i'm confused, are you?

lalalalaaaaaaaa

genie wrote:

i think i'm numb, i'm also very confused as to what i want from life.

IMO, another person can't resolve that stuff for you...you have to do that on your own. The numbness is never taken away from you by someone...you have to drive it out on your own. The confusion is different, and it'll always be there to some degree, but it seems to get less and less over time...especially if you're making things happen and inspiring yourself to combat the numbness. Then you start to see what's really important and what's not.

genie

South of Seattle wrote:

Listen to Urban Hippie

I just figured you meant a guy when you said Soulmate, that's all.

Try a new adventurous activity, like Sea Kayaking or something You'll meet some cool friends and you'll have adventure friends to go trip with.

but you see that's where i'm misunderstood why should a soulmate be a person of the opposite sex or someone i fancy.

genie

Saturnal wrote:

IMO, another person can't resolve that stuff for you...you have to do that on your own. The numbness is never taken away from you by someone...you have to drive it out on your own. The confusion is different, and it'll always be there to some degree, but it seems to get less and less over time...especially if you're making things happen and inspiring yourself to combat the numbness. Then you start to see what's really important and what's not.

when i was younger i knew exactly what i wanted from life and who i was, but now that i'm changing and developing interest to new things and being influenced by people with weird outlook on life, and can see some limitations, and how other people lived their life, i don't know how to go about things

lalalalaaaaaaaa

genie wrote:

when i was younger i knew exactly what i wanted from life and who i was, but now that i'm changing and developing interest to new things and being influenced by people with weird outlook on life, and can see some limitations, and how other people lived their life, i don't know how to go about things

mhmmm, I'd say it was the same for me. The more you're exposed to the world, the less sense it makes. Most people don't want to deal with this and think about this...that's why things like TV are so popular

There's no guide as to how to go about doing things and finding inspiration in your life...just keep in touch with what makes you really excited or happy deep down inside, and you should be generally ok imo.

genie

Saturnal wrote:

mhmmm, I'd say it was the same for me. The more you're exposed to the world, the less sense it makes. Most people don't want to deal with this and think about this...that's why things like TV are so popular

There's no guide as to how to go about doing things and finding inspiration in your life...just keep in touch with what makes you really excited or happy deep down inside, and you should be generally ok imo.

that's what i'm going to do now, i'm going to go out to see a burlesque show, with some dude that i dont fancy but i asked him to come along with me cause no one else could. speak to ya all later

Fahka

genie wrote:

i think i'm numb, i'm also very confused as to what i want from life, i'm not even sure if relationship is what i need. i think what i badly need is a soulmate or an adventure seeking buddy.

i think everyone feels like this.... So yes.. i hear ya! I'm always feeling confused and baffled. Good luck on the soulmate/seekerbuddy

polaris

genie wrote:

how is it superficial? it's far from it. so what's not superficial then, describe it to me?

firstly - don't take this the wrong way as most of us fall into this category ...

but what you are looking for is a companion that suits your own personal needs - those needs can change from day to day week to week ... the components of which are essentially superficial ... you are not necessarily looking to establish a connection where you give as well as you get ...

Heineken Helen

genie wrote:

well i'd be proactive, but i've got no one at the moment with whom i can have fun, i need someone who says "yes", spontaneous, flexible with time, has enough money to have fun, who can be trusted and relied on, and with wicked personality. so far i've found no one who's like that. someone who tries to work things out if i do something wrong.

sounds like me... except for the having enough money part

Brisk.

genie wrote:

share it, tell me what you're confused about?

women!

stickboy

genie wrote:

i think i'm numb, i'm also very confused as to what i want from life, i'm not even sure if relationship is what i need. i think what i badly need is a soulmate or an adventure seeking buddy.

not feeling too confused these days but sure an adventure buddy or finding my soulmate would be cool

genie

Heineken Helen wrote:

sounds like me... except for the having enough money part

i was going to go, but then i saw your post. i enjoyed talking to you that day, that shark story stuck in my head, i thought it was a really brave and daring thing to do. too bad this burlesque show is on today, otherwise i would've asked you to come! yeah, money issue is affecting me now, i've got some many things i want to plan and few gigs i want to go but don't know if i'll have enough.

Heineken Helen

genie wrote:

i was going to go, but then i saw your post. i enjoyed talking to you that day, that shark story stuck in my head, i thought it was a really brave and daring thing to do. too bad this burlesque show is on today, otherwise i would've asked you to come! yeah, money issue is affecting me now, i've got some many things i want to plan and few gigs i want to go but don't know if i'll have enough.

I really enjoyed talking to you too... we'll definitely have to do it again sometime I know what ya mean... SOOOOOOOOOO much I want to do but I just don't have the money right now... maybe when I get a job I'll be able to do much more at weekends and stuff.