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  • SPEEDY MCCREADYSPEEDY MCCREADY Posts: 25,887
    just BANG her and get it over with.......
    Take me piece by piece.....
    Till there aint nothing left worth taking away from me.....
  • LikeAnOceanLikeAnOcean Posts: 7,718
    edited February 2009
    SPEEDY MCCREADY wrote:
    just BANG her and get it over with.......


    Which brings me to the point, yeah she's an attractive woman and I'm pretty sure she's attracted to me, but given the scenario, where would the line be drawn if it comes down to things looking bad between her and my friend.

    A relationship is out of the question. If down the line she uses me, should I let her use me?
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  • SPEEDY MCCREADYSPEEDY MCCREADY Posts: 25,887
    LikeAnOcean wrote:
    SPEEDY MCCREADY wrote:
    just BANG her and get it over with.......
    In my wet dreams.. lol.

    Which brings me to the point, yeah I'm attracted to her and I'm pretty sure she's attracted to me, but given the scenario, where would the line be drawn if it comes down to things looking bad between her and my friend.

    A relationship is out of the question. If down the line she uses me, should I let her use me?
    again....

    just bang her and get it over with..............


    should you let her use you???? absolutely
    Take me piece by piece.....
    Till there aint nothing left worth taking away from me.....
  • LikeAnOceanLikeAnOcean Posts: 7,718
    SPEEDY MCCREADY wrote:
    LikeAnOcean wrote:
    SPEEDY MCCREADY wrote:
    just BANG her and get it over with.......
    In my wet dreams.. lol.

    Which brings me to the point, yeah I'm attracted to her and I'm pretty sure she's attracted to me, but given the scenario, where would the line be drawn if it comes down to things looking bad between her and my friend.

    A relationship is out of the question. If down the line she uses me, should I let her use me?
    again....

    just bang her and get it over with..............


    should you let her use you???? absolutely
    I just feel like I might end up on an episode of Jerry Springer. Thats all. ;)
  • your move nowyour move now Posts: 1,165
    don't let her use you. seriously. Not if shes as hung up on your mate as you said she'll end up regretting it and cause an awful mess.
    If you want to be a "good guy" and "do the right thing" know where to draw the line
    I don't mean to offend anyone, a lot of what I say should be taken with a grain of salt... that said for most of you I'm a stranger on a computer on the other side of the world, don't give me that sort of power!
  • SPEEDY MCCREADYSPEEDY MCCREADY Posts: 25,887
    your_move_now wrote:
    don't let her use you. seriously. Not if shes as hung up on your mate as you said she'll end up regretting it and cause an awful mess.
    If you want to be a "good guy" and "do the right thing" know where to draw the line
    i disagree....

    he should sleep with her EVERY SINGLE CHANCE HE GETS!!!!!
    Take me piece by piece.....
    Till there aint nothing left worth taking away from me.....
  • LikeAnOceanLikeAnOcean Posts: 7,718
    edited February 2009
    your_move_now wrote:
    don't let her use you. seriously. Not if shes as hung up on your mate as you said she'll end up regretting it and cause an awful mess.
    If you want to be a "good guy" and "do the right thing" know where to draw the line
    She wants to come over and drink..Does it count if you can't remember clearly???

    I'm kidding. I'll do the "right" thing.. I'm not the type who wouldn't,.. unless I'm really impaired and she jumps me ;). She is about 6 years older than me and my friend in her mid 30s so I'm sure she knows what she's doing. Thanks for the input.
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  • SPEEDY MCCREADYSPEEDY MCCREADY Posts: 25,887
    LikeAnOcean wrote:
    your_move_now wrote:
    don't let her use you. seriously. Not if shes as hung up on your mate as you said she'll end up regretting it and cause an awful mess.
    If you want to be a "good guy" and "do the right thing" know where to draw the line
    She wants to come over and drink..

    Does it count if you can't remember clearly???

    I'm kidding. I'll do the "right" thing.. I'm not the type who wouldn't,.. unless I'm really impaired and she jumps me ;). She is about 6 years older than me and my friend in her mid 30s so I'm sure she knows what she's doing. Thanks for the input.
    one day you will say....

    "why the fuck didnt i just listen to SPEEDY????"
    Take me piece by piece.....
    Till there aint nothing left worth taking away from me.....
  • LikeAnOceanLikeAnOcean Posts: 7,718
    SPEEDY MCCREADY wrote:
    LikeAnOcean wrote:
    your_move_now wrote:
    don't let her use you. seriously. Not if shes as hung up on your mate as you said she'll end up regretting it and cause an awful mess.
    If you want to be a "good guy" and "do the right thing" know where to draw the line
    She wants to come over and drink..

    Does it count if you can't remember clearly???

