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i just wasted a year with my girlfriend..

Drop The Leash 10Drop The Leash 10 Posts: 7,011
edited March 2009 in All Encompassing Trip
only to get broken up with through an IM. :cry: this is the worst ive felt in a longass time.
I will be what i could be
Once I get out of this town


9/29/04;6/27/08;6/30/08;8/23/09;08/24/09;5/17/10
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  • Cinnamon GirlCinnamon Girl Posts: 1,854
    Drop The Leash 10 wrote:
    only to get broken up with through an IM. :cry: this is the worst ive felt in a longass time.

    I'm sorry. :( Did you see it coming?

    You look young. There will be plenty of lovely ladies in your future, I'm sure.
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  • WildsWilds Posts: 4,329
    Sorry to hear that. Hope the Sox can cheer you up. :D

    Although I wouldn't call it a waste. You probably had some great times together, learned a lot and had all the benefits of having a girlfriend. ;)

    Sucks now, but you will find someone, in the meantime enjoy the single life. :mrgreen:
  • TravelarTravelar Kalamazoo, USA Posts: 3,410
    Sorry dude... the last time I got dumped was by email. I was like, you couldn't even tell me in person?

    Keep your chin up. Something better will come along.
  • Drop The Leash 10Drop The Leash 10 Posts: 7,011
    Cinnamon Girl wrote:
    Drop The Leash 10 wrote:
    only to get broken up with through an IM. :cry: this is the worst ive felt in a longass time.

    I'm sorry. :( Did you see it coming?

    You look young. There will be plenty of lovely ladies in your future, I'm sure.
    i kind of saw it coming and i wanted to address it in person and hope we could maybe stay friends.. but after this.. i really dont know


    wtf
    I will be what i could be
    Once I get out of this town


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  • CHANGEinWAVESCHANGEinWAVES Posts: 10,169
    I'm sorry :(

    At least you have the SDE to console you :D
    "I'm not present, I'm a drug that makes you dream"
  • Cinnamon GirlCinnamon Girl Posts: 1,854
    Drop The Leash 10 wrote:
    Cinnamon Girl wrote:
    Drop The Leash 10 wrote:
    only to get broken up with through an IM. :cry: this is the worst ive felt in a longass time.

    I'm sorry. :( Did you see it coming?

    You look young. There will be plenty of lovely ladies in your future, I'm sure.
    i kind of saw it coming and i wanted to address it in person and hope we could maybe stay friends.. but after this.. i really dont know


    wtf

    I would lose a lot of respect for someone who couldn't deal with something like this in person. But maybe she will realize that it wasn't the best way to handle the break-up.

    Meh, girls are stupid. :D
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  • WhizbangWhizbang Posts: 1,314
    I wouldn't call it a waste either, mi amigo. As the previous poster noted, you more than likely had good times together...otherwise, you wouldn't have stayed together, right? Smile at the good memories and let the not so good ones be part of learning and growing up. Enjoy being single, life is way to short to live it unhappily. It will pass....
    believe it or not, we don't "need" anything. that is only the spoiled brat in us trying to fill some temporary solution to an emptyness that does not exist.

    I have eaten so much gold I crapped excellence - drtyfrnk29

    Life is either a daring adventure or nothing at all!
  • Gary CarterGary Carter Posts: 14,067
    Drop The Leash 10 wrote:
    i kind of saw it coming and i wanted to address it in person and hope we could maybe stay friends.. but after this.. i really dont know


    wtf
    if she couldnt call u or tell u on the phone that should be a clue as to what kinda person she is. plenty of other girls out there that wont be all shady and will be real
    Ron: I just don't feel like going out tonight
    Sammi: Wanna just break up?

