it's a fact that quite a few people have to give up their social life when they get married... saving for the wedding or for a house or kids or whatever. They usually have something to save for so are less available than they used to be.
Sure , i understand not being available as much, but why does having a social life have to involve spending money? There are lots of people out there that are married or are having money problems that are able to socialize with friends and still have a productive social life. When i hang out with my friends they don't ask me to spend money. It's my choice. But it's not gonna stop me from having fun with them just because i'm married or saving money for whatever reason. A few hours a week is not gonna hurt a marrage or the saving of money. If people think they have to give up their social lives for marrage.........i don't believe thats right.
Sure , i understand not being available as much, but why does having a social life have to involve spending money? There are lots of people out there that are married or are having money problems that are able to socialize with friends and still have a productive social life. When i hang out with my friends they don't ask me to spend money. It's my choice. But it's not gonna stop me from having fun with them just because i'm married or saving money for whatever reason. A few hours a week is not gonna hurt a marrage or the saving of money. If people think they have to give up their social lives for marrage.........i don't believe thats right.
It will make ya crazy in the head! :P
No, I agree with ya I don't understand it... but I think it's just how it works for a lot of people . It's not just getting married, you're getting older and some people just lose interest in a social life
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No, I agree with ya I don't understand it... but I think it's just how it works for a lot of people . It's not just getting married, you're getting older and some people just lose interest in a social life
I find it sad that they lose interest.
Well at least the OP has the right idea in wanting one.....:)
OK oddly pathetic question I know....but...
how do you obtain a social life???
I was with my husband from 17 on and Married at 21.
So I never really did the whole bar scene, and now that I'm ready to have a LIFE...all my friends are married! go figure;)
the question remains how does one a quire a social life?
PLEASE don't make THAT much fun of me....I know i'm pathetic...lol.
wow, you married at 21? and been out with him from 17, aw that is so sweet. sorry, i don't really have an advice and i wouldn't be the best person to ask anyway.
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Sure , i understand not being available as much, but why does having a social life have to involve spending money? There are lots of people out there that are married or are having money problems that are able to socialize with friends and still have a productive social life. When i hang out with my friends they don't ask me to spend money. It's my choice. But it's not gonna stop me from having fun with them just because i'm married or saving money for whatever reason. A few hours a week is not gonna hurt a marrage or the saving of money. If people think they have to give up their social lives for marrage.........i don't believe thats right.
It will make ya crazy in the head! :P
WHAAHYEAH!!
Verona??? it's all surmountable
Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
Wembley? We all believe!
Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
Chicago 07? And love
What a different life
Had I not found this love with you
I find it sad that they lose interest.
Well at least the OP has the right idea in wanting one.....:)
WHAAHYEAH!!
wow, you married at 21? and been out with him from 17, aw that is so sweet. sorry, i don't really have an advice and i wouldn't be the best person to ask anyway.