So my wife had a dream that I was cheating

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  • libragirllibragirl Posts: 4,632
    fowls wrote:
    But men are logical in their nuttyness!

    ha..ha..that's what you say. Sometimes I can't understand the stuff they do.:p
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  • NY PJ1NY PJ1 Posts: 9,533
    all i can say is.....

    I WONDER WHY?????????????????????? ;)
  • catefrancescatefrances Posts: 29,003
    So now she bevlieves it! WTF??
    I cant be guilty b/c of a fucking dream. She is telling me she will cut it off and everything. Man oh man, not fun for me.
    :(:(:(
    LOL she called me at my store and said in a kinda kidding way " what are you doing? Getting a blow job in your office?" WTF? hahaha

    shes fucking with you in a humourous way. she had a dream... she doesnt really believe youre cheating on her. if she did shed be waiting at the front door with a cleaver in her hand and a smile on her face. :D tis my belief that dreams are what the brain does when the body is at rest cause it has nothing else to do but run away with itself.


    i had a dream in december 2005 that my eldest daughter was pregnant. when i told her she was horrified. anyhoo in january i had the dream again. 3 weeks later daughter #2 told me she was pregnant. all i could do was laugh.
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  • justamjustam Posts: 21,412
    libragirl wrote:
    I can understand that dream must of been upsetting to your wife but dreams aren't really supposed to be taking as literal. They are usually symbolic. It could be she's feeling insecure about something and you cheating was symbolic of that. But this is only my opinion.

    I agree with this.

    You probably need to find out what's making her feel insecure. She's obviously worried about something.
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  • Heineken HelenHeineken Helen Posts: 18,095
    *dawn* wrote:
    I had a dream like that once, and when i woke up i was so pissed off at my husband. I couldn't help myself - it was so real! I didn't tell him about it because I knew it was totally irrational...but I sure was mad!
    :o I'm sorry but that's really funny... I know it's not though... I've dreamt people have died and woke up sobbing and convulsing... and I've had dreams where I've woke myself by laughing hysterically... these feelings still leave you quite shook up for a while cos they're so fucking real.
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  • Get_RightGet_Right Posts: 13,312
    since you are already in the doghouse

    go get some strange and move on
    ;)
  • acoustic guyacoustic guy Posts: 3,770
    NY PJ1 wrote:
    all i can say is.....

    I WONDER WHY?????????????????????? ;)
    Fucker. Never. :rolleyes:
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  • acoustic guyacoustic guy Posts: 3,770
    justam wrote:
    I agree with this.

    You probably need to find out what's making her feel insecure. She's obviously worried about something.
    Its b/c I have new european employees.....well girls and she gets jealous a little. I actually try not to hire real hot ones b/c they distract me too much. Even more so if they flirt. Some of these girls are freakin hot as hell so she see's this and gives me the stink eye. Then at home she will make little comments. Its all in good fun, she knows I would never do anything like that.
    LOL once she looked right into my eyes and said " If I ever catch you with another woman........I will cut it the fuck off" EEK! I almost shit my pants and went limp for a week :(
    Get em a Body Bag Yeeeeeaaaaa!
    Sweep the Leg Johnny.
  • in_hiding79in_hiding79 Posts: 4,315
    Fucker. Never. :rolleyes:



    That is exactly why he's not getting married....EVER!! :p
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  • stickfig13stickfig13 Posts: 1,532
    and you think you have it bad... I've got a friend who was found guilty to murder when the only "witness" was a person who had a dream that he killed the victims. There was no other evidence that could have reasonably convicted him.

    He's now serving triple life sentences for a crime he didn't commit.


    I need some proof of this...
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  • CollinCollin Posts: 4,931
    ones of the best in the state actually.

    but when you have manufactured police evidence, an inattentive jury, and a judge in cahoots with the prosectution lawyer, you can't expect much.

    How do you know all this? That the evidence was manufactered, the judge was colluding with the prosecutor?

    Anyway, women are irrational.

    I can't believe how many women here agree, so comical :D So this is why women are pissed for no apparent reason, eh? They had a bad dream about you.
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    the summary of the event was that my friend blacked out from cough syncopy while driving his car with his children in it, and his car then veered into a dam. He survived and unfortunately his children didn't. He is now serving three life sentences.

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  • decides2dreamdecides2dream Posts: 14,977
    So now she bevlieves it! WTF??
    I cant be guilty b/c of a fucking dream. She is telling me she will cut it off and everything. Man oh man, not fun for me.

    LOL she called me at my store and said in a kinda kidding way " what are you doing? Getting a blow job in your office?" WTF? hahaha



    hahahaha...that's awesome! not for you of course, but damn funny...:p sorry.


    many years ago, my husband kept having dreams that i was killing him! :eek: :o :( that was sad. also had a couple that i cheated, he caught me, and i shrugged it off, laughed...like so what, too bad?! very sad. luckily, he took none of em to heart, nothing in 'real life' to make him feel that way. i believe it was early in our marriage, so perhaps not feeling 100% certain/confident in us? dunno. of course, there are NO guarantees, period...no matter how long you are a couple, but i think such uncertainties ease in time.


    in regards to your wife, is she going thru a big life-change? professionally or personally? has the dynamics of your relationship altered at all recently? any such issues may influence her dreams, and thus her thinking...rightly or wrongly....so it may manifest itself in her having doubts, in herself, and/or in you......good luck! :)



    just read thru the thread...aha! thereya go!
    Its b/c I have new european employees.....well girls and she gets jealous a little. I actually try not to hire real hot ones b/c they distract me too much. Even more so if they flirt. Some of these girls are freakin hot as hell so she see's this and gives me the stink eye. Then at home she will make little comments. Its all in good fun, she knows I would never do anything like that.
    LOL once she looked right into my eyes and said " If I ever catch you with another woman........I will cut it the fuck off" EEK! I almost shit my pants and went limp for a week



    so sure, lots of very attractive younger girls working for you...this is your busy season and you are AT wrok a LOT..so less time at home with her/the family.....so just some insecurity! i don't know how long you are married...nor if your wife is, and will always be, the insecure/jealous type...but no matter what...just give her some extra attention and validation. should help. don't go overboard tho, b/c then she'll wonder what you are overcompensating for....haha. EVERYone needs reassurance from time to time that they are truly loved, valued...and sure...still damn sexy.
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  • ArtMarsArtMars Posts: 109
    So now she bevlieves it! WTF??
    I cant be guilty b/c of a fucking dream. She is telling me she will cut it off and everything. Man oh man, not fun for me.
    :(:(:(
    LOL she called me at my store and said in a kinda kidding way " what are you doing? Getting a blow job in your office?" WTF? hahaha

    No offense, but I think your wife is nuts!
  • acoustic guyacoustic guy Posts: 3,770
    ArtMars wrote:
    No offense, but I think your wife is nuts!
    My man you must not have much experience with women.
    Get em a Body Bag Yeeeeeaaaaa!
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  • libragirllibragirl Posts: 4,632
    My man you must not have much experience with women.

    yeah...


    So are thing okay now?
    These cuts are leaving creases. Trace the scars to fit the pieces, to tell the story, you don't need to say a word.
  • acoustic guyacoustic guy Posts: 3,770
    libragirl wrote:
    yeah...


    So are thing okay now?
    Yes, thanks for asking. We are great. :D
    Get em a Body Bag Yeeeeeaaaaa!
    Sweep the Leg Johnny.
  • libragirllibragirl Posts: 4,632
    Yes, thanks for asking. We are great. :D

    :cool:
    These cuts are leaving creases. Trace the scars to fit the pieces, to tell the story, you don't need to say a word.
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