  • CHANGEinWAVESCHANGEinWAVES Posts: 10,169
    Now would be a good time to try Ben Harper again.
    "I'm not present, I'm a drug that makes you dream"
  • PatrickBatemanPatrickBateman Posts: 2,243
    edited March 2009
    to put thing in perspective, try 13 years, a house, and oh yeah .......four kids (the last 2 , being kids she begged you to have)
    Post edited by PatrickBateman on
    If a man speaks in a forest and there is no woman around to hear him, is he still wrong?
  • Drop The Leash 10Drop The Leash 10 Posts: 7,011
    i was gonna buy prom tickets after school tomorrow. now im gonna buy a truckfull of crap that i dont need.
    I will be what i could be
    Once I get out of this town


    9/29/04;6/27/08;6/30/08;8/23/09;08/24/09;5/17/10
  • WhizbangWhizbang Posts: 1,314
    PatrickBateman wrote:
    to put thing in perspective, try 13 years, a house, and oh yeah .......four kids (the last 2 , being kids she begged you to have)

    ouch......
    believe it or not, we don't "need" anything. that is only the spoiled brat in us trying to fill some temporary solution to an emptyness that does not exist.

    I have eaten so much gold I crapped excellence - drtyfrnk29

    Life is either a daring adventure or nothing at all!
  • PatrickBatemanPatrickBateman Posts: 2,243
    yeah my 13 year old wants to stay with me, my 1-1/2 year old still screams DADDY!!!! in excitement when I come home....it really blows.
    DTL10, I know it sucks and it feels like the world may be ending, but ha thats what they tell me now...haha
    Right after this recession, my hours/pay have been cut back, I am doing side work all the time (part of our problem)...if I had a dog that died and my pickups transmission just broke, I would be a living country song
    If a man speaks in a forest and there is no woman around to hear him, is he still wrong?
  • normnorm Posts: 31,146
    ah i'm sorry little bro....breaking up by im?? that is fucked and stupid :evil:

    Whizbang wrote:
    I wouldn't call it a waste either, mi amigo. As the previous poster noted, you more than likely had good times together...otherwise, you wouldn't have stayed together, right? Smile at the good memories and let the not so good ones be part of learning and growing up. Enjoy being single, life is way to short to live it unhappily. It will pass....


    ^^^^yep
  • Drop The Leash 10Drop The Leash 10 Posts: 7,011
    PatrickBateman wrote:
    to put thing in perspective, try 13 years, a house, and oh yeah .......four kids (the last 2 , being kids she begged you to have)
    dude i know my situation isnt nearly as bad as yours. im really sorry that happened to you.
    I will be what i could be
    Once I get out of this town


    9/29/04;6/27/08;6/30/08;8/23/09;08/24/09;5/17/10
  • milarsomilarso Posts: 1,280
    Drop The Leash 10 wrote:
    only to get broken up with through an IM. :cry: this is the worst ive felt in a longass time.

    Hang in there buddy. Go console yourself with your truckload of crap :D
    "The dude abides. I don't know about you, but I take comfort in that. It's good knowin' he's out there. The Dude. Takin' her easy for all us sinners."
  • LizardLizard So Cal Posts: 12,091
    i am sure it was not wasted----unless you planned on being with her the rest of your life??
    You learned a lot i am sure. :D
    So I'll just lie down and wait for the dream
    Where I'm not ugly and you're lookin' at me
  • PatrickBatemanPatrickBateman Posts: 2,243
    Drop The Leash 10 wrote:
    PatrickBateman wrote:
    to put thing in perspective, try 13 years, a house, and oh yeah .......four kids (the last 2 , being kids she begged you to have)
    dude i know my situation isnt nearly as bad as yours. im really sorry that happened to you.
    yeah man, I am not trying to take anything away from yours....just give you perspective...I know it sucks...we have all been there and know how much it sucks....hang in there, you are young and have many many years and girls ahead of you....rock on and enjoy your youth! ;)
    If a man speaks in a forest and there is no woman around to hear him, is he still wrong?
  • Motha JudsonMotha Judson Posts: 104
    life is about experiences, good and bad. Soak it all in a learn....
  • Heineken HelenHeineken Helen Posts: 18,095
    Wilds wrote:
    Sorry to hear that. Hope the Sox can cheer you up. :D

    Although I wouldn't call it a waste. You probably had some great times together, learned a lot and had all the benefits of having a girlfriend. ;)

    Sucks now, but you will find someone, in the meantime enjoy the single life. :mrgreen:
    I agree completely... don't look at it as a waste. From each of my relationships I learned something to bring to the next one.

