I can't tell you how many times people have told me what an awesome guy I am, and how much they like me as a friend. Yes, it does make you want to stab them in the eye with a rusty fork, but at the same time, I couldn't be any other way. I've vowed on several occasions to become a bastard to further my romances, but I just couldn't bring myself to do it.
And I think that's a good compliment. Depends on if you like the thought of marriage or not.
I can't tell you how many times people have told me what an awesome guy I am, and how much they like me as a friend. Yes, it does make you want to stab them in the eye with a rusty fork, but at the same time, I couldn't be any other way. I've vowed on several occasions to become a bastard to further my romances, but I just couldn't bring myself to do it.
And I think that's a good compliment. Depends on if you like the thought of marriage or not.
there are a lot of girls out here who really do like the "nice guys". I always have and always will. Sometimes when we say we like you just as a friend it is b/c an attraction isn't there - it is not because you are nice no one can help who they are and are not attracted to! i wish we could!!!
I can't tell you how many times people have told me what an awesome guy I am, and how much they like me as a friend. Yes, it does make you want to stab them in the eye with a rusty fork, but at the same time, I couldn't be any other way. I've vowed on several occasions to become a bastard to further my romances, but I just couldn't bring myself to do it.
And I think that's a good compliment. Depends on if you like the thought of marriage or not.
besides....nice boys can be very, very naughty good fun anyway.
happily married, 16 years this june, to the nicest of men.
mad love indeed!
I can't tell you how many times people have told me what an awesome guy I am, and how much they like me as a friend. Yes, it does make you want to stab them in the eye with a rusty fork, but at the same time, I couldn't be any other way. I've vowed on several occasions to become a bastard to further my romances, but I just couldn't bring myself to do it.
And I think that's a good compliment. Depends on if you like the thought of marriage or not.
join the club and i agree with you, i couldn't be a scumbag to advance my personal life either.
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Things happen in the game. Nothing you
can do. I don't go and say,
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besides....nice boys can be very, very naughty good fun anyway.
happily married, 16 years this june, to the nicest of men.
mad love indeed!
yes... yes indeed they can
I've done both, had relationships with both nice and nasty guys and I have to say... give me nice ANY day!
Been to this many PJ shows: Reading 2006 London 2007 Manchester & London 2009 Dublin, Belfast, London, Nijmegen & Berlin 2010 Manchester 1 & Manchester 2 2012...
... and I still think Drive-By Truckers are better.
Nice is all I know. I never could be a nasty/bad guy even if you payed me.
That's what I get for having two older sisters. lol
Strangely, the 'nasty/bad' guy (well tbh, he wasn't 'nasty' as such he just made some bad decisions) I was with last and the genuinely nasty guy I was with before him BOTH had 2 older sisters...
as does my current boyfriend, who happens to be very nice...
Been to this many PJ shows: Reading 2006 London 2007 Manchester & London 2009 Dublin, Belfast, London, Nijmegen & Berlin 2010 Manchester 1 & Manchester 2 2012...
... and I still think Drive-By Truckers are better.
I've done both, had relationships with both nice and nasty guys and I have to say... give me nice ANY day!
Oh me too... absolutely. In my younger shallower days, I used to go for nasty cos ya think life will be more interesting... but no, life tends to simply be about them. Then I grew up and life is MUCH better!
In saying that... it's not just men who get the 'nice guy' speech... I've got that in the past... best example was one of the sites I worked on, one of the girls in the canteen was stunningly gorgeous but she was quite the bitch to the lads... so I got told quite often that I was the 'nicest' girl on the site :rolleyes: even though there was only about 5 of us, lol. But that was supposed to mean something to me I got the impression the lads thought that 'naturally' I would feel inferior to her... even though I've always been able to see things as they are... and I got on really well with her too! Hmm... I dunno where I'm going with this and I've forgotten my point so I'll stop, lol.
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Had I not found this love with you
Oh me too... absolutely. In my younger shallower days, I used to go for nasty cos ya think life will be more interesting... but no, life tends to simply be about them. Then I grew up and life is MUCH better!
