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  • decides2dream
    decides2dream Posts: 14,977
    comebackgirl wrote:
    of course! :D

    and I agree. I think this would be a difficult position for any friend to be in..ex-boyfriend or not. Most people can probably benefit from someone outside of the relationship lending an ear from time to time...but in the end these things can only be worked out with one's partner.



    so really then, your love is based on self-love. ;)



    absolutely. that's the thing. sometimes you need a friend to be objective, just to listen and then tell you hey...wake up! go talk to your SPOUSE about this and figure out what YOU want. it seems so simple, but really...we all need such from time to time.
    Stay with me...
    Let's just breathe...


    I am myself like you somehow


  • comebackwoman
    comebackwoman Posts: 7,271
    decides2dream wrote:
    so really then, your love is based on self-love. ;)



    absolutely. that's the thing. sometimes you need a friend to be objective, just to listen and then tell you hey...wake up! go talk to your SPOUSE about this and figure out what YOU want. it seems so simple, but really...we all need such from time to time.
    well that...and the fact that great minds think alike :D

    I think a lot of us do this in all sorts of relationships. I know I do. I might complain about a co-worker, my mom, etc...and I want someone to listen, but if I go on about it long enough, it usually helps to hear them say "maybe you need to talk to her/him/them about that." That's when I realize that although I've been doing a lot of venting/complaining/etc...I may not be doing much to resolve the situation.
    There's a light when my baby's in my arms :)
  • decides2dream
    decides2dream Posts: 14,977
    comebackgirl wrote:
    well that...and the fact that great minds think alike :D

    I think a lot of us do this in all sorts of relationships. I know I do. I might complain about a co-worker, my mom, etc...and I want someone to listen, but if I go on about it long enough, it usually helps to hear them say "maybe you need to talk to her/him/them about that." That's when I realize that although I've been doing a lot of venting/complaining/etc...I may not be doing much to resolve the situation.




    eggsactly. :)



    sometimes we need someone else to point out the obvious to us.
    Stay with me...
    Let's just breathe...


    I am myself like you somehow


  • RolandTD20Kdrummer
    RolandTD20Kdrummer Posts: 13,066
    I can hear it now....

    "well my ex-boyfriend suggests we ...."

    hahhahaaa

    get the fuck out of town...
    Progress is not made by everyone joining some new fad,
    and reveling in it's loyalty. It's made by forming coalitions
    over specific principles, goals, and policies.

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