One day you will wake up and realize that you deserve to be truly happy and that it's over. And until then, you will continue to be miserable. But that decision can only come from you. It's not easy, it's something that takes a lot of guts but it will come down to the fact that the bad outweighs the good and you want to leave before you become bitter and spiteful towards that other person that at one point you truly loved with all your being.
It's better to be alone and happy than with someone that brings you down. Happiness comes from within and we create that ourselves.
"Only two things are infinite, the universe and human stupidity, and I'm not sure about the former. "
Albert Einstein (1879-1955)
I think time all alone with nothing but their own thoughts is a lot of people's greatest fear.
you hit it dead on!!! being alone is better than wishing you were.
As other people have said, stop with the "they need to read my mind so they can ask me how I feel" thing. Be blunt, direct and tell your partner "I am not happy and 'this' is what I am looking for from you". open up the lines of communication and tell them what you're feeling/thinking. How do you know your partner isn't unhappy too? Maybe they're playing the same role "they should follow me outside to ask me what is wrong!"
If they choose to ignore you then it's time to move on. Life is far too short to live unhappy with someone. It's unfair to you and to them.
believe it or not, we don't "need" anything. that is only the spoiled brat in us trying to fill some temporary solution to an emptyness that does not exist.
I have eaten so much gold I crapped excellence - drtyfrnk29
Life is either a daring adventure or nothing at all!
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It's better to be alone and happy than with someone that brings you down. Happiness comes from within and we create that ourselves.
Albert Einstein (1879-1955)
I saw Hard To Imagine LIVE at MSG!
you hit it dead on!!! being alone is better than wishing you were.
As other people have said, stop with the "they need to read my mind so they can ask me how I feel" thing. Be blunt, direct and tell your partner "I am not happy and 'this' is what I am looking for from you". open up the lines of communication and tell them what you're feeling/thinking. How do you know your partner isn't unhappy too? Maybe they're playing the same role "they should follow me outside to ask me what is wrong!"
If they choose to ignore you then it's time to move on. Life is far too short to live unhappy with someone. It's unfair to you and to them.
I have eaten so much gold I crapped excellence - drtyfrnk29
Life is either a daring adventure or nothing at all!