How Often Does Your 'Partner' Initiate Sex?

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  • comebackwomancomebackwoman Posts: 7,271
    One of us initiates at least twice a day. We're probably 50/50 in terms of who initiates. Keeps me satisfied :D
    There's a light when my baby's in my arms :)
  • urbanhippieurbanhippie Posts: 3,007
    i'm a very proactive woman. nuff said. :D
    Pro-active..... I like it :D
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  • Pro-active..... I like it :D

    So do I..... :)
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  • decides2dreamdecides2dream Posts: 14,977
    Pro-active..... I like it :D


    have to go for what you want. :D




    comebackgirl....talk to me after you actually live together 365 days a year, for a few years. :D ahhhh wait, you're with a 23 year old? forget it........:p i'll rephrase, wait until he's in his 30s, hahahaha. i think distance and time away make EVERYthing steamier. not that it can't be regularly of course, but there's something *more*...that whole distance makes the heart grow fonder, and the libido stronger. ;)
    Stay with me...
    Let's just breathe...


    I am myself like you somehow


  • comebackwomancomebackwoman Posts: 7,271
    have to go for what you want. :D




    comebackgirl....talk to me after you actually live together 365 days a year, for a few years. :D ahhhh wait, you're with a 23 year old? forget it........:p i'll rephrase, wait until he's in his 30s, hahahaha. i think distance and time away make EVERYthing steamier. not that it can't be regularly of course, but there's something *more*...that whole distance makes the heart grow fonder, and the libido stronger. ;)
    I keep asking him if he'll still be like this in his 30's...he better be! :D

    BTW - it's 2x a day even when we're apart...it just has to take a different form by necessity but it's still damn good!
    There's a light when my baby's in my arms :)
  • HOOKERHOOKER Posts: 1,443
    libragirl wrote:
    hmmm....I guess when the thread gets long enough..the insinuations and innuendos get a bit too R rated..but yeah let's talk about pot all we want...hmmm...i just thought of a good thread...

    for thread integrity: it's been months since I got any loving.

    I know how you feel ;
    Nice to know you.
  • decides2dreamdecides2dream Posts: 14,977
    I keep asking him if he'll still be like this in his 30's...he better be! :D

    BTW - it's 2x a day even when we're apart...it just has to take a different form by necessity but it's still damn good!



    none the less.....i stand by my statement. ;)
    and hey, i personally don't think it's a bad thing. quality, quantity, both...whatever.....as long as it happens and you're both happy and satisfied with whatever the frequency, then it's all good.
    Stay with me...
    Let's just breathe...


    I am myself like you somehow


  • urbanhippieurbanhippie Posts: 3,007
    I keep asking him if he'll still be like this in his 30's...he better be! :D

    BTW - it's 2x a day even when we're apart...it just has to take a different form by necessity but it's still damn good!
    I'm keeping my fingers crossed for that too... :p

    And there's nothing wrong with 'a different form' ;)... whatever floats your boat and makes being apart easier to bear :)
    A human being that was given to fly.

    Wembley 18/06/07

    If there was a reason, it was you.

    O2 Arena 18/09/09
  • comebackwomancomebackwoman Posts: 7,271
    none the less.....i stand by my statement. ;)
    and hey, i personally don't think it's a bad thing. quality, quantity, both...whatever.....as long as it happens and you're both happy and satisfied with whatever the frequency, then it's all good.
    I made him sign a contract agreeing that he won't slack off down the road :p

    I agree...whether it's 2x per day, 2x per week or 2x per month (the horror!) :eek: :p if both partners are satisfied and fulfilled it doesn't matter. Fortunately we're on the same page...for now at least!
    There's a light when my baby's in my arms :)
  • comebackwomancomebackwoman Posts: 7,271
    I'm keeping my fingers crossed for that too... :p

    And there's nothing wrong with 'a different form' ;)... whatever floats your boat and makes being apart easier to bear :)
    you gotta bridge the distance somehow ;)
    There's a light when my baby's in my arms :)
  • urbanhippieurbanhippie Posts: 3,007
    you gotta bridge the distance somehow ;)
    I wanna know more about this contract..... Is it legalling binding?
    *puts lawyer on speed dial* ;)
    A human being that was given to fly.

