how do you get a social life??

CHANGEinWAVES
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OK oddly pathetic question I know....but...
how do you obtain a social life???
I was with my husband from 17 on and Married at 21.
So I never really did the whole bar scene, and now that I'm ready to have a LIFE...all my friends are married! go figure;)
the question remains how does one a quire a social life?
PLEASE don't make THAT much fun of me....I know i'm pathetic...lol.
how do you obtain a social life???
I was with my husband from 17 on and Married at 21.
So I never really did the whole bar scene, and now that I'm ready to have a LIFE...all my friends are married! go figure;)
the question remains how does one a quire a social life?
PLEASE don't make THAT much fun of me....I know i'm pathetic...lol.
"I'm not present, I'm a drug that makes you dream"
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Meet people doing activities you enjoy.I was swimming in the Great Barrier Reef
Animals were hiding behind the Coral
Except for little Turtle
I could swear he's trying to talk to me
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Not a strange question at all! We moved and it was hard to meet people. Volunteering did it for me. Also, just taking to people, as strange as that sounds, really helps. Good luck."I'd rather be with an animal." "Those that can be trusted can change their mind." "The in between is mine." "If I don't lose control, explore and not explode, a preternatural other plane with the power to maintain." "Yeh this is living." "Life is what you make it."0
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tish wrote:Meet people doing activities you enjoy."I'm not present, I'm a drug that makes you dream"0
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You can still go out with your friends even though they are married. When you do, you might try to go to places where you'll meet other people.
You can meet people through other friends and relatives.
You can create a social life with your friends from work.
You can make more friends from message boards.
Uh... that's all I've got right now.I'll admit, it has been harder for me since I got out of college.
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Try something new then... what classes does the local rec centre offer that you may enjoy? I signed up for boxfit and guitar this fall.
When friends ask me out, I say yes. When at a dinner/bbq, I approach people and network.
It was pretty hard to get the ball rolling on a new social life that didn't start with, "Hey you wanna smoke a joint", but it can be done.I was swimming in the Great Barrier Reef
Animals were hiding behind the Coral
Except for little Turtle
I could swear he's trying to talk to me
Gurgle Gurgle0 -
Wait till pearl jam goes on tour...get tickets...go to the show...drink a little....talk to anyone, thery're all there for PJ.
problem solved!5/28/06, 6/27/08, 10/28/09, 5/18/10, 5/21/10
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i just moved again and here is what i did....
i moved to a country where i dont speak the language so i found a forum for english speakers in that city and they hold meetups so i went to one.. introduced myself and now i have friends... from there you just meet up with them outside to do things besides drink. i met up with one girl yesturday and we made tacos... i miss mexican food!
also, you can join a class...
i also think work is a great place to meet people....
you have to be willing to introduce yourself to people and ask them to do things.....
good luck getting a social life:)0 -
I don't want to advocate drug abuse, but there is no better conversation enhancer than oxycontin. Lots of people say that coke is a great conversational drug, but that really wasn't the case for me. It just makes me feel very mellow and I usually would rather listen to music than talk to anybody.
Speed will definitely make you talk, but the problem is that you'll be talking so much that people will start to slowly walk away from you while you stand there yacking away, totally oblivious to what is going on.
Oxycontin is a great balance of wanting to conversate and still being able to coherently conversate so that the people you are conversating with don't realize that you're stoned out of your mind.0 -
sponger wrote:I don't want to advocate drug abuse, but there is no better conversation enhancer than oxycontin. Lots of people say that coke is a great conversational drug, but that really wasn't the case for me. It just makes me feel very mellow and I usually would rather listen to music than talk to anybody.
Speed will definitely make you talk, but the problem is that you'll be talking so much that people will start to slowly walk away from you while you stand there yacking away, totally oblivious to what is going on.
Oxycontin is a great balance of wanting to conversate and still being able to coherently conversate so that the people you are conversating with don't realize that you're stoned out of your mind."I'm not present, I'm a drug that makes you dream"0 -
xscorcho wrote:or you can just be brave and talk to new people without using illegal drugs (assuming you dont have a script for it)....
It's not a matter of bravery. It's a matter of interest.0 -
CHANGEinWAVES wrote:
the question remains how does one a quire a social life?
by not hanging out on a bands message board 20 hours a day.Peace, Love.
"To question your government is not unpatriotic --
to not question your government is unpatriotic."
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Go about your life and talk to people. And...join clubs (books, movies, those kinds). You would be quite surprised at who you can meet, and they would have the same interests.When life gives you lemons, throw them at somebody.0
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the wolf wrote:by not hanging out on a bands message board 20 hours a day.
That's a good startMy drinking team has a hockey problem
The ONLY thing better than a glass of beer is tea with Miss McGill
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sponger wrote:I don't want to advocate drug abuse, but there is no better conversation enhancer than oxycontin. Lots of people say that coke is a great conversational drug, but that really wasn't the case for me. It just makes me feel very mellow and I usually would rather listen to music than talk to anybody.
Speed will definitely make you talk, but the problem is that you'll be talking so much that people will start to slowly walk away from you while you stand there yacking away, totally oblivious to what is going on.
Oxycontin is a great balance of wanting to conversate and still being able to coherently conversate so that the people you are conversating with don't realize that you're stoned out of your mind.
Pills won't give you a social life. They'll give you stomach probz.
I agree w/ the similar interests tek.0 -
When I moved to my town 4 1/2 years ago, I headed straight to the local coffee shop (NOT Starbucks). Just hanging out I got to know folks and integrate into the community. If you can find a social hub like that, especially in a small town, I'd highly recommend spending some time there.
Oh, and the only drug you'd need to consume is caffeine.0 -
xscorcho wrote:interest in talking to new people? the OP is already interested.. she just isnt sure how to meet people.
There's a difference between being interested in meeting new people and being interested in people.0 -
Sadly, social life gets harder and harder to maintain as you get older.
I'm not to comfortable with this adulthood lifestyle yet.
Just too many damn responsibilities and not enough time.
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Progress is not made by everyone joining some new fad,
and reveling in it's loyalty. It's made by forming coalitions
over specific principles, goals, and policies.
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