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  • Heineken Helen
    Heineken Helen Posts: 18,095
    LikeAnOcean wrote:
    I have to reiterate before I go to bed, I'm 99.9% sure nothing will happen betweeen us. I'm just curious what opinions are if it did come down to a one night stand.. or a booty call buddy. I will never make the first move on her. She knows what she's doing. She has been married, has kids and is older, hopefully wiser than my horny ass.
    sounds like you're mature enough to deal with this anyway. It's a tough one but ya know the RIGHT answer is no :oops: although if your friend's not talking to you anymore anyway?????
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  • Hinn
    Hinn Posts: 1,517
    Go for her sister instead. You show your loyalty to your mate, and it's a surefire way to turn her right off!
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  • soulsinging
    soulsinging Posts: 13,202
    Hinn wrote:
    Go for her sister instead. You show your loyalty to your mate, and it's a surefire way to turn her right off!

    Good god man... that's brilliant!
  • mfc2006
    mfc2006 HTOWN Posts: 37,491
    i was in a similar situation several years ago. they broke up, she was crushed, we were all friends & were part of the same group of friends, etc, etc...
    one night, i invited everyone over to my place to watch the game, bbq & drink some beers. the game ended and she offered to stick around for a few minutes to help me clean up. (which wasn't unusual) so, we'd had some beers & we're cleaning up & next thing i know she is all over me. as i tried to push her off(which was hard to do..she was quite the looker), enter my buddy---her ex boyfriend. it's safe to say that he wasn't happy.

    because of her actions, i lost a few friends b/c they felt like they could no longer trust me. she said that i cam on to her & i tried again & again to tell them that it was the other way around.

    a few months later, when she was out drinking with some of those friends that i had lost, she got tipsy & told the truth and laughed it off. my friends didn't think that it was funny, and neither did i. i was happy to have my friends back & my buddy was even happier that he had dumped her.

    my advice is to think of your friend and not the sexual gratification. i know it's tough to do, but it's worth it in the end. just my .02!
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