HELP! Shes uses too much tongue- how to address??

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  • AmentsChickAmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    Two words:


    POSITIVE REINFORCEMENT
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  • rhcpjam1029rhcpjam1029 Posts: 1,981
    phhhhtttt...you've been going out for that long and are only kissing? i think it's time you just tell her that it's time you take your relationship to the next level. easiest advice i can give you.
    Beavis: All my friends are brown and red? What does that mean?
    Butthead: It means that his friends are like turds and that they like suck.
    Beavis: Heh heh. Oh yeah. Yeah! Get those spoons out of my face before I shove them up your butt!
    Butthead: Huh huh.
  • soulsingingsoulsinging Posts: 13,202
    phhhhtttt...you've been going out for that long and are only kissing? i think it's time you just tell her that it's time you take your relationship to the next level. easiest advice i can give you.

    He said they just started seeing each other?
  • rhcpjam1029rhcpjam1029 Posts: 1,981
    phhhhtttt...you've been going out for that long and are only kissing? i think it's time you just tell her that it's time you take your relationship to the next level. easiest advice i can give you.

    He said they just started seeing each other?

    i know...that was the joke.
    Beavis: All my friends are brown and red? What does that mean?
    Butthead: It means that his friends are like turds and that they like suck.
    Beavis: Heh heh. Oh yeah. Yeah! Get those spoons out of my face before I shove them up your butt!
    Butthead: Huh huh.
  • soulsingingsoulsinging Posts: 13,202
    phhhhtttt...you've been going out for that long and are only kissing? i think it's time you just tell her that it's time you take your relationship to the next level. easiest advice i can give you.

    He said they just started seeing each other?

    i know...that was the joke.

    Ooops :D
  • WhizbangWhizbang Posts: 1,314
    Two words:


    POSITIVE REINFORCEMENT

    I agree but some people just don't get it. I'd dated a guy like that for a short period. I just couldn't get by that he didn't kiss well and he didn't take hints (gentle or direct) that I wasn't into kissing him that way. Pretty much killed it.
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  • take the lead... do it her way for a litle bit, then show her how you like it...
  • JordyWordyJordyWordy Posts: 2,261
    so, im curious. what happened? any change?? did you say anything? cmon, dish the dirt
  • haffajappahaffajappa British Columbia Posts: 5,955
    i remember my bf and i's first kiss...
    we were both shittered... it was very romantic. :roll:
    very classy.
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  • dcfaithfuldcfaithful Posts: 13,076
    Danimal wrote:
    Punch her in the face.

    (I'm kidding...don't do that.)


    LMAO! THat was very funny. But on the contrary, not the best idea ;).

    For a less harmful, but still funny prank, when she's got her mouth all open and least expecting it, just blow some air down her throat....

    or maybe it's not that funny, but just a cruel game and joke between my girlfriend and I?...either way, I laugh...
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  • libragirl wrote:
    Be Grateful she wants to stick her tongue in ur mouth... Maybe you are doing it wrong... :lol:

    ha...I don't know..I just have reservations about someone posting a thread like this...it's like okay, talk to HER about the problem and could you imagine if she was a member of the board and saw this? :? Nice... :?

    Could you imagine if she had another bf as well? And he was a member of this board...and he saw it and somehow connected it? Oh the drama!


    So has he decided what he's gonna do? Have they had 'the talk' yet, so to speak? Spill it man!

    I've never had this problem with any girl before so I dunno...but I think posting on a message board would never cross my mind. :lol: That's reserved for girls peeing in urinals next to me. However, I would have kissed her a couple more times to make sure it wasn't just a bad kiss one time...and if it was consistant, then I'd say...hey...what's up? Let's talk about that kiss.
  • JordyWordyJordyWordy Posts: 2,261
    dcfaithful wrote:

    For a less harmful, but still funny prank, when she's got her mouth all open and least expecting it, just blow some air down her throat....

    or maybe it's not that funny, but just a cruel game and joke between my girlfriend and I?...either way, I laugh...

    i had a girlfriend that did that to me a bit too, i always laughed.....was she trying to tell me i use too much tongue?? :?

    ah fuckit if i did, i had my fun
  • dcfaithfuldcfaithful Posts: 13,076
    JordyWordy wrote:
    dcfaithful wrote:

    For a less harmful, but still funny prank, when she's got her mouth all open and least expecting it, just blow some air down her throat....

    or maybe it's not that funny, but just a cruel game and joke between my girlfriend and I?...either way, I laugh...

    i had a girlfriend that did that to me a bit too, i always laughed.....was she trying to tell me i use too much tongue?? :?

    ah fuckit if i did, i had my fun

    Exactly, and don't think of it as using too much...maybe they jsut haven't had enough their experience.....

