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HELP! Shes uses too much tongue- how to address??

Spot In The SkySpot In The Sky Posts: 1,175
edited March 2009 in All Encompassing Trip
Were both 24, just started seeing each other and we had our first kiss last night but it was way too much tongue on her part, it took up like my whole mouth, had no room to maneuver.

How do I address this respectively? How have you handled this in the past?

Thanks team-
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  • catefrancescatefrances Posts: 29,003
    just kiss her some place else. ;)
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  • Thoughts_ArriveThoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    Bite her tongue lol
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  • DeLukinDeLukin Posts: 2,757
    Don't brush your teeth for a week. That'll teach her...
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  • PJ_LukinPJ_Lukin Posts: 2,055
    Ask her how your esophagus tasted.
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  • libragirllibragirl Posts: 4,632
    First of all, I wouldn't be discussing it on a message board, you need to discuss it with her :) You need to tell her gently.
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  • Sian-of-the-deadSian-of-the-dead Posts: 8,963
    libragirl wrote:
    You need to tell her gently.
    Agreed.

    Maybe approach it as a treat for her.

    Tell her to close her eyes and let you show her how much she means to you by kissing her. If she pushes her tongue in, pull back, smile and tell her that this is her kiss, she should enjoy it.

    Hopefully that'll show her how you like kisses and she'll get the hint.


    If that doesn't work? Bite her tongue.

    ;)
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  • libragirllibragirl Posts: 4,632
    Sian-of-the-dead wrote:
    libragirl wrote:
    You need to tell her gently.
    Agreed.

    Maybe approach it as a treat for her.

    Tell her to close her eyes and let you show her how much she means to you by kissing her. If she pushes her tongue in, pull back, smile and tell her that this is her kiss, she should enjoy it.

    Hopefully that'll show her how you like kisses and she'll get the hint.


    If that doesn't work? Bite her tongue.

    ;)

    :) exactly..it's not a hard thing to rectify at all. If he really likes her he'll make the effort.
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  • Brain of J.LoBrain of J.Lo Posts: 3,259
    Eww, too much tongue is scary. :lol: Close your mouth a little more than you normally would next time you kiss her. If you do this enough, she will probably get the hint. That worked for me with this guy I used to date. Eventually he got a lot better. The first kiss with him, though, was pretty much the worst thing ever, lol. Not a fond memory. *shiver*
  • DanimalDanimal Posts: 2,000
    Punch her in the face.

    (I'm kidding...don't do that.)
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  • tybirdtybird Posts: 17,388
    Only in Giant Anteaters and Giraffees does one find too much tongue. :twisted:
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  • soulsingingsoulsinging Posts: 13,202
    Spot In The Sky wrote:
    Were both 24, just started seeing each other and we had our first kiss last night but it was way too much tongue on her part, it took up like my whole mouth, had no room to maneuver.

    How do I address this respectively? How have you handled this in the past?

    Thanks team-

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  • Stone Is GodStone Is God Posts: 1,331
    Just hope it doesn't end up like this:

    http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,505151,00.html
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  • mfc2006mfc2006 HTOWN Posts: 37,484
    Stone Is God wrote:
    Just hope it doesn't end up like this:

    http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,505151,00.html

    :shock:
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    man, that is messed up!
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  • libragirllibragirl Posts: 4,632
    ugh..that's disgusting
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  • mca47mca47 Posts: 13,301
    Bad kissing is something that is almost impossible to get over.

    My ex was was terrible kisser. No matter what I tried she was stuck in her ways.
  • FoxyMopFoxyMop Posts: 303
    mca47 wrote:
    Bad kissing is something that is almost impossible to get over.

    My ex was was terrible kisser. No matter what I tried she was stuck in her ways.

