WTF is wrong with me?!

Drop The Leash 10
Drop The Leash 10 Posts: 7,011
edited May 2008 in All Encompassing Trip
why the hell am i so shy??!?!??! around chicks for that matter. i wanna talk to them, but can never get to talk to them.












if any of you put "youre gay" i will b*tch slap you via telephone
I will be what i could be
Once I get out of this town


9/29/04;6/27/08;6/30/08;8/23/09;08/24/09;5/17/10
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  • GraySaturday
    GraySaturday Posts: 2,878
    Don't you have a girlfriend? You must have talked to her...

    be careful how many chicks you talk to in front of her, or she might bitch slap you WITH a telephone :p
  • norm
    norm Posts: 31,146
    dude i was the same when i was your age....best advice from me is to just go for it....you might get shot down but you'll never build confidence without trying....:)
  • Drop The Leash 10
    Drop The Leash 10 Posts: 7,011
    GraySaturday wrote:
    Don't you have a girlfriend? You must have talked to her...

    be careful how many chicks you talk to in front of her, or she might bitch slap you WITH a telephone :p
    long long story but she is history
    I will be what i could be
    Once I get out of this town


    9/29/04;6/27/08;6/30/08;8/23/09;08/24/09;5/17/10
  • eMMI
    eMMI Posts: 6,262
    some people just are shy. nothing wrong with that. :) just tough it out and go talk to someone, you'll be fine. :D
    "Don't be faint-hearted, I have a solution! We shall go and commandeer some small craft, then drift at leisure until we happen upon another ideal place for our waterside supper with riparian entertainments."
  • GraySaturday
    GraySaturday Posts: 2,878
    Drop The Leash 10 wrote:
    long long story but she is history


    her loss..

    she obviously was lame then.. pppfffffttttt :)
  • norm
    norm Posts: 31,146
    Drop The Leash 10 wrote:
    long long story but she is history

    well what did ya do to get her? you must have some sort of rap, no?
  • TrixieCat
    TrixieCat Posts: 5,756
    cutback wrote:
    well what did ya do to get her? you must have some sort of rap, no?
    Some sort of rap??? :p

    Aw..you will be fine. I am not saying this as a negative but you are still so young...you will find your voice. You are a good person. That is what matters.
    Promise. :)
    Cause I'm broken when I'm lonesome
    And I don't feel right when you're gone away
  • Drop The Leash 10
    Drop The Leash 10 Posts: 7,011
    cutback wrote:
    well what did ya do to get her? you must have some sort of rap, no?
    rap hahaha. no she came after me in a sense.
    I will be what i could be
    Once I get out of this town


    9/29/04;6/27/08;6/30/08;8/23/09;08/24/09;5/17/10
  • josevolution
    josevolution Posts: 31,793
    experience will make you better as far as getting the chicks, your young enjoy your youth show confidence in your self ....whoa how many y's did i just write
    jesus greets me looks just like me ....
  • Rhinocerous Surprise
    Rhinocerous Surprise Posts: 4,423
    You're a nerd who posts on a Pearl Jam message board. Get used to it. We're all in the same boat. :D
    Smokey Robinson constantly looks like he's trying to act natural after being accused of farting.
  • kh65
    kh65 Posts: 946
    I used to be like that too. It is easy for people to say just go out and talk to them. It can take a while to feel that comfortable. I find it easier one on one than when I'm around a group of friends.
    "If you're not living on the edge you're taking up too much room."

    Gambling=a taxation on stupidity.

    Remember, you can walk anywhere, as long as you have the time.

    http://www.ryanmontbleauband.com/

    http://www.myspace.com/jessedee
  • Drop The Leash 10
    Drop The Leash 10 Posts: 7,011
    kh65 wrote:
    I used to be like that too. It is easy for people to say just go out and talk to them. It can take a while to feel that comfortable. I find it easier one on one than when I'm around a group of friends.
    exactly! one on one is much mor comfortable
    I will be what i could be
    Once I get out of this town


    9/29/04;6/27/08;6/30/08;8/23/09;08/24/09;5/17/10
  • Jeremy1012
    Jeremy1012 Posts: 7,170
    Man up. Go up to these girls and say "ladies, my name is Colby and I have an eleven inch penis. AROUND"

    or you know, other things that you didn't learn from American Pie.

    :D

    Seriously though, I used to be like that. Now I talk to girls just fine, I just don't seem to get many :cool: I manage to say ridiculous shit like "oh you're from Finland? like where Bjork is from?" (Iceland :( ) That girl was really pretty as well. Gutted :D
    "I remember one night at Muzdalifa with nothing but the sky overhead, I lay awake amid sleeping Muslim brothers and I learned that pilgrims from every land — every colour, and class, and rank; high officials and the beggar alike — all snored in the same language"
  • comebackwoman
    comebackwoman Posts: 7,271
    Drop The Leash 10 wrote:
    rap hahaha. no she came after me in a sense.
    exactly! a lot of girls like shy, quiet guys. It might actually be the quality that draws them to you.
    There's a light when my baby's in my arms :)
  • eMMI
    eMMI Posts: 6,262
    Jeremy1012 wrote:
    Man up. Go up to these girls and say "ladies, my name is Colby and I have an eleven inch penis. AROUND"

    or you know, other things that you didn't learn from American Pie.

    :D

    Seriously though, I used to be like that. Now I talk to girls just fine, I just don't seem to get many :cool: I manage to say ridiculous shit like "oh you're from Finland? like where Bjork is from?" (Iceland :( ) That girl was really pretty as well. Gutted :D

    lol. :D
    "Don't be faint-hearted, I have a solution! We shall go and commandeer some small craft, then drift at leisure until we happen upon another ideal place for our waterside supper with riparian entertainments."
  • kh65
    kh65 Posts: 946
    comebackgirl wrote:
    exactly! a lot of girls like shy, quiet guys. It might actually be the quality that draws them to you.

    Please... they all say that but they go for the guys who are dicks.

    What gives?
    "If you're not living on the edge you're taking up too much room."

    Gambling=a taxation on stupidity.

    Remember, you can walk anywhere, as long as you have the time.

    http://www.ryanmontbleauband.com/

    http://www.myspace.com/jessedee
  • Cobbelstone
    Cobbelstone Posts: 35
    kh65 wrote:
    Please they all say that but they go for the guys who are dicks.

    What gives?

    That's not true.

    Drop the Leash, do you have any female friends, or are you saying you have trouble talking to girls you want to date?
  • comebackwoman
    comebackwoman Posts: 7,271
    kh65 wrote:
    Please they all say that but they go for the guys who are dicks.

    What gives?
    my 2 long-term relationships have been with shy, quiet guys. I approached my ex and my current fiance and what drew me to them was that they are both shy. All the guys that approached me on their own were dicks :p I decided I had to take destiny into my own hands :)
    There's a light when my baby's in my arms :)
  • genie
    genie Posts: 2,222
    get drunk, or smoke some spliff it'll calm your nerves down.

    or if you wanna feel like a king take cocaine, you'll feel like the coolest dude alive.
  • kh65
    kh65 Posts: 946
    genie wrote:
    get drunk, or smoke some spliff it'll calm your nerves down.

    or if you wanna feel like a king take cocaine, you'll feel like the coolest dude alive.

    Said the drug dealer.
    "If you're not living on the edge you're taking up too much room."

    Gambling=a taxation on stupidity.

    Remember, you can walk anywhere, as long as you have the time.

    http://www.ryanmontbleauband.com/

    http://www.myspace.com/jessedee

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