Friends with the Ex...

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  • stickboy
    stickboy Posts: 2,981
    Allie wrote:
    oh! My bad. Oh good I made you laugh. :) I'm going on like 4 hrs sleep-I work on Saturdays. So please forgive me. although frankly men confuse/ irritate me so much sometimes I"ve wondered if Lindsay had the right idea! :D
    j/k. I couldn't do it though, I like men in general too much. I like them way more then women. (no offense ladies!)
    well like whatshisface said

    even girls who like girls still use a mans tool wether it be a plastic one or the real deal..yall STILL NEED it! :D

    and I totally relate...everyone thinks Im dating whichever girl I talk to guess cause m too flirty or whatever and my guy friends all hate cause Im not the "player" like they are and the women I talk to hate that so they gravitate towards me and leave them wondering like .."Why Eli?" he got no game.. :rolleyes:
    cornballs
    they think every woman likes the player type
    Aah, fuck it, I’m just gonna go home, turn on the fuckin’ TV...
    Watch the nightly news and drink a beer...
    Like I could even change the world, yeah right...
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  • comebackwoman
    comebackwoman Posts: 7,271
    Allie wrote:
    hee hee :) LOL

    No I mean I love some of yous guys on here but in general like I've always gotten along better with and been closer friends with guys. I'm a sports fan type of girl. And women have been so catty and mean to me. :(

    I know what you mean. I always had more guy friends than girl friends - probably cause I grew up with brothers and spent time with them and all their friends. That's changed over the past few years - but yeah - I love men :)
    There's a light when my baby's in my arms :)
  • Allie
    Allie Posts: 2,908
    stickboy wrote:
    .."Why Eli?" he got no game.. :rolleyes:
    cornballs
    they think every woman likes the player type

    hee hee :)

    I went to a club yrs ago with my friend for her birthday, with all her friends, and they were all latinas. I was dancing on a table and this guy says "come down here and dance with me," so I was like, "ok"

    so my friend who's birthday it was said that her friends asked: "why is he dancing with the white girl" LOL :), why is she getting the man...

    so my friend told them: because she's acting like she's having a good time! He turned out to be a loser that lied about where he lived. He was like oh I didn't tell you, I live in PA? I was like "NO! You said QUEENS!" Ugh! Men! :)

    If I didn't want to have children I would stay single forever, I swear to God. I wouldn't even bother. No offense, E.
    "...like a word misplaced, nothing said, what a waste.."
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  • Allie
    Allie Posts: 2,908
    comebackgirl wrote:
    I know what you mean. I always had more guy friends than girl friends - probably cause I grew up with brothers and spent time with them and all their friends. That's changed over the past few years - but yeah - I love men :)

    lol
    and you have a happy love story with a happy ending, it inspires me! :)
    "...like a word misplaced, nothing said, what a waste.."
    "Sometimes life should be consumed in measured doses"
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  • comebackwoman
    comebackwoman Posts: 7,271
    Allie wrote:
    lol
    and you have a happy love story with a happy ending, it inspires me! :)
    Oh yay! That makes me smile :) I hope you find your love!
    There's a light when my baby's in my arms :)
  • Allie
    Allie Posts: 2,908
    comebackgirl wrote:
    Oh yay! That makes me smile :) I hope you find your love!
    it's true. I believe in all that fairy tale love stuff :)

    and thanks. I'll make a thread about it when I do, I promise.
    "...like a word misplaced, nothing said, what a waste.."
    "Sometimes life should be consumed in measured doses"
    6-01-06
    6/25/08
    Free Speedy
    and Metsy!
  • stickboy
    stickboy Posts: 2,981
    Allie wrote:
    hee hee :)

    I went to a club yrs ago with my friend for her birthday, with all her friends, and they were all latinas. I was dancing on a table and this guy says "come down here and dance with me," so I was like, "ok"

    so my friend who's birthday it was said that her friends asked: "why is he dancing with the white girl" LOL :), why is she getting the man...

    so my friend told them: because she's acting like she's having a good time! He turned out to be a loser that lied about where he lived. He was like oh I didn't tell you, I live in PA? I was like "NO! You said QUEENS!" Ugh! Men! :)

    If I didn't want to have children I would stay single forever, I swear to God. I wouldn't even bother. No offense, E.
    none taken I know exactly what you mean..if I dont hear it from you or my sis friends I hear the same thing from mine. I dont lie or bullshit just to fuck a girl. But then again theres the girls that just dont care if they get played cause the guys hot and they get a chance to fuck. Kinda why I dont get in a relationship anymore..too much of this playing and game bullshit going on so the girls try doing the same back and it fucks everything up
    Aah, fuck it, I’m just gonna go home, turn on the fuckin’ TV...
    Watch the nightly news and drink a beer...
    Like I could even change the world, yeah right...
    ************************************
  • SENROCK
    SENROCK Posts: 10,736
    what the DEVIL is goin on up in the D!!!!!
    Allie is sexxxin it up with a guy who just got divorced????
    Comebackgirl is HOOKIN STICKY UP WITH A DUDE???????? :eek:
    ~~~~~~ALWAYS HAVE A GOOD TIME~~~~~~
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  • Allie
    Allie Posts: 2,908
    stickboy wrote:
    none taken I know exactly what you mean..if I dont hear it from you or my sis friends I hear the same thing from mine.the girls try doing the same back and it f's everything up
    not every girl is like that
    but neither is every guy
    "...like a word misplaced, nothing said, what a waste.."
    "Sometimes life should be consumed in measured doses"
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  • Allie
    Allie Posts: 2,908
    SENROCK! wrote:
    what the DEVIL is goin on up in the D!!!!!
    Allie is sexxxin it up with a guy who just got divorced????
    Comebackgirl is HOOKIN STICKY UP WITH A DUDE???????? :eek:


