My advice...since I am kind of going through the same thing...difference is we went on a few dates and talked for hours over the phone....then poof! Still sends me messages but declines all future meet-ups and still suggest alternate days...
So my advice is just to give up...do not call/message/e-mail her anymore...she has your number and the ball is in her court...continuing to try will not accomplish anything except to creep her out....also by doing this you will stop leading yourself on....which to me is the important thing to stop doing.....
Sucks, but there are more people out there and if she really is not talking to you because she does not have the nerve to say she is not interested you really do not want to be involved with that person anyway....also if she is in fact busy and is still interested she will get a hold of you if she is seriously into...regardless ball in her court and it is a win-win situation for you....hope that helps.
Pitsburg and Changing waves should get it on...and not ignore each other
thanks for the laugh.
Why is that so funny???????????????????? :roll:
Haha, jk. And I agree with most of the posters; I'm not interested in chasing anyone. I guess I was just feeling shitty the other night, and just pissed in general. Though, if the situation were ever reversed, I would definitely not just send a text, and either call on the phone or talk in person.
Maybe some guy from her past, or recent bf, came back into the scene. Anything may have happened. I wouldn't call her. Lt her call you. Or you could call her and say, "it seems you have been busy. If you ever want to take me up on that date, give me a call." And then leave your number.
I have done that. I have told a guy, yeah I want to go out, and then other things entered my life, but cuz I knew his number, and that he was still interested even though I blew him off, I called at a later time for that date. I have even waited along as almost a year, then called. Life happens and that was the first I really was free enough to go out with him.
Maybe some guy from her past, or recent bf, came back into the scene. Anything may have happened. I wouldn't call her. Lt her call you. Or you could call her and say, "it seems you have been busy. If you ever want to take me up on that date, give me a call." And then leave your number.
I have done that. I have told a guy, yeah I want to go out, and then other things entered my life, but cuz I knew his number, and that he was still interested even though I blew him off, I called at a later time for that date. I have even waited along as almost a year, then called. Life happens and that was the first I really was free enough to go out with him.
I mean, anything could have happened. What seems most likely to me is that she never really wanted to go out in the first place. If she ever calls me back, great; if not, whatever, I'm over it. I have other shit to do.
And, not to hijack my own thread or anything, but hockey is by far the best North American spectator sport to watch live. Though how anyone can be a Devils fan, after their brand of dull, interesting hockey almost ruined the sport in the mid-to-late 90's, is beyond me.
And, not to hijack my own thread or anything, but hockey is by far the best North American spectator sport to watch live. Though how anyone can be a Devils fan, after their brand of dull, interesting hockey almost ruined the sport in the mid-to-late 90's, is beyond me.
it's all my ex's fault... they were his team, i was "forced" to watch.
**as I sit here in a Canadiens sweat shirt (care of the ex as well!)
"I'm not present, I'm a drug that makes you dream"
[/quote] it's all my ex's fault... they were his team, i was "forced" to watch.
**as I sit here in a Canadiens sweat shirt (care of the ex as well!) [/quote]
An excellent reason for him now to be your ex. I say you send the Devils down the river, too
And, not to hijack my own thread or anything, but hockey is by far the best North American spectator sport to watch live. Though how anyone can be a Devils fan, after their brand of dull, interesting hockey almost ruined the sport in the mid-to-late 90's, is beyond me.
it's all my ex's fault... they were his team, i was "forced" to watch.
**as I sit here in a Canadiens sweat shirt (care of the ex as well!)
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You're welcome...but maybe I'm only half joking
So my advice is just to give up...do not call/message/e-mail her anymore...she has your number and the ball is in her court...continuing to try will not accomplish anything except to creep her out....also by doing this you will stop leading yourself on....which to me is the important thing to stop doing.....
Sucks, but there are more people out there and if she really is not talking to you because she does not have the nerve to say she is not interested you really do not want to be involved with that person anyway....also if she is in fact busy and is still interested she will get a hold of you if she is seriously into...regardless ball in her court and it is a win-win situation for you....hope that helps.
Why is that so funny???????????????????? :roll:
Haha, jk. And I agree with most of the posters; I'm not interested in chasing anyone. I guess I was just feeling shitty the other night, and just pissed in general. Though, if the situation were ever reversed, I would definitely not just send a text, and either call on the phone or talk in person.
I still haven't ruled this out, though
Uh-huh. Sure.
You 2 feel free to argue about that silly sport.
What don't you like??? That you 2 are free to argue, or that I don't like hockey??
I have done that. I have told a guy, yeah I want to go out, and then other things entered my life, but cuz I knew his number, and that he was still interested even though I blew him off, I called at a later time for that date. I have even waited along as almost a year, then called. Life happens and that was the first I really was free enough to go out with him.
I mean, anything could have happened. What seems most likely to me is that she never really wanted to go out in the first place. If she ever calls me back, great; if not, whatever, I'm over it. I have other shit to do.
And, not to hijack my own thread or anything, but hockey is by far the best North American spectator sport to watch live. Though how anyone can be a Devils fan, after their brand of dull, interesting hockey almost ruined the sport in the mid-to-late 90's, is beyond me.
**as I sit here in a Canadiens sweat shirt
**as I sit here in a Canadiens sweat shirt
An excellent reason for him now to be your ex. I say you send the Devils down the river, too
What? Canadiens?
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