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i'm confused, are you?

geniegenie Posts: 2,222
edited December 2008 in All Encompassing Trip
i think i'm numb, i'm also very confused as to what i want from life, i'm not even sure if relationship is what i need. i think what i badly need is a soulmate or an adventure seeking buddy.
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  • South of SeattleSouth of Seattle West Seattle Posts: 10,724
    Join the peace corps? ;):p
    NERDS!
  • nuffingmannuffingman Posts: 3,014
    I think you need to get laid!!! :cool:
  • geniegenie Posts: 2,222
    South of Seattle wrote:
    Join the peace corps? ;):p

    :D good suggestion, but the kind of adventure i'm talking about would not fit in with their standards, what i want will be wild for them ;)
  • geniegenie Posts: 2,222
    nuffingman wrote:
    I think you need to get laid!!! :cool:

    ha!....nah, thanks i had sex and it won't solve my want for something meaningful and fun
  • nuffingmannuffingman Posts: 3,014
    genie wrote:
    ha!....nah, thanks i had sex and it won't solve my want for something meaningful and fun
    I know what you mean. Sex is OK but I prefer the real thing.
  • zacman13245zacman13245 Posts: 294
    i'm searching for something meaningful and fun to, I need an adventure and I'm just waiting for one to pop up, I wish I was more proactive about it.
    I'm spinning, oh, I'm spinning

    6/30/2008 - Mansfield, MA.
    5/17/2010 - Boston, MA
    9/3/2011 - East Troy, WI (PJ20)
    9/4/2011 - East Troy, WI (PJ20)
  • geniegenie Posts: 2,222
    nuffingman wrote:
    I know what you mean. Sex is OK but I prefer the real thing.

    what real thing are you talking about?
  • South of SeattleSouth of Seattle West Seattle Posts: 10,724
    genie wrote:
    :D good suggestion, but the kind of adventure i'm talking about would not fit in with their standards, what i want will be wild for them ;)

    You think you're so wild don't you ;):D
    NERDS!
  • polarispolaris Posts: 3,527
    what you are experiencing is an awakening of sorts ... the real you is coming out ... if you have gone thru your share of good and bad relationships and are independent by nature then you are probably looking for a connection that transcends the superficial nature of most of our relationships ...
  • nuffingmannuffingman Posts: 3,014
    genie wrote:
    what real thing are you talking about?
    "Sex is OK but I prefer the real thing" was a piece of graffiti I saw in a book. It's always amused me. Then again I'm easily amused.
  • geniegenie Posts: 2,222
    zacman13245 wrote:
    i'm searching for something meaningful and fun to, I need an adventure and I'm just waiting for one to pop up, I wish I was more proactive about it.

    well i'd be proactive, but i've got no one at the moment with whom i can have fun, i need someone who says "yes", spontaneous, flexible with time, has enough money to have fun, who can be trusted and relied on, and with wicked personality. so far i've found no one who's like that. someone who tries to work things out if i do something wrong.
  • geniegenie Posts: 2,222
    South of Seattle wrote:
    You think you're so wild don't you ;):D

    :D i can't realise my full potential unfortunately
  • zacman13245zacman13245 Posts: 294
    genie wrote:
    well i'd be proactive, but i've got no one at the moment with whom i can have fun, i need someone who says "yes", spontaneous, flexible with time, has enough money to have fun, who can be trusted and relied on, and with wicked personality. so far i've found no one who's like that. someone who tries to work things out if i do something wrong.
    true, adventures suck alone, or with an unwilling participant.
    I'm spinning, oh, I'm spinning

    6/30/2008 - Mansfield, MA.
    5/17/2010 - Boston, MA
    9/3/2011 - East Troy, WI (PJ20)
    9/4/2011 - East Troy, WI (PJ20)
  • saveuplifesaveuplife Posts: 1,173
    genie wrote:
    i think i'm numb, i'm also very confused as to what i want from life, i'm not even sure if relationship is what i need. i think what i badly need is a soulmate or an adventure seeking buddy.


    Get a beagle.
  • geniegenie Posts: 2,222
    saveuplife wrote:
    Get a beagle.

    aw, that's so cute! but no as much as i love dogs i need someone to talk to and go to social places with.
  • saveuplifesaveuplife Posts: 1,173
    genie wrote:
    aw, that's so cute! but no as much as i love dogs i need someone to talk to and go to social places with.