    I'm kidding. I'll do the "right" thing.. I'm not the type who wouldn't,.. unless I'm really impaired and she jumps me ;). She is about 6 years older than me and my friend in her mid 30s so I'm sure she knows what she's doing. Thanks for the input.
    on day you will say....

    "why the fuck didnt i just listen to SPEEDY????"
    Like I said, her and I can keep a secret. :)

    This is all just a fantasy anyways.

    I'd rather see her get back with my best friend than get some great sex out of it.

    I'm really doing it to help them, but because I'm a man, its always in the back of my mind.
  • SPEEDY MCCREADYSPEEDY MCCREADY Posts: 25,887
    LikeAnOcean wrote:
    SPEEDY MCCREADY wrote:
    LikeAnOcean wrote:
    on day you will say....

    "why the fuck didnt i just listen to SPEEDY????"
    Like I said, her and I can keep a secret. :)

    This is all just a fantasy anyways.

    I'd rather see her get back with my best friend than get some great sex out of it.

    I'm really doing it to help them, but because I'm a man, its always in the back of my mind.
    you no longer complete me....

    you fucking disgust me............

    hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha................
    Take me piece by piece.....
    Till there aint nothing left worth taking away from me.....
  • LikeAnOceanLikeAnOcean Posts: 7,718
    edited February 2009
    Speedy, it's more out of respect for my childhood best friend and drinking bud.

    Did I mention he's a die hard Cubs fan who buys season tickets?

    Then again.. ;)
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  • SPEEDY MCCREADYSPEEDY MCCREADY Posts: 25,887
    LikeAnOcean wrote:
    Speedy, it's more out of respect for my childhood best friend and drinking bud.

    Did I mention he's a die hard Cubs fan who buys seaon tickets?

    Then again.. ;)
    hes a cubs fan????

    well thats explains why she is over at your place trying to get you in bed(in case you havent realized this yet)

    she realizes her ex is a blithering idiot.....just like the rest of us cubs fans.........

    hehehehehe
    Take me piece by piece.....
    Till there aint nothing left worth taking away from me.....
  • LikeAnOceanLikeAnOcean Posts: 7,718
    SPEEDY MCCREADY wrote:
    LikeAnOcean wrote:
    Speedy, it's more out of respect for my childhood best friend and drinking bud.

    Did I mention he's a die hard Cubs fan who buys seaon tickets?

    Then again.. ;)
    hes a cubs fan????

    well thats explains why she is over at your place trying to get you in bed(in case you havent realized this yet)

    she realizes her ex is a blithering idiot.....just like the rest of us cubs fans.........

    hehehehehe
    You nailed it right on the head Speedy. ;)
  • LikeAnOceanLikeAnOcean Posts: 7,718
    edited February 2009
    I have to reiterate before I go to bed, I'm 99.9% sure nothing will happen betweeen us. I'm just curious what opinions are if it did come down to a one night stand. I will never make a first move on her. She knows what she's doing. She has been married, has kids and is older, hopefully wiser than me.
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  • __ Posts: 6,651
    LikeAnOcean wrote:
    My best friend just broke up with his girlfriend of three years.

    He actually dumped her, or at least said "he needed a break".

    She is madly in love with him, and is not ready to accept it.

    She is also very good friends with his friends, myself included and is close to his family.

    So I've been counciling her. Trying to give her hope. My best friend won't tell me shit, so I'm assuming he really does need a break, or maybe more than just a break. I'm not sure.

    Anyways, SHE wants to hang out with me. We have a Sunday planned together. She's already been to my place twice this week.

    Now she's a really cool girl, I think my friend is crazy for dropping her.


    Am I doing the right thing helping her through this? Me and her are good friends, even if my best friend pretty much dumped her.

    She doesn't have very many friends, so she's using me because we are already friends and I'm the closest thing she has to the one she loves. I literally have been hanging out with my best friend 3 out of 7 days a week since he dumped her.

    And at what points do I need to draw the line? I could never have a "serious" relationship with her. There's no way I would do that to my best friend, our friends and so forth..

    Ah life..

    Again, am I doing the right thing?

    When I was in high school, I became really good friends with my best friend's boyfriend. The three of us hung out together all the time. We were totally just friends, despite the fact that I found him attractive. When they broke up and he was heartbroken (and it seemed like my friend was the one at fault) I was "there for him" as a good friend. He came on to me and I was tempted, but I never so much as kissed him.

    I haven't seen him since high school. My best friend and I had a huge falling out over it. Not only did she mistakenly think I had hooked up with him, but she thought it was wrong of me to hang out with him regardless. She and I made up eventually, but to this day - 15 years later - she still holds it against me. Our friendship over the years has had some serious ups and downs (currently on a down) and I'm sure this brief period that seemed so insignificant in high school is partly to blame.