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    If there was a reason, it was you.

    O2 Arena 18/09/09
  • decides2dreamdecides2dream Posts: 14,977
    I made him sign a contract agreeing that he won't slack off down the road :p

    I agree...whether it's 2x per day, 2x per week or 2x per month (the horror!) :eek: :pif both partners are satisfied and fulfilled it doesn't matter. Fortunately we're on the same page...for now at least!



    i think THAT is the most important thing, and really is so important to a relationship's happiness. and sure, sadly, sometimes you're not on the same track....and it sucks, especially if it lasts awhile...but as long as you get back on track, it's all good. :)
    Stay with me...
    Let's just breathe...


    I am myself like you somehow


  • stickboystickboy Posts: 2,981
    I keep asking him if he'll still be like this in his 30's...he better be! :D

    BTW - it's 2x a day even when we're apart...it just has to take a different form by necessity but it's still damn good!
    shit, I'm 35 and ...well....I still havent left a girl without a silly grin or a blushed face

    If one of yall ever rocked out with me at a show then you know what its like to fuck with stick :D...and I do more than 3 encores

    at 35 :D
    Aah, fuck it, I’m just gonna go home, turn on the fuckin’ TV...
    Watch the nightly news and drink a beer...
    Like I could even change the world, yeah right...
    ************************************
  • comebackwomancomebackwoman Posts: 7,271
    I wanna know more about this contract..... Is it legalling binding?
    *puts lawyer on speed dial* ;)
    Absolutely! I'll send you a copy ;) He's committed to once per day for eternity...but gets a bonus if he exceeds that requirement :D
    i think THAT is the most important thing, and really is so important to a relationship's happiness. and sure, sadly, sometimes you're not on the same track....and it sucks, especially if it lasts awhile...but as long as you get back on track, it's all good. :)

    everything falls off track once in a while...but as long as both people want to get it back on track it will work out!

    and just like the desire can wane a bit living with someone 365 days a year, it can take some effort to keep it going when you're far apart and can't even touch. I think if you can keep it going in either situation it's a very good sign!
    There's a light when my baby's in my arms :)
  • TrixieCatTrixieCat Posts: 5,756
    stickboy wrote:
    shit, I'm 35 and ...well....I still havent left a girl without a silly grin or a blushed face

    If one of yall ever rocked out with me at a show then you know what its like to fuck with stick :D...and I do more than 3 encores

    at 35 :D
    :eek:
    nice...
    Cause I'm broken when I'm lonesome
    And I don't feel right when you're gone away
  • decides2dreamdecides2dream Posts: 14,977

    everything falls off track once in a while...but as long as both people want to get it back on track it will work out!

    and just like the desire can wane a bit living with someone 365 days a year, it can take some effort to keep it going when you're far apart and can't even touch. I think if you can keep it going in either situation it's a very good sign!





    exactly.
    being commited and in love/lust with one person does take effort, no matter what, from both partners! soooo worth it when you can though. everything waxes and wanes, everything changes with time......just have to make sure things change in a way that you're both still happy and satisified. :D besides, nothing like a fresh spark after being together forever...or being apart a long time.....;)
    Stay with me...
    Let's just breathe...


    I am myself like you somehow


  • lockedlocked Boston Posts: 4,039
    if you're getting it, even if you have to initiate 99% of the time, you aren't deprived. :) i'm a very proactive woman. nuff said. :D

    braggered!
    "This here's a REQUEST!"
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  • acoustic guyacoustic guy Posts: 3,770
    ....and by 'partner' i don't mean your own hand.... :D

    ...how do things get-a-rollin'???
    My wife. Ha!
    She waits until its after 10pm, after she has taken a shower, after I am in bed just about to fall asleep. Then I get, "hey, do you wanna have sex?"
    Wow! what a kinky women she is.
    I like it while making dinner, or in the morning, or afternoon or when ever, just not at the very very end of my day after working 12 hours.
    Uggggg, very frustrating. But hey , I'll take it ;)
    Get em a Body Bag Yeeeeeaaaaa!
    Sweep the Leg Johnny.
  • comebackwomancomebackwoman Posts: 7,271
    stickboy wrote:
    shit, I'm 35 and ...well....I still havent left a girl without a silly grin or a blushed face