    but still blowing air down the throat is easy, and funny.
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  • JordyWordyJordyWordy Posts: 2,261
    dcfaithful wrote:
    Exactly, and don't think of it as using too much...maybe they jsut haven't had enough their experience.....

    but still blowing air down the throat is easy, and funny.

    aye. and far less likely to end the relationship than some of the other methods suggested!!!
  • thanks everyone for their anecdotes and ideas. i can assure you there will be no biting or punching.
    im learning to enjoy it a little more each time, and as we progress in our physical relationship, there will be other things that we can "do" to please eachother so im not as worried anymore. we really care about each other and i know thats what will make it work.
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  • Did someone already say to tell her to use it somewhere else?? Damn the person who beat me, I gotta come here more often.....if not, well hooray! ;)
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  • LikeAnOceanLikeAnOcean Posts: 7,718
    I don't see the problem.
  • libragirllibragirl Posts: 4,632
    Could you imagine if she had another bf as well? And he was a member of this board...and he saw it and somehow connected it? Oh the drama!


    So has he decided what he's gonna do? Have they had 'the talk' yet, so to speak? Spill it man!

    I've never had this problem with any girl before so I dunno...but I think posting on a message board would never cross my mind. :lol: That's reserved for girls peeing in urinals next to me. However, I would have kissed her a couple more times to make sure it wasn't just a bad kiss one time...and if it was consistant, then I'd say...hey...what's up? Let's talk about that kiss.

    lol...yeah gotta be careful now..gotta hope your significant other isn't discussing your relationship on the internet. :P
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  • ZiggyStarZiggyStar Posts: 14,328
    Tell her to PM me...I'll teach her what she's doing wrong! :P
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  • libragirllibragirl Posts: 4,632
    ZiggyStar wrote:
    Tell her to PM me...I'll teach her what she's doing wrong! :P

    yeah evidently she's using too much tongue! :lol:
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  • ZiggyStarZiggyStar Posts: 14,328
    libragirl wrote:
    ZiggyStar wrote:
    Tell her to PM me...I'll teach her what she's doing wrong! :P

    yeah evidently she's using too much tongue! :lol:

    I know that!.... ha ha ha But there's a fine line between too much and not enough! :P
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  • libragirllibragirl Posts: 4,632
    ZiggyStar wrote:
    libragirl wrote:
    ZiggyStar wrote:
    Tell her to PM me...I'll teach her what she's doing wrong! :P

    yeah evidently she's using too much tongue! :lol:

    I know that!.... ha ha ha But there's a fine line between too much and not enough! :P

    yep.... personally I don't mind lots of tongue, but i guess it depends on their technique. :)
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  • ZiggyStarZiggyStar Posts: 14,328
    libragirl wrote:
    ZiggyStar wrote:
    libragirl wrote:
    yeah evidently she's using too much tongue! :lol:

    I know that!.... ha ha ha But there's a fine line between too much and not enough! :P

    yep.... personally I don't mind lots of tongue, but i guess it depends on their technique. :)

    Yeah, I agree... :D
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  • ZiggyStar wrote:
    Tell her to PM me...I'll teach her what she's doing wrong! :P

    uhh...Ziggy, I think Im in love with you and am going to leave this girl to be with you...is that cool? Ill hope on the next flight over.
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  • ZiggyStarZiggyStar Posts: 14,328
    ZiggyStar wrote:
    Tell her to PM me...I'll teach her what she's doing wrong! :P

    uhh...Ziggy, I think Im in love with you and am going to leave this girl to be with you...is that cool? Ill hope on the next flight over.

    I'd need to know what you look like first.... ;)
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  • ZiggyStar wrote:
    Tell her to PM me...I'll teach her what she's doing wrong! :P

    uhh...Ziggy, I think Im in love with you and am going to leave this girl to be with you...is that cool? Ill hope on the next flight over.
    why leave her? take her as well :ugeek:
  • ZiggyStar wrote:
    ZiggyStar wrote:
    Tell her to PM me...I'll teach her what she's doing wrong! :P

    uhh...Ziggy, I think Im in love with you and am going to leave this girl to be with you...is that cool? Ill hope on the next flight over.

    I'd need to know what you look like first.... ;)

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  • libragirllibragirl Posts: 4,632
    hmmm...well you kiss and tell..so Im not sure anyone would want to deal with you. :P
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  • libragirl wrote:
    hmmm...well you kiss and tell..so Im not sure anyone would want to deal with you. :P

    dont worry, if you dont kiss well, ill post about it on another message board
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  • libragirllibragirl Posts: 4,632
    libragirl wrote:
    hmmm...well you kiss and tell..so Im not sure anyone would want to deal with you. :P

    dont worry, if you dont kiss well, ill post about it on another message board

    lol...I go on many message boards...I would find out! :P but yeah im just busting chops...
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