The Talk .
josevolution
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i had it last night with my 13 soon to be 14 yr old son the testosterone is literally spewing out of him so i thought it was the right time ,we talked about everything form masturbating to sexual intercourse it when very well anyone else out here have the talk with son/daughter ,i do have a daughter but my wife will have to do that talk ...:)
jesus greets me looks just like me ....
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good for you!!!
I think my mom has probably never said the word "masturbating" out loud, let alone in my presence. The sex talk she gave me was comprised of the most sterile and vague description of intercourse you could possibly imagine. Thank god I had an older sister who subscribed to Cosmo and other magazines that were full of material inappropriate for a 10 yr old, or I may still be trying to figure this stuff out.
take a good look
this could be the day
hold my hand
lie beside me
i just need to say
Did you grab his mother and provide visuals? Did you go 'And you do it like THIS and like THIS and like THIS and like THIS'!!!????
Me too. She told me I would have to start wearing a bra ( I think I was like one of the first girls in my glass.. gawd I hated THAT.. afraid my strap would get snapped.. afraid it wouldn't
put on a slow, dumb show for you
and crack you up
so you can put a blue ribbon on my brain
god I'm very, very frightening
and I'll overdo it'
well i'm a parent now, so im not sure whether the fact i didnt get 'a talk' is a good thing or not.
take a good look
this could be the day
hold my hand
lie beside me
i just need to say
it went pretty smoth i kept it very profesional not to descriptive told him to use tissues, paper towel when pleasureing himself,no tshirts or bath towels and we also wen't over the use of condoms and he was not uncomfortable or anything ..he appreciated it and it put my mind at ease a bit ....
well damm that sucks , i told him to make sure allways use protection and that he is not ready to have sex yet ,i tried to keep it on his level it was mainly about the masturbating that his exploring now ..but i will have a 2nd talk with him about that part of the sexual experience that he will encounter ....
Just keep him away from the Spears girls and he should be fine.
isn't that the truth i do have to keep a close eye on him though he seems to be lady's man ...
My oldest son is 10 so I still have a couple of years before I sit him down and pass on the wisdon bestowed upon my by my brothers.
so all three were giving you info damm you must of looked like this
ugh me too. I refused to wear one until I was in jr high even though I pretty much needed one at 9. but my mum didn't bug me too much about it. I did have to learn about periods at 9, because the doctor told my mum it might be coming soon. She didn't mention anything about sex when she told me about it, she basically said "once a month women bleed and your tummy hurts and it's perfectly normal and just tell me when it happens and I'll show you what to do." I just inferred it had something to do with sex, but didn't understand the actual science of it until my 7th grade bio class...luckily 9 turned out to be too early, it didn't come until 11, which was horrific enough, I was still the first girl in my class.
i guess the spears girls also learned the same way you did :eek:
That can be a problem, if it comes a little too naturally, and the parents aren't talking about it.
If for nothing else, the parents need to know where the kids stand and whether or not they understand how to get and use birth control.
LONG LIVE PORN!!!!
i think parents or young people themselves should concentrate more on how not to get pregnant and how not to catch STD's. i think this is more important than explaining to someone what wanking, giving a blow job means in my opinon
I started wearing a bra at 9, and started my period at 10...just a few months after I learned what it was...lol. I was the first girl in my class for both of those. I matured very early!
yep, and that's exactly when i started getting my fucking acne. sometimes i wish i'd always stayed a child, lots of things would've been easier if i did.
huh, wishfull thinking :(
They where giving me detailed info. They where telling me about foreplay, masturbation, the whole nine my friend. They thought it would be hillarious when I asked my parents the next morning why a woman would give a guy a hand job in a movie theatre, which I did ask because they told me to ask. Needless to say I was the sex expert in my grade and my brothers where grounded for sometime. My friends and I still joke about it till this day how I opened their eyes to a whole new world that one fatefull day in 3rd grade.
haha meeeee too. I think it was a sign that I lost all my baby teeth before I was 5, and I was five feet tall and almost 100 lbs by second grade.
god I was terrified of wearing a bra to school though. I *knew* people would find out and just tear me apart for it. Even when I finally started wearing them, I wore nothing but sports bras for about 5 years
lol, oh my god, you lost all your teeth before 5!? That's insane! I started losing them at five and finished at 11. As far as height goes, I was the third tallest girl in my class for like 3 months at the beginning of 6th grade, lol. And then I grew about 2 more inches over the next 4 years, and that was it.
I remember being humiliated by the bra thing, too...but, I was also humiliated by the breasts that were like busting out of my shirts, so I had to do something...lol. People said things either way. I basically started having a very "womanly" figure by the time I was 10, and I felt very awkward about the whole thing.
I don't know, I feel like I knew about all that stuff, somehow. I did read more newspapers and stuff than the average pubescent kid...I don't think I actually knew where to *get* birth control, other than the doctor and for that you'd need mum to take you so I wasn't about to ask for that, and I knew that I wasn't going to get birth control I certainly wasn't going to have sex. but through my entire teenage years I never considered actually having sex so it wasn't a problem. Maybe because I went to an inner city high school and there were TONS of pregnant girls around me every day, but always just thought sex=pregnant and not going to college. from age 12 to 18, I basically had 2 goals in life: going to rock shows and getting into college, and I wasn't going to take ANY chances that might fuck that up.
yep, you were damned if you did and damned if you didn't. I solved the problem by wearing ENORMOUS sweatshirts at all times and when it was too hot layering tshirts. not a good solution.
and yeah, I stopped growing when I was 12. When I am at my perfect weight, I am the exact same size I was when I was in 7th grade.
man that is some funny shit i never got the talk i learned form first hand experience no pund intended
very wise, everyone should question safety of condoms