    If one of yall ever rocked out with me at a show then you know what its like to fuck with stick :D...and I do more than 3 encores

    at 35 :D
    impressive! what were you like in your 20's??? :eek:
    There's a light when my baby's in my arms :)
  • stickboystickboy Posts: 2,981
    TrixieCat wrote:
    :eek:
    nice...
    hey, thats what SHE looked like right after lol
    Aah, fuck it, I’m just gonna go home, turn on the fuckin’ TV...
    Watch the nightly news and drink a beer...
    Like I could even change the world, yeah right...
    ************************************
  • acoustic guyacoustic guy Posts: 3,770
    I keep asking him if he'll still be like this in his 30's...he better be! :D

    BTW - it's 2x a day even when we're apart...it just has to take a different form by necessity but it's still damn good!
    My kinda girl! Whats your number? I'm in the mood! LOL
    Get em a Body Bag Yeeeeeaaaaa!
    Sweep the Leg Johnny.
  • decides2dreamdecides2dream Posts: 14,977
    locked wrote:
    braggered!


    not at all.
    see comebackgirl's posts. ;) hahaha!
    i'm just sayin if you are in a relationship and still getting it when you ask, most of the time anyway, it's all good....no depravity there. while sure it's nice to say/think that initiation will always be shared, in reality we all know that isn't the case. so yes.....one needs to go after what they want. i don't have a problem with that. :D
    Stay with me...
    Let's just breathe...


    I am myself like you somehow


  • comebackwomancomebackwoman Posts: 7,271
    My kinda girl! Whats your number? I'm in the mood! LOL
    1-800-I LOVE AUSSIES :D;)
    There's a light when my baby's in my arms :)
  • stickboystickboy Posts: 2,981
    impressive! what were you like in your 20's??? :eek:
    thats the funny thing...everybody always tells me I never look like 35, more like barely 25, well I still dont know what it feels like to be over 30..Im kinda trapped in a kids body and that youthful exuberance, stamina and energy has somehow remained...guess I should treasure that b4 one day it creeps up on me and I have to start popping Viagra...which to this day, still havent had the need for it. ;)


    ok no more pimping myself..this isnt Webdate :D
    Aah, fuck it, I’m just gonna go home, turn on the fuckin’ TV...
    Watch the nightly news and drink a beer...
    Like I could even change the world, yeah right...
    ************************************
  • comebackwomancomebackwoman Posts: 7,271
    stickboy wrote:
    thats the funny thing...everybody always tells me I never look like 35, more like barely 25, well I still dont know what it feels like to be over 30..Im kinda trapped in a kids body and that youthful exuberance, stamina and energy has somehow remained...guess I should treasure that b4 one day it creeps up on me and I have to start popping Viagra...which to this day, still havent had the need for it. ;)


    ok no more pimping myself..this isnt Webdate :D
    be careful...acoustic guy will be asking for your number next ;):p
    There's a light when my baby's in my arms :)
  • CityMouseCityMouse Posts: 1,010
    what difference does it make who started it?
  • small town becksmall town beck Posts: 6,691
    stickboy wrote:
    shit, I'm 35 and ...well....I still havent left a girl without a silly grin or a blushed face

    If one of yall ever rocked out with me at a show then you know what its like to fuck with stick :D...and I do more than 3 encores

    at 35 :D


    Well, hello stickboy ;)
  • acoustic guyacoustic guy Posts: 3,770
    CityMouse wrote:
    what difference does it make who started it?
    Typical you. Nice to have you back Debbie Downer. ;)
    Get em a Body Bag Yeeeeeaaaaa!
    Sweep the Leg Johnny.
  • what difference does it make who started it?

    a lot. its nice to know the 'other' wants it too. having to always be the initiator wears on ya.
  • decides2dreamdecides2dream Posts: 14,977
    everyone enjoys being persued.........:D
    however, it's fun to do the chasing too, and probably inspires more persual, so it all balances in the end. as i said, if you're getting it.....it's all win-win in any case.....:p
    Stay with me...
    Let's just breathe...


    I am myself like you somehow


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