So my wife had a dream that I was cheating

acoustic guy
acoustic guy Posts: 3,770
edited June 2008 in All Encompassing Trip
So now she bevlieves it! WTF??
I cant be guilty b/c of a fucking dream. She is telling me she will cut it off and everything. Man oh man, not fun for me.
:(:(:(
LOL she called me at my store and said in a kinda kidding way " what are you doing? Getting a blow job in your office?" WTF? hahaha
Get em a Body Bag Yeeeeeaaaaa!
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  • the wolf
    the wolf Posts: 7,027
    acoustic guy wrote:
    So now she bevlieves it! WTF??
    I cant be guilty b/c of a fucking dream. She is telling me she will cut it off and everything. Man oh man, not fun for me.
    :(:(:(
    LOL she called me at my store and said in a kinda kidding way " what are you doing? Getting a blow job in your office?" WTF? hahaha


    tell her thats okay, you had a dream the she brought you home a hot girl for a 3some !! so that must be going to come true also!!!

    that will shut her up ;)
    Peace, Love.

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  • Whizbang
    Whizbang Posts: 1,314
    no, you cannot be guilty because of a dream.

    I don't remember most of my dreams. Only rarely do I have dreams so vivid that I recall the smallest of details about them. The ones that have been vivid are during times when I've been unsure or unclear about some things that had gone on in and around my life or some major changes (ie a new job).

    Your wife could have some daily stressers that don't appear that big of a deal (and have nothing to do with infidelity) but the stress is coming out in her dreams. She may not even see the connection since the dream was probably so vivid, it's the only thing she can focus on right now. And let's face it, that's not a great dream....
    believe it or not, we don't "need" anything. that is only the spoiled brat in us trying to fill some temporary solution to an emptyness that does not exist.

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  • libragirl
    libragirl Posts: 4,632
    I can understand that dream must of been upsetting to your wife but dreams aren't really supposed to be taking as literal. They are usually symbolic. It could be she's feeling insecure about something and you cheating was symbolic of that. But this is only my opinion.
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  • mca47
    mca47 Posts: 13,337
    I've had ex girlfriends who had a dream where we were arguing or something and they woke up and were pissed off at me.

    Chicks are fuckin' insane!!
  • CHANGEinWAVES
    CHANGEinWAVES Posts: 10,169
    I had a dream my husband wanted a divorce...2 weeks later he told me he did. then I had a dream he was cheating with a girl from work....about a month later I found out he was (not the same girl from the dream but close enough).
    "I'm not present, I'm a drug that makes you dream"
  • mca47
    mca47 Posts: 13,337
    CHANGEinWAVES wrote:
    I had a dream my husband wanted a divorce...2 weeks later he told me he did. then I had a dream he was cheating with a girl from work....about a month later I found out he was (not the same girl from the dream but close enough).

    You need to start dreaming about winning the lotto or something. ;)
  • the wolf
    the wolf Posts: 7,027
    CHANGEinWAVES wrote:
    I had a dream my husband wanted a divorce...2 weeks later he told me he did. then I had a dream he was cheating with a girl from work....about a month later I found out he was (not the same girl from the dream but close enough).

    your just intuitive , thats all.


    i had a dream that Charlize Theron wanted to have sex with me, im still waiting for her call. :(
    Peace, Love.

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    to not question your government is unpatriotic."
    -- Sen. Chuck Hagel
  • acoustic guy
    acoustic guy Posts: 3,770
    CHANGEinWAVES wrote:
    I had a dream my husband wanted a divorce...2 weeks later he told me he did. then I had a dream he was cheating with a girl from work....about a month later I found out he was (not the same girl from the dream but close enough).
    That sucks but thats not me. I mean I will try to fight off the girls I meet in MSG the best I can but thats all I can do. ;)
    Get em a Body Bag Yeeeeeaaaaa!
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  • CHANGEinWAVES
    CHANGEinWAVES Posts: 10,169
    acoustic guy wrote:
    That sucks but thats not me. I mean I will try to fight off the girls I meet in MSG the best I can but thats all I can do. ;)
    I wasn't implying it was you. :)
    i was just saying it does happen.
    "I'm not present, I'm a drug that makes you dream"
  • CHANGEinWAVES
    CHANGEinWAVES Posts: 10,169
    the wolf wrote:
    your just intuitive , thats all.


    i had a dream that Charlize Theron wanted to have sex with me, im still waiting for her call. :(
    I think you're gonna be waiting along time for that one:)
    "I'm not present, I'm a drug that makes you dream"
  • the wolf
    the wolf Posts: 7,027
    CHANGEinWAVES wrote:
    I think you're gonna be waiting along time for that one:)

    idk, maybe ill just send her a copy of the SV song, and her panties will drop!!

    ;)
    Peace, Love.

    "To question your government is not unpatriotic --
    to not question your government is unpatriotic."
    -- Sen. Chuck Hagel
  • CHANGEinWAVES
    CHANGEinWAVES Posts: 10,169
    the wolf wrote:
    idk, maybe ill just send her a copy of the SV song, and her panties will drop!!

    ;)
    haha...I heard she's a sucker for the SV!!!

    *back on topic*
    I know when I had my dreams (nightmares) all I wanted was to be comforted and kinda loved a bit more. Just reassurance is mostly all she wants...and a few more hugs. Telling her she's crazy will probably only make her feel worse.
    "I'm not present, I'm a drug that makes you dream"
  • Kushikushun
    Kushikushun Posts: 1,263
    acoustic guy wrote:
    So now she bevlieves it! WTF??
    I cant be guilty b/c of a fucking dream. She is telling me she will cut it off and everything. Man oh man, not fun for me.
    :(:(:(
    LOL she called me at my store and said in a kinda kidding way " what are you doing? Getting a blow job in your office?" WTF? hahaha

    The important Q here is why does she take her dream so seriously?

    Ask her that in a nice way....
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  • LONGRD
    LONGRD Posts: 6,036
    first, I'll admit I LOL'd at the "are you getting a blowjob in your office" question she asked.

    Anyways, best of luck to you both.
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  • 3inputchick
    3inputchick Posts: 845
    Let me talk to her....
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  • LONGRD
    LONGRD Posts: 6,036
    3inputchick wrote:
    Let me talk to her....
    about showerheads? :eek:
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  • dawng
    dawng Posts: 644
    I had a dream like that once, and when i woke up i was so pissed off at my husband. I couldn't help myself - it was so real! I didn't tell him about it because I knew it was totally irrational...but I sure was mad!
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  • in_hiding79
    in_hiding79 Posts: 4,315
    acoustic guy wrote:
    So now she bevlieves it! WTF??
    I cant be guilty b/c of a fucking dream. She is telling me she will cut it off and everything. Man oh man, not fun for me.
    :(:(:(
    LOL she called me at my store and said in a kinda kidding way " what are you doing? Getting a blow job in your office?" WTF? hahaha


    What the heck has gotten into your wife?? Maybe she is the guilty one!!! :p
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  • westsidepie
    westsidepie Posts: 627
    CHANGEinWAVES wrote:
    I had a dream my husband wanted a divorce...2 weeks later he told me he did. then I had a dream he was cheating with a girl from work....about a month later I found out he was (not the same girl from the dream but close enough).

    You had probably been noticing little things without consciously putting them together to form a complete picture. Your brain did that for you while you were asleep. I can't tell you how many problem that stumped me during the day only to be solved by my brain while sleeping.
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  • Rhinocerous Surprise
    Rhinocerous Surprise Posts: 4,423
    Two very important words: double jeopardy. ;)
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