lonliness

ajedigecko

TrixieCat wrote:

That was you!
I had forgotten about your trip.
Sounds like you had an awesome time.
That kind of loneliness is good for the soul...that lone wolf feeling..connecting with other likeminded people.

Deadnote, you have to break out of this cycle of loneliness...live your life...while you have it.
You are not a loser...I always enjoy reading what you have to say in the poetry forum, even though it is damn depressing.

sound advice.

i would say we are all losers at something and we are all winners at something. the difference being, which one are you going to choose to focus on.
i have had many losses that created wins. i simply made the choice to take the loss and learn from it.

stickboy

writersu wrote:

well at least get her to cook some pastitsio for you before she leaves or some dolmatos.

But yeah, you can't let someone else's view of your life decide who you are. But that is so easy for me to say right now. When I am where you are at, I can't feel that way too easily myself.
Hope all is better.

see? thats the price I gota pay! I havent had home cooking like thi in yrs so Im loving the fact I ge to hang with her, cook, and eat good, but then the Jekyll and Hyde effect starts to take place and I'm like :eek: time to go!

Trixie yea that was me!! My soul is really yearning for that kind of ...

escape again

acoustic guy

http://youtube.com/watch?v=ufVRMP2BQ00

One of my favorite songs ever.

ajedigecko

my song for this topic.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xE4VUnbZ5xM

writersu

stickboy wrote:

see? thats the price I gota pay! I havent had home cooking like thi in yrs so Im loving the fact I ge to hang with her, cook, and eat good, but then the Jekyll and Hyde effect starts to take place and I'm like :eek: time to go!

Trixie yea that was me!! My soul is really yearning for that kind of ...

escape again

See, she is putting you in a trance with the food. Guys are like that huh? And if that doesn't work, she could always give you the "if I die tomorrow" bit. I am Greek I know.

libragirl

stickboy wrote:

oh ..u mean mandi hasnt told ya??

its my fuckin mother dude...shes here from Greece on vacation to enjoy time with me and my sis and fam and all I here every day is BITCH BITCH BITCH
COME TO GREECE, DO THIS DO THAT< WHY HAVENT YOU ACCOMPLISHED ANYTHING??? When are you gonna get married?? GET A REAL JOB!!
GOING TO 30 PEARL JAM SHOWS??? ARE YOU RETARDED?? You waste your money on that satanic bullshit???

like :rolleyes:
yea...and theres more..from like 7am till 11pm+ ..nag and bitch and whine

im about to fuckin lose it..shes leaving in like 2 weeks and trying to be a good son, but ...damn already man..EVERY FUCKIN DAY! :mad: :mad:

Im sorry Eli....I saw your "fuck u life" headline on facebook and figured something was wrong....That's hard to hear from a parent...I feel like a disappointment to my family..I wasted time with someone who never intended to marry me..it fucking sucks..and then he's on here complaining about lonliness...fuck him.

stpmattb

I'm beyond lonely...

I bought my own house in November (cool I thought), but I live an hour away from my family and friends and I just feel completely detached from society.

libragirl

Slip Kid wrote:

"raises hand"

yep it sucks but whatever..

damn..put your hand down..

You are choosing lonliness..It's a life choice for you. So why would it suck?

:rolleyes:

LONGRD

Sometimes, I feel there no one out there that shares my interests and the things I really enjoy in life. I know we're all different and have different personalities but I'd love to share mine with others. (if that makes any sense at all)...:o

LONGRD

acoustic guy wrote:

http://youtube.com/watch?v=ufVRMP2BQ00

One of my favorite songs ever.

I really like this song, I should expand my musical interests and get into Wilco.

LONGRD

Hey guys(and gals),

Check this thread out, browse through and maybe you'll find someone just like yourselves. http://forums.pearljam.com/showthread.php?t=294000&page=38

Rock on

LongRd. wrote:

Sometimes, I feel there no one out there that shares my interests and the things I really enjoy in life. I know we're all different and have different personalities but I'd love to share mine with others. (if that makes any sense at all)...:o

Not sure if there's these groups in western Ma. but you can give it a try.

http://www.meetup.com/

LONGRD

Rock on wrote:

Not sure if there's these groups in western Ma. but you can give it a try.

http://www.meetup.com/

Haha thanks, I have some friends here but they understand me sometimes...

btw, how you know I was in Western Mass?

Brisk.

Emptiness is loneliness, and loneliness is cleanliness
And cleanliness is godliness, and god is empty just like me
Intoxicated with the madness, I'm in love with my sadness
Bullshit fakers, enchanted kingdoms
The fashion victims chew their charcoal teeth

stickboy

writersu wrote:

See, she is putting you in a trance with the food. Guys are like that huh? And if that doesn't work, she could always give you the "if I die tomorrow" bit. I am Greek I know.

hahahah oh o u totally understand.
today she wasnt that bad...i got out the house pretty quick tho so

yea libs past few days have been ...whatever u know, but its more than just Mom dukes u know, its the whole job thing here in NY, the fast pace life I hate living, like GO GO GO GO..fuck that compounded with other lil petty shit and the only people that understand are you guys ...it kinda sucks

but then again thats why most of us are all here right

TrixieCat

LongRd. wrote:

Haha thanks, I have some friends here but they understand me sometimes...

btw, how you know I was in Western Mass?

