How Often Does Your 'Partner' Initiate Sex?

urbanhippie

comebackgirl wrote:

you gotta bridge the distance somehow

I wanna know more about this contract..... Is it legalling binding?
*puts lawyer on speed dial*

decides2dream

comebackgirl wrote:

I made him sign a contract agreeing that he won't slack off down the road

I agree...whether it's 2x per day, 2x per week or 2x per month (the horror!) :eek: if both partners are satisfied and fulfilled it doesn't matter. Fortunately we're on the same page...for now at least!

i think THAT is the most important thing, and really is so important to a relationship's happiness. and sure, sadly, sometimes you're not on the same track....and it sucks, especially if it lasts awhile...but as long as you get back on track, it's all good.

stickboy

comebackgirl wrote:

I keep asking him if he'll still be like this in his 30's...he better be!

BTW - it's 2x a day even when we're apart...it just has to take a different form by necessity but it's still damn good!

shit, I'm 35 and ...well....I still havent left a girl without a silly grin or a blushed face

If one of yall ever rocked out with me at a show then you know what its like to fuck with stick ...and I do more than 3 encores

at 35

comebackwoman

urbanhippie wrote:

I wanna know more about this contract..... Is it legalling binding?
*puts lawyer on speed dial*

Absolutely! I'll send you a copy He's committed to once per day for eternity...but gets a bonus if he exceeds that requirement

decides2dream wrote:

i think THAT is the most important thing, and really is so important to a relationship's happiness. and sure, sadly, sometimes you're not on the same track....and it sucks, especially if it lasts awhile...but as long as you get back on track, it's all good.

everything falls off track once in a while...but as long as both people want to get it back on track it will work out!

and just like the desire can wane a bit living with someone 365 days a year, it can take some effort to keep it going when you're far apart and can't even touch. I think if you can keep it going in either situation it's a very good sign!

TrixieCat

stickboy wrote:

shit, I'm 35 and ...well....I still havent left a girl without a silly grin or a blushed face

If one of yall ever rocked out with me at a show then you know what its like to fuck with stick ...and I do more than 3 encores

at 35

:eek:
nice...

decides2dream

comebackgirl wrote:

everything falls off track once in a while...but as long as both people want to get it back on track it will work out!

and just like the desire can wane a bit living with someone 365 days a year, it can take some effort to keep it going when you're far apart and can't even touch. I think if you can keep it going in either situation it's a very good sign!

exactly.
being commited and in love/lust with one person does take effort, no matter what, from both partners! soooo worth it when you can though. everything waxes and wanes, everything changes with time......just have to make sure things change in a way that you're both still happy and satisified. besides, nothing like a fresh spark after being together forever...or being apart a long time.....;)

locked

decides2dream wrote:

if you're getting it, even if you have to initiate 99% of the time, you aren't deprived. i'm a very proactive woman. nuff said.

braggered!

acoustic guy

Steve Dunne wrote:

....and by 'partner' i don't mean your own hand....

...how do things get-a-rollin'???

My wife. Ha!
She waits until its after 10pm, after she has taken a shower, after I am in bed just about to fall asleep. Then I get, "hey, do you wanna have sex?"
Wow! what a kinky women she is.
I like it while making dinner, or in the morning, or afternoon or when ever, just not at the very very end of my day after working 12 hours.
Uggggg, very frustrating. But hey , I'll take it

comebackwoman

stickboy wrote:

shit, I'm 35 and ...well....I still havent left a girl without a silly grin or a blushed face

If one of yall ever rocked out with me at a show then you know what its like to fuck with stick ...and I do more than 3 encores

at 35

impressive! what were you like in your 20's??? :eek:

stickboy

TrixieCat wrote:

:eek:
nice...

hey, thats what SHE looked like right after lol

acoustic guy

comebackgirl wrote:

I keep asking him if he'll still be like this in his 30's...he better be!

BTW - it's 2x a day even when we're apart...it just has to take a different form by necessity but it's still damn good!

My kinda girl! Whats your number? I'm in the mood! LOL

decides2dream

locked wrote:

braggered!

not at all.
see comebackgirl's posts. hahaha!
i'm just sayin if you are in a relationship and still getting it when you ask, most of the time anyway, it's all good....no depravity there. while sure it's nice to say/think that initiation will always be shared, in reality we all know that isn't the case. so yes.....one needs to go after what they want. i don't have a problem with that.

comebackwoman

acoustic guy wrote:

My kinda girl! Whats your number? I'm in the mood! LOL

1-800-I LOVE AUSSIES

stickboy

comebackgirl wrote:

impressive! what were you like in your 20's??? :eek:

thats the funny thing...everybody always tells me I never look like 35, more like barely 25, well I still dont know what it feels like to be over 30..Im kinda trapped in a kids body and that youthful exuberance, stamina and energy has somehow remained...guess I should treasure that b4 one day it creeps up on me and I have to start popping Viagra...which to this day, still havent had the need for it.


ok no more pimping myself..this isnt Webdate

comebackwoman

stickboy wrote:

thats the funny thing...everybody always tells me I never look like 35, more like barely 25, well I still dont know what it feels like to be over 30..Im kinda trapped in a kids body and that youthful exuberance, stamina and energy has somehow remained...guess I should treasure that b4 one day it creeps up on me and I have to start popping Viagra...which to this day, still havent had the need for it.


ok no more pimping myself..this isnt Webdate

be careful...acoustic guy will be asking for your number next

CityMouse

what difference does it make who started it?

small town beck

stickboy wrote:

shit, I'm 35 and ...well....I still havent left a girl without a silly grin or a blushed face

If one of yall ever rocked out with me at a show then you know what its like to fuck with stick ...and I do more than 3 encores

at 35

Well, hello stickboy

acoustic guy

CityMouse wrote:

what difference does it make who started it?

Typical you. Nice to have you back Debbie Downer.

StateOfLoveBoatCptn.

what difference does it make who started it?

a lot. its nice to know the 'other' wants it too. having to always be the initiator wears on ya.

decides2dream

everyone enjoys being persued.........:D
however, it's fun to do the chasing too, and probably inspires more persual, so it all balances in the end. as i said, if you're getting it.....it's all win-win in any case.....:p