Ladies, is this bad??

LONGRD

eyedclaar wrote:

Internet, eh? Sounds handy. Do they have it on computers yet?

yeah and be sure to use the google, it's very handy!

Cosmo

eyedclaar wrote:

She will either be freaked out or flattered. Either way, it is a better approach than hiding in the bushes and waiting for her to take her next shower...

...
I vote for 'Freaked Out' because those were sort of stalker techniques to gather the information.
If that happened to one of my gal friends and she wasn't freaked... I'd certainly tell her she should be.

NY PJ1

TrixieCat wrote:

Playing a matchmaker today J?

sooooooo many places to take this one... but ill just keep it moving

IAmMyself

too late! You should have asked for her # when she was in front of you.

chadwick

i think it's harmless as can be
people get to freaked out to soon

what's a dude to do??
ppl put a ton of pressures on themselves and others
it's communication skills we all need to polish up on

another thing is this...ppl do not have balls

im not saying the o.p. is like this at all..
ppl in general when it comes to talking to the opposite sex

they're like what are the rules to getting numbers, or whatever it is..
how do i find him/her without seeming like a stalker or creepy fucker?

nothing will be gained without taking chances

2 things: use what we have between or spine and chest
use what's inside your skull

kinda simple common-sense if ya ask me

and if you ask me alot of ppl fail in having common sense

in cases like this it's trusting those we shouldn't
and not trusting those we should
some ppl have a hard time when it comes to reading a person's intentions

i personally think the o.p. has a set of balls and he is not a freaky creepy dude..

good luck..

Heineken Helen

Malcolm_X wrote:

Yeah, good advice, I won't contact her, but I gotta say I was pretty damn smooth with pickin' up the meaning of her claddagh ring .

I wouldn't read TOO much into that. I used to wear it pointing inwards cos I thought it looked better... was never anything to do with my status or to make iti seem like I'm off the market... so same often applies to people wearing it pointing outwards. It has it's meaning but many people don't care and just wear it the way it feels good on them.

Heineken Helen

Cosmo wrote:

...
I vote for 'Freaked Out' because those were sort of stalker techniques to gather the information.
If that happened to one of my gal friends and she wasn't freaked... I'd certainly tell her she should be.

I have to admit I'd be a little freaked out by it unless he was seriously cute... ah the hypocrisy

Irish Al

NY PJ1 wrote:

Just Contact Her,,whats The Worst That Can Happen?

Restraining order

NY PJ1

Irish Al wrote:

Restraining order

big brother with a baseball bat ?? llol

Irish Al

NY PJ1 wrote:

big brother with a baseball bat ?? llol

....and a penchant for fitting it in where the sun doesn't shine :rolleyes:

CityMouse

Heineken Helen wrote:

I wouldn't read TOO much into that. I used to wear it pointing inwards cos I thought it looked better... was never anything to do with my status or to make iti seem like I'm off the market... so same often applies to people wearing it pointing outwards. It has it's meaning but many people don't care and just wear it the way it feels good on them.

yeah this is true.

but you don't necessarily need to know if someone is single when you just met them and want to ask them out or whatever. if she has a bf you'll know soon enough.

smithnic

If you're contacting them on myspace, isn't that what myspace is for, contacting random girls to try to convince them that you're not a stalker so they'll be more apt to sleep with you?

eyedclaar

smithnic wrote:

If you're contacting them on myspace, isn't that what myspace is for, contacting random girls to try to convince them that you're not a stalker so they'll be more apt to sleep with you?

I believe that was the mission statement of the original myspace business plan.

smithnic

eyedclaar wrote:

I believe that was the mission statement of the original myspace business plan.

It's Tom right, that guy that's your first "friend"?
He totally started it to get laid!