Because Rock On is cool.
:cool:

You seem like a nice enough person...though for some reason I thought you were married...not that it cures loneliness...lol

LONGRD

TrixieCat wrote:

Because Rock On is cool.
:cool:

You seem like a nice enough person...though for some reason I thought you were married...not that it cures loneliness...lol

Married me? Haha no way, I have a hard time taking care of myself let alone another human being.

libragirl

stickboy wrote:

hahahah oh o u totally understand.
today she wasnt that bad...i got out the house pretty quick tho so

yea libs past few days have been ...whatever u know, but its more than just Mom dukes u know, its the whole job thing here in NY, the fast pace life I hate living, like GO GO GO GO..fuck that compounded with other lil petty shit and the only people that understand are you guys ...it kinda sucks

but then again thats why most of us are all here right

sorry about the job thing..that sucks...that's why I dont leave my job, it's hard out there. This world is too fastpaced..I feel like dropping out and moving to the mountains and living in a cabin.

stickboy

libragirl wrote:

sorry about the job thing..that sucks...that's why I dont leave my job, it's hard out there. This world is too fastpaced..I feel like dropping out and moving to the mountains and living in a cabin.

if the cabin has cable Im down with that

libragirl

stickboy wrote:

if the cabin has cable Im down with that

lol...well yeah some modern conveniences would be nice..there would def. be indoor plumbing..Im not pooping in the woods or in a outhouse :P

I just think it would be good to be away from humanity for awhile..

LONGRD

stickboy wrote:

if the cabin has cable Im down with that

I haven't had cable in nearly 10 years....TV sucks!
TV and video games are two I'd kinda glad is out of my life..now all I need is to get out of the Internet.

xavier mcdaniel

stickboy wrote:

if the cabin has cable Im down with that

me too, i'd want to watch the yankee games and the ranger games.

stickboy

xavier mcdaniel wrote:

me too, i'd want to watch the yankee games and the ranger games.

and internet for moments when i get really high and find shit like this

so

heres this threads dedication

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kf8iC9t9Vvk&feature=related

CHANGEinWAVES

deadnote wrote:

im 35 aand wondering aabout this lonely road

anyone else a lonely loser

27 and getting divorced. :(
Count me in:(

LONGRD

CHANGEinWAVES wrote:

27 and getting divorced. :(
Count me in:(

Sorry about your divorce...

At least there was true love at some point in time, yes? some people are still looking for true love even if there might be some rough road ahead...

CHANGEinWAVES

LongRd. wrote:

Sorry about your divorce...

At least there was true love at some point in time, yes? some people are still looking for true love even if there might be some rough road ahead...

you're right...but right now it feels lonelier then ever to be alone. I'm sure there will be more hopeful days ahead, as there should be for all of us lonely people:)

LONGRD

CHANGEinWAVES wrote:

you're right...but right now it feels lonelier then ever to be alone. I'm sure there will be more hopeful days ahead, as there should be for all of us lonely people:)

Yeah it does hurt more when someone you cared for are not there for you anymore...I've been in those situation (though not on the levels of marriage but still painful nonetheless) :(

You just got to keep on living strong, that's all there is to do.

CHANGEinWAVES

LongRd. wrote:

Yeah it does hurt more when someone you cared for are not there for you anymore...I've been in those situation (though not on the levels of marriage but still painful nonetheless) :(

You just got to keep on living strong, that's all there is to do.

thank you. bad days/nights like this tend to creep in from time to time.

writersu

stickboy wrote:

hahahah oh o u totally understand.
today she wasnt that bad...i got out the house pretty quick tho so

yea libs past few days have been ...whatever u know, but its more than just Mom dukes u know, its the whole job thing here in NY, the fast pace life I hate living, like GO GO GO GO..fuck that compounded with other lil petty shit and the only people that understand are you guys ...it kinda sucks

but then again thats why most of us are all here right

So glad you know what I mean when I say, 'I KNOW......' When I was attending church lastly, (A Christian Bible church) the Pastor thought it was funny when I told him that in the olden days, when a Greek person died, their family hired "criers" to mourn them. That is so funny when I think of it. Maybe I have foung my "side job". Hey you can get out of your rat race with that one too.
I don't know why it is so hard to be around family and be an adult and not act like a teenager when they piss you off. I mean, here I am, knowing that at my age I should be able to just ignore the whole demeaning "your life needs my advise" thing, but once it starts all I want to do is stomp my foot and say, "I am adult and you can't tell me what to do!!" So mature........

Family stresses me out...........

stickboy

writersu wrote:

So glad you know what I mean when I say, 'I KNOW......' When I was attending church lastly, (A Christian Bible church) the Pastor thought it was funny when I told him that in the olden days, when a Greek person died, their family hired "criers" to mourn them. That is so funny when I think of it. Maybe I have foung my "side job". Hey you can get out of your rat race with that one too.
I don't know why it is so hard to be around family and be an adult and not act like a teenager when they piss you off. I mean, here I am, knowing that at my age I should be able to just ignore the whole demeaning "your life needs my advise" thing, but once it starts all I want to do is stomp my foot and say, "I am adult and you can't tell me what to do!!" So mature........

Family stresses me out...........

lmfao!

think i can picture the greek dialogue and cussing,

Ive given up on the whole.."Im an adult .." thing....falls on deaf ears, lol!