why can't guys just be friends with girls??

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  • GraySaturday
    GraySaturday Posts: 2,878
    dunkman wrote:
    cos girls have boobs.


    and all this time I thought we were friends because of my wonderful personality..

    hummm
  • Phantom Pain
    Phantom Pain Posts: 9,876
    acoustic guy wrote:
    Totally. What happens is, the girl gets so comfortable with the guy, she thinks of him as a gay friend or brother so she unknowingly gets real relaxed around him. He takes this as flirting and he moves in for the kill.

    Ya got to remember (OFCOURSE I DON"T SPEAK FOR ALL MEN) ;) but if a guy is friends with a hot girl, they are always wiling to have sex with them. The girl might not be but the guy would anytime. They are friends b/c the girl dictates that.

    And with that...class is dismissed !

    That's dead on
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  • Jearlpam0925
    Jearlpam0925 Deep South Philly Posts: 17,569
    acoustic guy wrote:
    Totally. What happens is, the girl gets so comfortable with the guy, she thinks of him as a gay friend or brother so she unknowingly gets real relaxed around him. He takes this as flirting and he moves in for the kill.

    Ya got to remember (OFCOURSE I DON"T SPEAK FOR ALL MEN) ;) but if a guy is friends with a hot girl, they are always wiling to have sex with them. The girl might not be but the guy would anytime. They are friends b/c the girl dictates that.

    Good point, yes maybe the guy would like a relationship, but mostly the guy if he likes the girl as a friend could be easily indifferent to a "relationship" and could easily have sex with her and go back to just "hangin out." The girl on the other hand well.....Elaine's pulling all the paper towels from the rack.
  • acoustic guy
    acoustic guy Posts: 3,770
    GraySaturday wrote:
    EW!!

    Colby is Drop the Leash 10!! he's gonna come to this thread and die of embarrassment now!
    Or hope its a doorway to heaven for him :D
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  • norm
    norm Posts: 31,146
    riffrandall wrote:
    All you have to do is watch Billy Crystal's speech in "When Harry Met Sally" and (as much as I don't really LOVE the movie) that's about as clear as it gets.

    - the sex thing always gets in the way
    - guys want to nail even girls they aren't totally hot for
    - it doesn't matter if one of them isn't attracted to the other, because if the other person IS attracted, then the sex thing is in the way
    - it won't work if either is in a relationship with someone else because the person's s.o. won't understand why then need to be friends with the person their "just friends" with.

    Something like that.


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  • SENROCK
    SENROCK Posts: 10,736
    answers are fatal wrote:
    why are they always looking for a "hook-up" or a relationship? what happenened to just being friends?

    chicks are the same way! the only difference is guys ACT on it. In defense of the dudes, there are ALOT of them that can be just frenz. Its not fair to them when girls tease them KNOWING they wont let the guy anywhere NEAR them. That sh*t aint right!!!!
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  • acoustic guy
    acoustic guy Posts: 3,770
    Phantom Pain wrote:
    And with that...class is dismissed !

    That's dead on
    :) Thank you very much.

    I have many girl friends but to be honest....I have slept with all of them before I as married :D Hahahahaha.

    My wife does not like it but we were friends before I was married.
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  • blackredyellow
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    acoustic guy wrote:
    Totally. What happens is, the girl gets so comfortable with the guy, she thinks of him as a gay friend or brother so she unknowingly gets real relaxed around him. He takes this as flirting and he moves in for the kill.

    Ya got to remember (OFCOURSE I DON"T SPEAK FOR ALL MEN) ;) but if a guy is friends with a hot girl, they are always wiling to have sex with them. The girl might not be but the guy would anytime. They are friends b/c the girl dictates that.

    Exactly... In general, a guy isn't going to be friends with a girl that he has absolutely no interest in sleeping with. The only thing stopping a guy from sleeping with a "friend" is because the girl won't let him, or the guy is in a relationship.
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  • acoustic guy
    acoustic guy Posts: 3,770
    SENROCK! wrote:
    chicks are the same way! the only difference is guys ACT on it. In defense of the dudes, there are ALOT of them that can be just frenz. Its not fair to them when girls tease them KNOWING they wont let the guy anywhere NEAR them. That sh*t aint right!!!!
    Exactly.
    Oh he is just a friend so I can walk around in my panties, he does not care...
    Yeaaaaaa righttttt! Check under the pillow that is on his lap to see if he cares or not :D
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  • SENROCK
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    acoustic guy wrote:
    Your friend is 16 and you don't think he dreams of sleeping wih you? LOL That kid is in his sexual prime........watch out! :D

    hahahaha that is CLASSIC cuz its true!!!! :D Gray may be strictly frenz cuz she knows better but him? You can TELL thru some of his posts that theres the deeper thought! :eek: Its normal though right? And Gray is cute. :D
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  • nfanel
    nfanel Posts: 2,558
    cutback wrote:
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aJz1f8hPRGc
    love that movie. :)
  • Drop The Leash 10
    Drop The Leash 10 Posts: 7,011
    what. the. fuck? :eek:
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  • GraySaturday
    GraySaturday Posts: 2,878
    SENROCK! wrote:
    hahahaha that is CLASSIC cuz its true!!!! :D Gray may be strictly frenz cuz she knows better but him? You can TELL thru some of his posts that theres the deeper thought! :eek: Its normal though right? And Gray is cute. :D

    thanks you, sen.. but normal? Okay.. it's not like I'm 16!

    ew.. I'm too naive.
  • SENROCK
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    acoustic guy wrote:
    Exactly.
    Oh he is just a friend so I can walk around in my panties, he does not care...
    Yeaaaaaa righttttt! Check under the pillow that is on his lap to see if he cares or not :D

    I've hadd nothing but guy frenz pretty much all my life cuz I think chicks are freaken dumb. Never EVER did i think any of the guys im frenz with would ever begin to like me. It wasnt in my way ofthinking. Then one day as we all got older......the confessions began! :eek: And its true, you cant tease them thinking they DONT CARE!!!! Dont get me wrong, its fun to tease....but ONLY the guy u really wanna get with! ;)
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  • Yellow Bedwetter
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    singularity wrote:
    the answers are fatal.

    yes, that's who started the thread, but what is ur response
    haha
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  • Drop The Leash 10
    Drop The Leash 10 Posts: 7,011
    poor rachel. it was a simple question. :o
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  • norm
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    SENROCK! wrote:
    I think chicks are freaken dumb. ;)


    you crack me up! :D:D:D
  • SENROCK
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    GraySaturday wrote:
    thanks you, sen.. but normal? Okay.. it's not like I'm 16!

    ew.. I'm too naive.

    haha yeah normal. As in for teenagers to be attracted to or have impure thoughts of someone older. Not specifically colby but in general. And that was me-too naive! I never thought that way ever!!! Its very interesting to have guys frenz be honest about stuff like this!!! :D
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    It takes balls to put out a UKE album!
  • comebackwoman
    comebackwoman Posts: 7,271
    acoustic guy wrote:
    :) Thank you very much.

    I have many girl friends but to be honest....I have slept with all of them before I as married :D Hahahahaha.

    My wife does not like it but we were friends before I was married.
    I have a few guy friends too...but yep - they are all my exes. so been there...done that...not gonna go back there again.
    There's a light when my baby's in my arms :)
  • Jearlpam0925
    Jearlpam0925 Deep South Philly Posts: 17,569
    Yellow Bedwetter wrote:
    yes, that's who started the thread, but what is ur response
    haha

    My question is - Pat Burrel: Man or Machine?

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