    Just some food for thought. Good luck.
  • SPEEDY MCCREADYSPEEDY MCCREADY Posts: 25,887
    Soulsinging!!!!!!!!!!!!

    give this guy some advice....

    he just wont listen to me..............................
    Take me piece by piece.....
    Till there aint nothing left worth taking away from me.....
  • soulsingingsoulsinging Posts: 13,202
    LikeAnOcean wrote:
    SPEEDY MCCREADY wrote:
    just BANG her and get it over with.......
    In my wet dreams.. lol.

    Which brings me to the point, yeah I'm attracted to her and I'm pretty sure she's attracted to me, but given the scenario, where would the line be drawn if it comes down to things looking bad between her and my friend.

    A relationship is out of the question. If down the line she uses me, should I let her use me?

    If she truly loved him, then her attraction to you probably has nothing to do with you and everything to do with her 1) wanting a rebound and 2) wanting to get back at your friend and her ex. Not that there's anything wrong with that. Just be sure the pussy's worth your buddy potentially cutting your balls off. If she's hot, fuck her silly and just tell him it's his own damn fault for blowing it. Just don't fall for her or anything stupid, because you're nothing to her but a means to an end.
  • your move nowyour move now Posts: 1,165
    yeah but if shes upset and just using you probably isnt thinking straight.
    Good Luck
    I don't mean to offend anyone, a lot of what I say should be taken with a grain of salt... that said for most of you I'm a stranger on a computer on the other side of the world, don't give me that sort of power!
  • SPEEDY MCCREADYSPEEDY MCCREADY Posts: 25,887
    soulsinging wrote:
    LikeAnOcean wrote:
    SPEEDY MCCREADY wrote:
    just BANG her and get it over with.......
    In my wet dreams.. lol.

    Which brings me to the point, yeah I'm attracted to her and I'm pretty sure she's attracted to me, but given the scenario, where would the line be drawn if it comes down to things looking bad between her and my friend.

    A relationship is out of the question. If down the line she uses me, should I let her use me?

    If she truly loved him, then her attraction to you probably has nothing to do with you and everything to do with her 1) wanting a rebound and 2) wanting to get back at your friend and her ex. Not that there's anything wrong with that. Just be sure the pussy's worth your buddy potentially cutting your balls off. If she's hot, fuck her silly and just tell him it's his own damn fault for blowing it. Just don't fall for her or anything stupid, because you're nothing to her but a means to an end.
    thank you.........
    Take me piece by piece.....
    Till there aint nothing left worth taking away from me.....
  • soulsingingsoulsinging Posts: 13,202
    SPEEDY MCCREADY wrote:
    thank you.........

    No problem. I posted that before I read the call to arms... you know me too well!
  • Heineken HelenHeineken Helen Posts: 18,095
    LikeAnOcean wrote:
    I have to reiterate before I go to bed, I'm 99.9% sure nothing will happen betweeen us. I'm just curious what opinions are if it did come down to a one night stand.. or a booty call buddy. I will never make the first move on her. She knows what she's doing. She has been married, has kids and is older, hopefully wiser than my horny ass.
    sounds like you're mature enough to deal with this anyway. It's a tough one but ya know the RIGHT answer is no :oops: although if your friend's not talking to you anymore anyway?????
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  • HinnHinn Posts: 1,517
    Go for her sister instead. You show your loyalty to your mate, and it's a surefire way to turn her right off!
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  • soulsingingsoulsinging Posts: 13,202
    Hinn wrote:
    Go for her sister instead. You show your loyalty to your mate, and it's a surefire way to turn her right off!

    Good god man... that's brilliant!
  • mfc2006mfc2006 HTOWN Posts: 37,484
    i was in a similar situation several years ago. they broke up, she was crushed, we were all friends & were part of the same group of friends, etc, etc...
    one night, i invited everyone over to my place to watch the game, bbq & drink some beers. the game ended and she offered to stick around for a few minutes to help me clean up. (which wasn't unusual) so, we'd had some beers & we're cleaning up & next thing i know she is all over me. as i tried to push her off(which was hard to do..she was quite the looker), enter my buddy---her ex boyfriend. it's safe to say that he wasn't happy.

    because of her actions, i lost a few friends b/c they felt like they could no longer trust me. she said that i cam on to her & i tried again & again to tell them that it was the other way around.

    a few months later, when she was out drinking with some of those friends that i had lost, she got tipsy & told the truth and laughed it off. my friends didn't think that it was funny, and neither did i. i was happy to have my friends back & my buddy was even happier that he had dumped her.

    my advice is to think of your friend and not the sexual gratification. i know it's tough to do, but it's worth it in the end. just my .02!
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