    But IM :evil: fuckin bitch! My last one broke up with me by text when he was on holiday... probably so he could sleep with somebody guilt free :roll: fuck him... he's probably still single and a loser. On the other hand I'm just a loser :D
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  • Sian-of-the-deadSian-of-the-dead Posts: 8,963
    ah dude, sorry to hear that, it sucks :(

    She obviously has no backbone... do you really want a gal with no backbone?! C'mon, as Helen said, it's not a waste, just a learning curve!

    When you feel ready, get yourself out there and do your thang ;)
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  • Stone Is GodStone Is God Posts: 1,331
    Drop The Leash 10 wrote:
    i was gonna buy prom tickets after school tomorrow. now im gonna buy a truckfull of crap that i dont need.

    That's the best way to deal with it. I had a girl break-up with me when I was around your age. I had just bought her a really nice piece of jewelery for Christmas. She was nice enough to return it to me and I was smart enough to keep the receipt. I got it back and that afternoon I went directly to the mall, returned the gift, walked right across to the sporting good store, and bought my self a $100 North Carolina hoops jersey. Being the dick that I am I wore it to school the next day and everyone knew what the deal was.

    You're young bro. You're going to experience worse. I'm also assuming you're on track to go to college. Just wait till you meet the girls when you first get there. It's like shooting fish in a barrel.
    I'll ride the wave where it takes me.
  • libragirllibragirl Posts: 4,632
    Im sorry...that's a pretty tacky way to breakup with someone. Im sure it wasn't a total waste. You are young you will have lots of gfs.
    These cuts are leaving creases. Trace the scars to fit the pieces, to tell the story, you don't need to say a word.
  • AmentsChickAmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    aww...I'm so sorry to hear that DTL. I know how much you liked her. :( Break ups are the worst. I wish there was something I could say to make you feel better. :cry:
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  • jamie ukjamie uk Posts: 3,812
    Lizard wrote:
    i am sure it was not wasted----unless you planned on being with her the rest of your life??
    You learned a lot i am sure. :D

    This is true.
    It all sounds like cliches but it's all true, you learn as you go along....it doesn't stop actually.
    Put it down to experience, and move on, you'll be just fine, just give it time :)
    I came, I saw, I concurred.....
  • Steve DunneSteve Dunne Posts: 4,965
    DTL - I'll give you a day or so to sulk around school. That's it.

    Then pick up your guitar and write a song about it, and play it at the next talent show....kind of like this guy...

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LTnq268y ... L&index=11

    Cheers my friend!!!
    I love to turn you on
  • SPEEDY MCCREADYSPEEDY MCCREADY Posts: 25,768
    Drop The Leash 10 wrote:
    only to get broken up with through an IM. :cry: this is the worst ive felt in a longass time.
    did she at least give you the classic bullshit line...."i hope we can still be friends"

    i havent heard that line in 20 years.......but it still cracks me the fuck up....
    Take me piece by piece.....
    Till there aint nothing left worth taking away from me.....
  • PoncierPoncier Posts: 17,200
    SPEEDY MCCREADY wrote:
    Drop The Leash 10 wrote:
    only to get broken up with through an IM. :cry: this is the worst ive felt in a longass time.
    did she at least give you the classic bullshit line...."i hope we can still be friends"

    ...
    Nah, she told him, "its not you, its me"
    This weekend we rock Portland
  • SPEEDY MCCREADYSPEEDY MCCREADY Posts: 25,768
    Poncier wrote:
    SPEEDY MCCREADY wrote:
    Drop The Leash 10 wrote:
    only to get broken up with through an IM. :cry: this is the worst ive felt in a longass time.
    did she at least give you the classic bullshit line...."i hope we can still be friends"

    ...
    Nah, she told him, "its not you, its me"
    hehehehehe....

    when they give you the bullshit line "can we still be friends???"

    your response should be....."sure, after all im still fucking your sister"

    hehehehehehe.............
    Take me piece by piece.....
    Till there aint nothing left worth taking away from me.....
  • patrickredeyespatrickredeyes Posts: 8,834
    SPEEDY MCCREADY wrote:
    did she at least give you the classic bullshit line...."i hope we can still be friends"


    Has that bullshit line ever worked????? I think not. lol
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