all of a sudden I'm depressed

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  • roar
    roar Posts: 1,116
    GreenTeaDisease wrote:
    well I'm not looking now, definitely not. and I probably won't be "looking" when I'm ready either, but nothing ever "just happens" to me.

    think a little more positively...maybe it will?
  • GreenTeaDisease
    GreenTeaDisease Posts: 3,359
    roar wrote:
    think a little more positively...maybe it will?

    this isn't really about positive and negative. I'm just...wondering...about...stuff.
  • roar
    roar Posts: 1,116
    GreenTeaDisease wrote:
    this isn't really about positive and negative. I'm just...wondering...about...stuff.

    i just think that a lot of what happens in your life is caused or at least related to what you put out there. be it actions or ideas.
  • GreenTeaDisease
    GreenTeaDisease Posts: 3,359
    roar wrote:
    i just think that a lot of what happens in your life is caused or at least related to what you put out there. be it actions or ideas.

    hmm I'd have to mostly disagree with that.
  • roar
    roar Posts: 1,116
    GreenTeaDisease wrote:
    hmm I'd have to mostly disagree with that.

    you've never put an idea out there or focused your energy on something only to have it happen in some way?

    you can agree or disagree...it's worked for my friends and i.
  • GreenTeaDisease
    GreenTeaDisease Posts: 3,359
    roar wrote:
    you've never put an idea out there or focused your energy on something only to have it happen in some way?

    you can agree or disagree...it's worked for my friends and i.

    I don't know what you mean about "putting an idea out there."

    I focus all my energy on a lot of stuff, but I don't get what you mean about having it "happen."
  • Pauk
    Pauk Posts: 1,084
    I think life is what you make of it, but that doesn't necessarily mean having a positive outlook is enough for everyone. Afterall, when something does work out it's all very well to attribute it to being positive, but when being positive doesn't work then what to do? It's a bit patronising to say to people that being rosy makes everything better. What works for one person doesn't always work for another. The trick is to find what works for you and sticking to it, and not taking bad advice from others who think they know what's right.


    ...just my 2 cents

    I know what you mean about meeting partners naturally. A lot of my friends seem to slip from one 'natural' relationship to another, while I find myself only really getting into relationships when Im bored of single life, and even then it feels forced and I usually end up finishing it a few months later as a result. It's a waiting game.
    Paul
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  • roar
    roar Posts: 1,116
    GreenTeaDisease wrote:
    I don't know what you mean about "putting an idea out there."

    I focus all my energy on a lot of stuff, but I don't get what you mean about having it "happen."


    nevermind. there's no use in arguing about the laws of attraction or the effects of positive thinking with you.

    good luck finding what you need.
  • GreenTeaDisease
    GreenTeaDisease Posts: 3,359
    roar wrote:
    nevermind. there's no use in arguing about the laws of attraction or the effects of positive thinking with you.

    good luck finding what you need.

    dude I am not arguing with you. you have your beliefs. however, I don't think there are any "laws" of attraction or of positive thinking. Laws are proven scientifically.

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