I didn't assume that you were...Just consider the fact that maybe this girl has some insecurity issues and maybe that's why she's being unfaithful. The one person who is definitely NOT at fault here is the boyfriend.
That's just my two cents. I do hope it works out for you...however that may be.
The one person who is definitely NOT at fault here is the boyfriend. .
That I would disagree with, only from things that she has said. But I don't know how it's going to pan out with them. I've decided that I don't really want to be a part of this, though. I was thinking alot about it today, and eventually, the other shoe is going to drop, and he's going to find out about it, and it is going to wreck him and/or ruin whatever they have going on.
And I don't want to be a part of that.
I'm going to call her in a bit and tell her I'm out.
"The dude abides. I don't know about you, but I take comfort in that. It's good knowin' he's out there. The Dude. Takin' her easy for all us sinners."
That I would disagree with, only from things that she has said. But I don't know how it's going to pan out with them. I've decided that I don't really want to be a part of this, though. I was thinking alot about it today, and eventually, the other shoe is going to drop, and he's going to find out about it, and it is going to wreck him and/or ruin whatever they have going on.
And I don't want to be a part of that.
I'm going to call her in a bit and tell her I'm out.
If you feel "terrible" about it...then don't do it. I mean...why be involved in something that makes you feel terrible?
that's what i was thinking. if you're already feeling bad about the situation, is that a foundation that you want to build a relationship on? i think that the answer is pretty clear. good luck.
Just to make sure we are all on the same page, I don't feel terrible about her. I feel bad about knocking around with some other guy's girl. I feel bad for him. But the reason I'm so conflicted is that I feel a real connection with her, and it's kind of outweighing my morals when it comes to "guy law" ie- not hopping in the sack with another dude's girl...
dude... if you really felt that bad about it you wouldn't have done it in the first place :roll:
That I would disagree with, only from things that she has said. But I don't know how it's going to pan out with them. I've decided that I don't really want to be a part of this, though. I was thinking alot about it today, and eventually, the other shoe is going to drop, and he's going to find out about it, and it is going to wreck him and/or ruin whatever they have going on.
And I don't want to be a part of that.
I'm going to call her in a bit and tell her I'm out.
Bravo! How'd it go?
It went OK, considering the circumstances. She understood, and it's probably for the best. Just sucks, because I really started to like her. At another time, maybe it would have worked out better. Oh well.
"The dude abides. I don't know about you, but I take comfort in that. It's good knowin' he's out there. The Dude. Takin' her easy for all us sinners."
If she did it to him, she can just as easily do it to you.
I once hooked up with a coworker on a few occasions... she was engaged to be married. I ended it eventually, it was mostly alcohol and dry spell infused anyway. However, later, the one woman that was the love of my life started hooking up with a guy on spring break and ended up leaving me for him. I've never really been the same. The point is, it's a shit thing to do and karma is a bitch.
I might be a little late saying this.....but this explains SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO much!
If she did it to him, she can just as easily do it to you.
I once hooked up with a coworker on a few occasions... she was engaged to be married. I ended it eventually, it was mostly alcohol and dry spell infused anyway. However, later, the one woman that was the love of my life started hooking up with a guy on spring break and ended up leaving me for him. I've never really been the same. The point is, it's a shit thing to do and karma is a bitch.
I might be a little late saying this.....but this explains SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO much!
j/k
Hehe, no joke about it I've been kicking around these boards a while, and people that knew me from the beginning can probably tell you I took a turn for the worse after that girl broke my heart. I used to be a hopelessly sappy romantic...
Or do I even want to be with a girl that would cheat on her boyfriend...
if she's cheating on him with you, whose to say she wont do it if you and her become a couple
you don't know the circumstances for her... you can't adhere that to everyone. Best not to judge, you never know what'll happen. We all do things we're ashamed of or said we'd never do.
"I'm not present, I'm a drug that makes you dream"
Hehe, no joke about it I've been kicking around these boards a while, and people that knew me from the beginning can probably tell you I took a turn for the worse after that girl broke my heart. I used to be a hopelessly sappy romantic...
So yeah, karma's a bitch!
Hmmmm....I'd like to think I'm still a hopeless romantic.....even though I've had girls shit on my heart
But maybe I have become a little more cynical of it all.
you don't know the circumstances for her... you can't adhere that to everyone. Best not to judge, you never know what'll happen. We all do things we're ashamed of or said we'd never do.
I think if she cheated on her boyfriend with you, she will cheat on you too. I think you should think about if that's the type of person you want to be with.
exactly...She's not innocent in the situation. Im not sure what the deal is with her and her boyfriend..he could be cheating on her too. But 2 wrongs don't make a right.
These cuts are leaving creases. Trace the scars to fit the pieces, to tell the story, you don't need to say a word.
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I didn't assume that you were...Just consider the fact that maybe this girl has some insecurity issues and maybe that's why she's being unfaithful. The one person who is definitely NOT at fault here is the boyfriend.
That's just my two cents. I do hope it works out for you...however that may be.
That I would disagree with, only from things that she has said. But I don't know how it's going to pan out with them. I've decided that I don't really want to be a part of this, though. I was thinking alot about it today, and eventually, the other shoe is going to drop, and he's going to find out about it, and it is going to wreck him and/or ruin whatever they have going on.
And I don't want to be a part of that.
I'm going to call her in a bit and tell her I'm out.
Bravo! How'd it go?
dude... if you really felt that bad about it you wouldn't have done it in the first place :roll:
It went OK, considering the circumstances. She understood, and it's probably for the best. Just sucks, because I really started to like her. At another time, maybe it would have worked out better. Oh well.
re·gret n. A feeling of disappointment or distress about something that one wishes could be different.
I might be a little late saying this.....but this explains SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO much!
j/k
Hehe, no joke about it
So yeah, karma's a bitch!
Sammi: Wanna just break up?
Hmmmm....I'd like to think I'm still a hopeless romantic.....even though I've had girls shit on my heart
But maybe I have become a little more cynical of it all.
Ain't that the damn truth!
exactly...She's not innocent in the situation. Im not sure what the deal is with her and her boyfriend..he could be cheating on her too. But 2 wrongs don't make a right.