    Hey hey hey! Keep it clean Mama. Allie is not doing anything.
    "...like a word misplaced, nothing said, what a waste.."
    "Sometimes life should be consumed in measured doses"
    6-01-06
    6/25/08
    Free Speedy
    and Metsy!
  • comebackwoman
    comebackwoman Posts: 7,271
    SENROCK! wrote:
    what the DEVIL is goin on up in the D!!!!!
    Allie is sexxxin it up with a guy who just got divorced????
    Comebackgirl is HOOKIN STICKY UP WITH A DUDE???????? :eek:
    I tried...but he wouldn't take me up on the offer! :mad:
    There's a light when my baby's in my arms :)
  • stickboy
    stickboy Posts: 2,981
    Allie wrote:
    not every girl is like that
    but neither is every guy
    yea theres a few of us left out there... lol
    most are prolly on here :)
    Aah, fuck it, I’m just gonna go home, turn on the fuckin’ TV...
    Watch the nightly news and drink a beer...
    Like I could even change the world, yeah right...
    ************************************
  • Allie
    Allie Posts: 2,908
    stickboy wrote:
    yea theres a few of us left out there... lol
    most are prolly on here :)
    ha ha :) I know, right? :)
    "...like a word misplaced, nothing said, what a waste.."
    "Sometimes life should be consumed in measured doses"
    6-01-06
    6/25/08
    Free Speedy
    and Metsy!
  • xscorcho
    xscorcho Posts: 409
    i know people who are friends with their ex-wives\husbands... it doesnt have to be all drama.
  • edvedder913
    edvedder913 Posts: 1,810
    pjtradeking wrote:
    My sister and brother-in-law got divorced a couple of years ago. Although they have kids, the would get a long even if they didnt. It is a bizarre thing actually. They still have keys to one anothers house....Come to family functions...all that shit and they are happier as friends than they EVER were during their 10+ year marriage. So I would say it does happen, and it doesnt mean they will get back together. imho


    sounds like me and my ex husband...10 years of marriage...couldnt pay me enough to ever get back together with him, but we are good friends.
  • SENROCK
    SENROCK Posts: 10,736
    frenz with the exxx has always been the best for me. I never understand why you cant be JUST frenz and nothing more. And whats STOOPID is when theres a break up and USUALLY the chick says "ugh i dont even wanna HEAR his name. Just dont ever mention his name to me ever." WTF?! Whats his name gonna do? Jump out and bite you?! STOOOOOPID!!!! I vote yes for frenz with the exxx. If indeed u can be that and the person didnt make u feel like crap anytime prior.
    ~~~~~~ALWAYS HAVE A GOOD TIME~~~~~~
    Sir Mike McCready is....THE MASTER!!! WAHHH!!!
    EVENFLOW PSYCHOS H.N.I.C~FEEL THE FLOW!!!

    "Pearl Jam fans are obsessed, they'd see the boys in HELL if tickets were sold."-CROJAM95

    It takes balls to put out a UKE album!
  • jeffwmartin
    jeffwmartin Posts: 71
    I'm better friends with my first ex-wife than I was when we were married. We do have kids, so I don't know if we would hang out if we didn't have them. I get along well with her husband and even watched their daughter for them when they went out of town in exchange for a year's worth of free haircuts (yes, my ex-wife still cuts my hair).
  • saveuplife
    saveuplife Posts: 1,173
    Here's my take:

    1) If you have had kids with your ex-wife (ex-husband, ex-gf, ex-bf) it is good to be freinds with them because children are involved and obviously, you need to work together for their benefit.

    2) If children aren't involved, there's no need to be "friends" with this person. If you both have decided to sever your relationship... than do so in totality. Sure you can be aquintances and "friendly" if you ever see them out. But, being "friends" is different. If you ever plan on moving forward with your life, you are putting your future partner in a serious awkward situation if you are "friends" with your ex.

    That's my take and I'm sticking to it. :P
  • fanch75
    fanch75 Posts: 3,734
    Allie wrote:
    I don't want to go into too many specifics but this is for the guys out there, or anyone who else who wants to impart widsom:

    a guy just got divorced, like literally, after 10 months of marriage, (she didn't want kids-he did). So they have no kids.

    the ex moved out of their apt

    but he's letting her park her car in the driveway while she goes out of town. (literally-her actual vehicle, not in a 'figurative' sense)

    Guys-what's up with that?

    are they getting back together?

    Thanks..

    Stay away from recently divorced men.
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  • Allie
    Allie Posts: 2,908
    fanch75 wrote:
    Stay away from recently divorced men.

    its just someone I know, so I was curious. I don't know how these things work, my parents divorced when I was 2 and 'acrimonious' is an understatement.

    I'm not 'involved' or anything of that nature.

    but how come, fanch?
    "...like a word misplaced, nothing said, what a waste.."
    "Sometimes life should be consumed in measured doses"
    6-01-06
    6/25/08
    Free Speedy
    and Metsy!

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