    They can do that. They howl. And there are doggie bars.
  • geniegenie Posts: 2,222
    polaris wrote:
    what you are experiencing is an awakening of sorts ... the real you is coming out ... if you have gone thru your share of good and bad relationships and are independent by nature then you are probably looking for a connection that transcends the superficial nature of most of our relationships ...

    i don't think i'm independent, that's why i want someone with me, who will not suffocate me but will be there for me and share good times. like a companion
  • geniegenie Posts: 2,222
    saveuplife wrote:
    They can do that. They howl. And there are doggie bars.

    :D you're joker! doggie bars sound interesting, i should check them out i wonder if they do "pedigree" cocktail
  • polarispolaris Posts: 3,527
    genie wrote:
    i don't think i'm independent, that's why i want someone with me, who will not suffocate me but will be there for me and share good times. like a companion

    oh ... so, it would seem you are looking for the superficial - in which case, it's a crap shoot because by its nature superficiality has no depth and is always fleeting ...
  • geniegenie Posts: 2,222
    polaris wrote:
    oh ... so, it would seem you are looking for the superficial - in which case, it's a crap shoot because by its nature superficiality has no depth and is always fleeting ...

    how is it superficial? it's far from it. so what's not superficial then, describe it to me?
  • saveuplifesaveuplife Posts: 1,173
    genie wrote:
    :D you're joker! doggie bars sound interesting, i should check them out i wonder if they do "pedigree" cocktail


    Doggie bars are great. Awesome conversation starter, you can drink, dogs have a blast.
  • South of SeattleSouth of Seattle West Seattle Posts: 10,724
    polaris wrote:
    oh ... so, it would seem you are looking for the superficial - in which case, it's a crap shoot because by its nature superficiality has no depth and is always fleeting ...

    Sounds like Genie is looking for the perfect "Friends With Benefits" situation to me.

    I'm just wondering why no man from London on this board has chimed in and offered at this point? :confused::)
    NERDS!
  • geniegenie Posts: 2,222
    South of Seattle wrote:
    Sounds like Genie is looking for the perfect "Friends With Benefits" situation to me.

    I'm just wondering why no man from London on this board has chimed in and offered at this point? :confused::)

    why do men think about sex instantly? did i ever mention sex in my posts - no. i don't want benefits, i just want erm.... comradeship i don't even know if it's the right word to describe what i'm looking for.
  • South of SeattleSouth of Seattle West Seattle Posts: 10,724
    genie wrote:
    why do men think about sex instantly? did i ever mention sex in my posts - no. i don't want benefits, i just want erm.... comradeship i don't even know if it's the right word to describe what i'm looking for.

    I didn't say it instantly, it took me a few posts. :D

    Normally the kind of adventures you're seeking can get uncomfortable when there's no benefits. Only because most guys will think that it will lead to it anyway. Especially if you get along great and have fun adventures with this person. He'll think "I've found the best girl ever" It's kind of a natural instinct for most
    NERDS!
  • geniegenie Posts: 2,222
    South of Seattle wrote:
    I didn't say it instantly, it took me a few posts. :D

    Normally the kind of adventures you're seeking can get uncomfortable when there's no benefits. Only because most guys will think that it will lead to it anyway. Especially if you get along great and have fun adventures with this person. He'll think "I've found the best girl ever" It's kind of a natural instinct for most

    did i say i wanted this person to be a guy? ;):p this person can be either male or female, their age don't bother me much either, and their sexuality can be anything. in fact all i want is great upbeat fun personality.
  • urbanhippieurbanhippie Posts: 3,007
    Seems to me you're just looking for a really good friend. Who says it has to be a man? The best way to get this without confusion over 'benefits' might be to find some girlfriends you can share these kinda things with.

    What kind of things do you like to do? Maybe joining some kind of adventure club is the best way to hook up with like minded people?


    Edit: You beat me to it :)
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  • angie76angie76 Posts: 646
    maybe you need to go on a vision quest
    Dig a ditch deep enough
    To keep you clear of the sun
    You've been burned more than once
    You don't think much of trust
  • Brisk.Brisk. Posts: 11,563
    Oh im very confused all right.
  • South of SeattleSouth of Seattle West Seattle Posts: 10,724
    genie wrote:
    did i say i wanted this person to be a guy? ;):p this person can be either male or female, their age don't bother me much either, and their sexuality can be anything. in fact all i want is great upbeat fun personality.

    Listen to Urban Hippie :)

    I just figured you meant a guy when you said Soulmate, that's all.

    Try a new adventurous activity, like Sea Kayaking or something :D You'll meet some cool friends and you'll have adventure friends to go trip with.
    NERDS!
  • geniegenie Posts: 2,222
    I BrisK I wrote:
    Oh im very confused all right.

    share it, tell me what you're confused about?
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