HELP! Shes uses too much tongue- how to address??

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  • _
    _ Posts: 6,657
    When she kisses you the way you like to be kissed, tell her how much you like it that way. Repeatedly.
  • Get_Right
    Get_Right Posts: 14,129
    you need to keep your mouth shut until you find out what else she can do

    perhaps that aggressive tongue is a blessing!
  • soulsinging
    soulsinging Posts: 13,202
    AmentsChick wrote:
    soulsinging wrote:
    Spot In The Sky wrote:
    Were both 24, just started seeing each other and we had our first kiss last night but it was way too much tongue on her part, it took up like my whole mouth, had no room to maneuver.

    How do I address this respectively? How have you handled this in the past?

    Thanks team-

    There is no fixing a bad kisser. I've been trying for 2 years.

    Why are you with this gal? LOL!

    That's just about her only flaw. Other than that she's pretty fantastic. I keep hoping I'll stumble upon something I haven't thought of to help! :)
  • Danimal
    Danimal Posts: 2,000
    AmentsChick wrote:
    Danimal wrote:
    Punch her in the face.

    (I'm kidding...don't do that.)

    hahahahahaha. That made me lol for some reason.

    Because random acts of violence are hilarious.

    (Again...I am kidding.)
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  • mca47
    mca47 Posts: 13,335
    FoxyMop wrote:
    mca47 wrote:
    Bad kissing is something that is almost impossible to get over.

    My ex was was terrible kisser. No matter what I tried she was stuck in her ways.

    Did you flat out tell her she sucked? 8-)

    No, I just put up with it.

    Fortunately she made up for it in other areas. ;):D
  • mfc2006
    mfc2006 HTOWN Posts: 37,491
    mca47 wrote:
    FoxyMop wrote:
    mca47 wrote:
    Bad kissing is something that is almost impossible to get over.

    My ex was was terrible kisser. No matter what I tried she was stuck in her ways.

    Did you flat out tell her she sucked? 8-)

    No, I just put up with it.

    Fortunately she made up for it in other areas. ;):D

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  • battan1120
    battan1120 Posts: 310
    Um.....I'll leave it at that. ;)
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  • fightingthesuburbs
    fightingthesuburbs Posts: 142
    My wife is a great kisser but in the past I've run into a few girls like this.

    Here's the trick that might help.

    You can't kiss full out all the time, pull back, and do very brief kisses between barely separated lips. the trick is to keep a tiny bit of separation so if there's tongue she won't be thrusting it out as much. You've just got to sell it like it's sexy.

    But yeah, otherwise too much tongue is never a bad thing. If she was scraping your tongue with her teeth, that would be a BAD sign ;)
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  • TheDecline13
    TheDecline13 Posts: 990
    Be Grateful she wants to stick her tongue in ur mouth... Maybe you are doing it wrong... :lol:
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  • libragirl
    libragirl Posts: 4,632
    TheDecline13 wrote:
    Be Grateful she wants to stick her tongue in ur mouth... Maybe you are doing it wrong... :lol:

    ha...I don't know..I just have reservations about someone posting a thread like this...it's like okay, talk to HER about the problem and could you imagine if she was a member of the board and saw this? :? Nice... :?
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  • AmentsChick
    AmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    Two words:


    POSITIVE REINFORCEMENT
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  • rhcpjam1029
    rhcpjam1029 Posts: 1,982
    phhhhtttt...you've been going out for that long and are only kissing? i think it's time you just tell her that it's time you take your relationship to the next level. easiest advice i can give you.
    Beavis: All my friends are brown and red? What does that mean?
    Butthead: It means that his friends are like turds and that they like suck.
    Beavis: Heh heh. Oh yeah. Yeah! Get those spoons out of my face before I shove them up your butt!
    Butthead: Huh huh.
  • soulsinging
    soulsinging Posts: 13,202
    rhcpjam6306 wrote:
    phhhhtttt...you've been going out for that long and are only kissing? i think it's time you just tell her that it's time you take your relationship to the next level. easiest advice i can give you.

    He said they just started seeing each other?
  • rhcpjam1029
    rhcpjam1029 Posts: 1,982
    soulsinging wrote:
    rhcpjam6306 wrote:
    phhhhtttt...you've been going out for that long and are only kissing? i think it's time you just tell her that it's time you take your relationship to the next level. easiest advice i can give you.

    He said they just started seeing each other?

    i know...that was the joke.
    Beavis: All my friends are brown and red? What does that mean?
    Butthead: It means that his friends are like turds and that they like suck.
    Beavis: Heh heh. Oh yeah. Yeah! Get those spoons out of my face before I shove them up your butt!
    Butthead: Huh huh.
  • soulsinging
    soulsinging Posts: 13,202
    rhcpjam6306 wrote:
    soulsinging wrote:
    rhcpjam6306 wrote:
    phhhhtttt...you've been going out for that long and are only kissing? i think it's time you just tell her that it's time you take your relationship to the next level. easiest advice i can give you.

    He said they just started seeing each other?

    i know...that was the joke.

    Ooops :D
  • Whizbang
    Whizbang Posts: 1,314
    AmentsChick wrote:
    Two words:


    POSITIVE REINFORCEMENT

    I agree but some people just don't get it. I'd dated a guy like that for a short period. I just couldn't get by that he didn't kiss well and he didn't take hints (gentle or direct) that I wasn't into kissing him that way. Pretty much killed it.
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  • CreedDisease
    CreedDisease Posts: 241
    take the lead... do it her way for a litle bit, then show her how you like it...
  • JordyWordy
    JordyWordy Posts: 2,261
    so, im curious. what happened? any change?? did you say anything? cmon, dish the dirt
  • haffajappa
    haffajappa British Columbia Posts: 5,955
    i remember my bf and i's first kiss...
    we were both shittered... it was very romantic. :roll:
    very classy.
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  • dcfaithful
    dcfaithful Posts: 13,076
    Danimal wrote:
    Punch her in the face.

    (I'm kidding...don't do that.)


    LMAO! THat was very funny. But on the contrary, not the best idea ;).

    For a less harmful, but still funny prank, when she's got her mouth all open and least expecting it, just blow some air down her throat....

    or maybe it's not that funny, but just a cruel game and joke between my girlfriend and I?...either way, I laugh...
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