
    I'm sorry :(

    At least you have the SDE to console you :D
    "I'm not present, I'm a drug that makes you dream"
  • Cinnamon Girl
    Cinnamon Girl Posts: 1,854
    Drop The Leash 10 wrote:
    Cinnamon Girl wrote:
    Drop The Leash 10 wrote:
    only to get broken up with through an IM. :cry: this is the worst ive felt in a longass time.

    I'm sorry. :( Did you see it coming?

    You look young. There will be plenty of lovely ladies in your future, I'm sure.
    i kind of saw it coming and i wanted to address it in person and hope we could maybe stay friends.. but after this.. i really dont know


    wtf

    I would lose a lot of respect for someone who couldn't deal with something like this in person. But maybe she will realize that it wasn't the best way to handle the break-up.

    Meh, girls are stupid. :D
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  • Whizbang
    Whizbang Posts: 1,314
    I wouldn't call it a waste either, mi amigo. As the previous poster noted, you more than likely had good times together...otherwise, you wouldn't have stayed together, right? Smile at the good memories and let the not so good ones be part of learning and growing up. Enjoy being single, life is way to short to live it unhappily. It will pass....
    believe it or not, we don't "need" anything. that is only the spoiled brat in us trying to fill some temporary solution to an emptyness that does not exist.

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  • Gary Carter
    Gary Carter Posts: 14,077
    Drop The Leash 10 wrote:
    i kind of saw it coming and i wanted to address it in person and hope we could maybe stay friends.. but after this.. i really dont know


    wtf
    if she couldnt call u or tell u on the phone that should be a clue as to what kinda person she is. plenty of other girls out there that wont be all shady and will be real
    Ron: I just don't feel like going out tonight
    Sammi: Wanna just break up?

  • CHANGEinWAVES
    CHANGEinWAVES Posts: 10,169
    Now would be a good time to try Ben Harper again.
    "I'm not present, I'm a drug that makes you dream"
  • PatrickBateman
    PatrickBateman Posts: 2,243
    edited March 2009
    to put thing in perspective, try 13 years, a house, and oh yeah .......four kids (the last 2 , being kids she begged you to have)
    Post edited by PatrickBateman on
    If a man speaks in a forest and there is no woman around to hear him, is he still wrong?
  • Drop The Leash 10
    Drop The Leash 10 Posts: 7,011
    i was gonna buy prom tickets after school tomorrow. now im gonna buy a truckfull of crap that i dont need.
    I will be what i could be
    Once I get out of this town


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  • Whizbang
    Whizbang Posts: 1,314
    PatrickBateman wrote:
    to put thing in perspective, try 13 years, a house, and oh yeah .......four kids (the last 2 , being kids she begged you to have)

    ouch......
    believe it or not, we don't "need" anything. that is only the spoiled brat in us trying to fill some temporary solution to an emptyness that does not exist.

    I have eaten so much gold I crapped excellence - drtyfrnk29

    Life is either a daring adventure or nothing at all!
  • PatrickBateman
    PatrickBateman Posts: 2,243
    yeah my 13 year old wants to stay with me, my 1-1/2 year old still screams DADDY!!!! in excitement when I come home....it really blows.
    DTL10, I know it sucks and it feels like the world may be ending, but ha thats what they tell me now...haha
    Right after this recession, my hours/pay have been cut back, I am doing side work all the time (part of our problem)...if I had a dog that died and my pickups transmission just broke, I would be a living country song
    If a man speaks in a forest and there is no woman around to hear him, is he still wrong?
  • norm
    norm Posts: 31,146
    ah i'm sorry little bro....breaking up by im?? that is fucked and stupid :evil:

    Whizbang wrote:
    I wouldn't call it a waste either, mi amigo. As the previous poster noted, you more than likely had good times together...otherwise, you wouldn't have stayed together, right? Smile at the good memories and let the not so good ones be part of learning and growing up. Enjoy being single, life is way to short to live it unhappily. It will pass....


    ^^^^yep
  • Drop The Leash 10
    Drop The Leash 10 Posts: 7,011
    PatrickBateman wrote:
    to put thing in perspective, try 13 years, a house, and oh yeah .......four kids (the last 2 , being kids she begged you to have)
    dude i know my situation isnt nearly as bad as yours. im really sorry that happened to you.
    I will be what i could be
    Once I get out of this town


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  • milarso
    milarso Posts: 1,280
    Drop The Leash 10 wrote:
    only to get broken up with through an IM. :cry: this is the worst ive felt in a longass time.

    Hang in there buddy. Go console yourself with your truckload of crap :D
    "The dude abides. I don't know about you, but I take comfort in that. It's good knowin' he's out there. The Dude. Takin' her easy for all us sinners."
  • Lizard
    Lizard So Cal Posts: 12,092
    i am sure it was not wasted----unless you planned on being with her the rest of your life??
    You learned a lot i am sure. :D
    So I'll just lie down and wait for the dream
    Where I'm not ugly and you're lookin' at me
  • PatrickBateman
    PatrickBateman Posts: 2,243
    Drop The Leash 10 wrote:
    PatrickBateman wrote:
    to put thing in perspective, try 13 years, a house, and oh yeah .......four kids (the last 2 , being kids she begged you to have)
    dude i know my situation isnt nearly as bad as yours. im really sorry that happened to you.
    yeah man, I am not trying to take anything away from yours....just give you perspective...I know it sucks...we have all been there and know how much it sucks....hang in there, you are young and have many many years and girls ahead of you....rock on and enjoy your youth! ;)
    If a man speaks in a forest and there is no woman around to hear him, is he still wrong?
  • Motha Judson
    Motha Judson Posts: 104
    life is about experiences, good and bad. Soak it all in a learn....
  • Heineken Helen
    Heineken Helen Posts: 18,095
    Wilds wrote:
    Sorry to hear that. Hope the Sox can cheer you up. :D

    Although I wouldn't call it a waste. You probably had some great times together, learned a lot and had all the benefits of having a girlfriend. ;)

    Sucks now, but you will find someone, in the meantime enjoy the single life. :mrgreen:
    I agree completely... don't look at it as a waste. From each of my relationships I learned something to bring to the next one.

    But IM :evil: fuckin bitch! My last one broke up with me by text when he was on holiday... probably so he could sleep with somebody guilt free :roll: fuck him... he's probably still single and a loser. On the other hand I'm just a loser :D
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    What a different life
    Had I not found this love with you

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