how do you get a social life??

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  • CHANGEinWAVES
    CHANGEinWAVES Posts: 10,169
    RolandTD20Kdrummer wrote:
    you much unleash the techno viking from within...

    become the techno viking...
    I already do that in the home improvement store aisles....didn't u see my profile;)
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  • Slip Kid
    Slip Kid Posts: 1,175
    try ebay.
    I just don't trust anything that bleeds for five days and doesn't die.
  • PJamGrunge10
    PJamGrunge10 California Posts: 596
    Slip Kid wrote:
    try ebay.


    It can be done. I've seen an air guitar on there before.

    It was hand crafted too, so there is quality stuff there.
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  • Slip Kid
    Slip Kid Posts: 1,175
    PJamGrunge10 wrote:
    It can be done. I've seen an air guitar on there before.

    It was hand crafted too, so there is quality stuff there.

    I wonder if I put my clues in a box, people would would buy it?

    so when they say "get a clue" sure enough, i'm selling em.
    I just don't trust anything that bleeds for five days and doesn't die.
  • allmyrivals
    allmyrivals Posts: 228
    CHANGEinWAVES wrote:
    OK oddly pathetic question I know....but...
    how do you obtain a social life???
    I was with my husband from 17 on and Married at 21.
    So I never really did the whole bar scene, and now that I'm ready to have a LIFE...all my friends are married! go figure;)

    the question remains how does one a quire a social life?

    PLEASE don't make THAT much fun of me....I know i'm pathetic...lol.

    Umm ....i don't understand why you can't have a social life with your married friends? Did your friends stop having a life after they were married? Why is it a problem if your friends are married.......did their social lives end when they got married? If so, then that's more pathetic than any question you have asked. Sounds like you have a social life.....but you don't want to be the only one there single. But why do you care? Your in a healing process right now. And if your friends don't have time to help you heal cause they are married, then thats crazy pathetic as well.

    In the end i hope you find what your looking for .....just take it day by day. People come and go.....your always gonna meet new people. Without even trying :)
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  • elmer
    elmer Posts: 1,683
    sponger wrote:
    I don't want to advocate drug abuse, but there is no better conversation enhancer than oxycontin. Lots of people say that coke is a great conversational drug, but that really wasn't the case for me. It just makes me feel very mellow and I usually would rather listen to music than talk to anybody.

    Speed will definitely make you talk, but the problem is that you'll be talking so much that people will start to slowly walk away from you while you stand there yacking away, totally oblivious to what is going on.

    Oxycontin is a great balance of wanting to conversate and still being able to coherently conversate so that the people you are conversating with don't realize that you're stoned out of your mind.
    :D I think you ARE advocating drug abuse mate.
  • Spunkie
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    Spend less time in PC land and more time out in the real world.
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  • Heineken Helen
    Heineken Helen Posts: 18,095
    allmyrivals wrote:
    Umm ....i don't understand why you can't have a social life with your married friends? Did your friends stop having a life after they were married? Why is it a problem if your friends are married.......did their social lives end when they got married? If so, then that's more pathetic than any question you have asked. Sounds like you have a social life.....but you don't want to be the only one there single. But why do you care? Your in a healing process right now. And if your friends don't have time to help you heal cause they are married, then thats crazy pathetic as well.

    In the end i hope you find what your looking for .....just take it day by day. People come and go.....your always gonna meet new people. Without even trying :)
    it's a fact that quite a few people have to give up their social life when they get married... saving for the wedding or for a house or kids or whatever. They usually have something to save for so are less available than they used to be.
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  • Black Diamond
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    Heineken Helen wrote:
    it's a fact that quite a few people have to give up their social life when they get married... saving for the wedding or for a house or kids or whatever. They usually have something to save for so are less available than they used to be.

    And.... We hate single people. Who wants to hear about fabulous lives and getting some when then we have to go home and change poopie diapers :D
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  • petrocs
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    organize a PJ party at your new place and all of us locals or near locals can come over :)
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  • allmyrivals
    allmyrivals Posts: 228
    Heineken Helen wrote:
    it's a fact that quite a few people have to give up their social life when they get married... saving for the wedding or for a house or kids or whatever. They usually have something to save for so are less available than they used to be.

    Sure , i understand not being available as much, but why does having a social life have to involve spending money? There are lots of people out there that are married or are having money problems that are able to socialize with friends and still have a productive social life. When i hang out with my friends they don't ask me to spend money. It's my choice. But it's not gonna stop me from having fun with them just because i'm married or saving money for whatever reason. A few hours a week is not gonna hurt a marrage or the saving of money. If people think they have to give up their social lives for marrage.........i don't believe thats right.

    It will make ya crazy in the head! :P
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  • Heineken Helen
    Heineken Helen Posts: 18,095
    allmyrivals wrote:
    Sure , i understand not being available as much, but why does having a social life have to involve spending money? There are lots of people out there that are married or are having money problems that are able to socialize with friends and still have a productive social life. When i hang out with my friends they don't ask me to spend money. It's my choice. But it's not gonna stop me from having fun with them just because i'm married or saving money for whatever reason. A few hours a week is not gonna hurt a marrage or the saving of money. If people think they have to give up their social lives for marrage.........i don't believe thats right.

    It will make ya crazy in the head! :P
    No, I agree with ya :) I don't understand it... but I think it's just how it works for a lot of people :o . It's not just getting married, you're getting older and some people just lose interest in a social life :o
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    Verona??? it's all surmountable
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    Chicago 07? And love
    What a different life
    Had I not found this love with you
  • allmyrivals
    allmyrivals Posts: 228
    Heineken Helen wrote:
    No, I agree with ya :) I don't understand it... but I think it's just how it works for a lot of people :o . It's not just getting married, you're getting older and some people just lose interest in a social life :o


    I find it sad that they lose interest.

    Well at least the OP has the right idea in wanting one.....:)
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  • genie
    genie Posts: 2,222
    CHANGEinWAVES wrote:
    OK oddly pathetic question I know....but...
    how do you obtain a social life???
    I was with my husband from 17 on and Married at 21.
    So I never really did the whole bar scene, and now that I'm ready to have a LIFE...all my friends are married! go figure;)

    the question remains how does one a quire a social life?

    PLEASE don't make THAT much fun of me....I know i'm pathetic...lol.

    wow, you married at 21? and been out with him from 17, aw that is so sweet. sorry, i don't really have an advice and i wouldn't be the best person to ask anyway.

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