    Did you flat out tell her she sucked? 8-)
  • Yellow LedbellyYellow Ledbelly Posts: 3,749
    Thoughts_Arrive wrote:
    Bite her tongue lol
    That was to be my suggestion...that'll teach a lesson or at least make it so she won't be kissing you again any time soon, but I would imagine that ain't exactly the outcome you are hoping for
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  • sweet adelinesweet adeline Posts: 2,191
    return the favor, start using more tongue yourself, see how she likes it.
  • AmentsChickAmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    Danimal wrote:
    Punch her in the face.

    (I'm kidding...don't do that.)

    hahahahahaha. That made me lol for some reason.
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  • AmentsChickAmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    soulsinging wrote:
    Spot In The Sky wrote:
    Were both 24, just started seeing each other and we had our first kiss last night but it was way too much tongue on her part, it took up like my whole mouth, had no room to maneuver.

    How do I address this respectively? How have you handled this in the past?

    Thanks team-

    There is no fixing a bad kisser. I've been trying for 2 years.

    Why are you with this gal? LOL!
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  • __ Posts: 6,651
    When she kisses you the way you like to be kissed, tell her how much you like it that way. Repeatedly.
  • Get_RightGet_Right Posts: 13,350
    you need to keep your mouth shut until you find out what else she can do

    perhaps that aggressive tongue is a blessing!
  • soulsingingsoulsinging Posts: 13,202
    AmentsChick wrote:
    soulsinging wrote:
    Spot In The Sky wrote:
    Were both 24, just started seeing each other and we had our first kiss last night but it was way too much tongue on her part, it took up like my whole mouth, had no room to maneuver.

    How do I address this respectively? How have you handled this in the past?

    Thanks team-

    There is no fixing a bad kisser. I've been trying for 2 years.

    Why are you with this gal? LOL!

    That's just about her only flaw. Other than that she's pretty fantastic. I keep hoping I'll stumble upon something I haven't thought of to help! :)
  • DanimalDanimal Posts: 2,000
    AmentsChick wrote:
    Danimal wrote:
    Punch her in the face.

    (I'm kidding...don't do that.)

    hahahahahaha. That made me lol for some reason.

    Because random acts of violence are hilarious.

    (Again...I am kidding.)
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  • mca47mca47 Posts: 13,301
    FoxyMop wrote:
    mca47 wrote:
    Bad kissing is something that is almost impossible to get over.

    My ex was was terrible kisser. No matter what I tried she was stuck in her ways.

    Did you flat out tell her she sucked? 8-)

    No, I just put up with it.

    Fortunately she made up for it in other areas. ;):D
  • mfc2006mfc2006 HTOWN Posts: 37,484
    mca47 wrote:
    FoxyMop wrote:
    mca47 wrote:
    Bad kissing is something that is almost impossible to get over.

    My ex was was terrible kisser. No matter what I tried she was stuck in her ways.

    Did you flat out tell her she sucked? 8-)

    No, I just put up with it.

    Fortunately she made up for it in other areas. ;):D

    too much info! :shock: heheh
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  • battan1120battan1120 Posts: 310
    Um.....I'll leave it at that. ;)
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  • fightingthesuburbsfightingthesuburbs Posts: 142
    My wife is a great kisser but in the past I've run into a few girls like this.

    Here's the trick that might help.

    You can't kiss full out all the time, pull back, and do very brief kisses between barely separated lips. the trick is to keep a tiny bit of separation so if there's tongue she won't be thrusting it out as much. You've just got to sell it like it's sexy.

    But yeah, otherwise too much tongue is never a bad thing. If she was scraping your tongue with her teeth, that would be a BAD sign ;)
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  • TheDecline13TheDecline13 Posts: 990
    Be Grateful she wants to stick her tongue in ur mouth... Maybe you are doing it wrong... :lol:
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  • libragirllibragirl Posts: 4,632
    TheDecline13 wrote:
    Be Grateful she wants to stick her tongue in ur mouth... Maybe you are doing it wrong... :lol:

    ha...I don't know..I just have reservations about someone posting a thread like this...it's like okay, talk to HER about the problem and could you imagine if she was a member of the board and saw this? :? Nice... :?
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