In saying that... it's not just men who get the 'nice guy' speech... I've got that in the past... best example was one of the sites I worked on, one of the girls in the canteen was stunningly gorgeous but she was quite the bitch to the lads... so I got told quite often that I was the 'nicest' girl on the site :rolleyes: even though there was only about 5 of us, lol. But that was supposed to mean something to me I got the impression the lads thought that 'naturally' I would feel inferior to her... even though I've always been able to see things as they are... and I got on really well with her too! Hmm... I dunno where I'm going with this and I've forgotten my point so I'll stop, lol.
no, I see what you're saying... being 'nice' and approachable can often be more attractive than looks or surface impression. Because you got on with everyone and were on a level with the guys they found you to be 'nicer' for want of a better word.
Been to this many PJ shows: Reading 2006 London 2007 Manchester & London 2009 Dublin, Belfast, London, Nijmegen & Berlin 2010 Manchester 1 & Manchester 2 2012...
... and I still think Drive-By Truckers are better.
Oh me too... absolutely. In my younger shallower days,
ok i couldnt read anymore of your post becuz THIS part made me laugh so freakin hard!!! its like if u were ten yesterday and today youre 55 or something!!! hahahaha
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there are a lot of girls out here who really do like the "nice guys". I always have and always will. Sometimes when we say we like you just as a friend it is b/c an attraction isn't there - it is not because you are nice no one can help who they are and are not attracted to! i wish we could!!!
damn that was nicely put!
~~~~~~ALWAYS HAVE A GOOD TIME~~~~~~
Sir Mike McCready is....THE MASTER!!! WAHHH!!!
EVENFLOW PSYCHOS H.N.I.C~FEEL THE FLOW!!!
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ok i couldnt read anymore of your post becuz THIS part made me laugh so freakin hard!!! its like if u were ten yesterday and today youre 55 or something!!! hahahaha
cmon most people were shallow as a teenager
The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
Verona??? it's all surmountable
Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
Wembley? We all believe!
Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
Chicago 07? And love
What a different life
Had I not found this love with you
no, I see what you're saying... being 'nice' and approachable can often be more attractive than looks or surface impression. Because you got on with everyone and were on a level with the guys they found you to be 'nicer' for want of a better word.
yeh, but there was just something funny about their need to say it. I got on great with her but she WAS a bitch to the lads so I knew that I was nicer... I also knew this was their 'nice' way of telling me that she was much hotter... which I also knew but I appreciated their noticing that I had qualities too.
The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
Verona??? it's all surmountable
Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
Wembley? We all believe!
Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
Chicago 07? And love
What a different life
Had I not found this love with you
yeh, but there was just something funny about their need to say it. I got on great with her but she WAS a bitch to the lads so I knew that I was nicer... I also knew this was their 'nice' way of telling me that she was much hotter... which I also knew but I appreciated their noticing that I had qualities too.
ah but men will never understand women's inferiority complexes (or lack there of) and vice versa....
It was nice of them though, I agree
Been to this many PJ shows: Reading 2006 London 2007 Manchester & London 2009 Dublin, Belfast, London, Nijmegen & Berlin 2010 Manchester 1 & Manchester 2 2012...
... and I still think Drive-By Truckers are better.
ah but men will never understand women's inferiority complexes (or lack there of) and vice versa....
It was nice of them though, I agree
well I think they often presumed that cos I'd be out smoking with them while they're talking about her, that maybe I DID feel inferior... but I never did. I wasn't working there for attention or to find men but, while some people would take the 'nice' thing as an insult... I always took it as a compliment.
The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
Verona??? it's all surmountable
Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
Wembley? We all believe!
Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
Chicago 07? And love
What a different life
Had I not found this love with you
And I think that's a good compliment. Depends on if you like the thought of marriage or not.
It's not so much that, just the implication behind what she said, in that of all her friends, I was the only one she could see having a actual meaningful relationship. It's just a shame that two of my friends that I really liked never had the same appreciation
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Yea once your a nice guy you always are. lol
there are a lot of girls out here who really do like the "nice guys". I always have and always will. Sometimes when we say we like you just as a friend it is b/c an attraction isn't there - it is not because you are nice
besides....nice boys can be very, very naughty good fun anyway.
happily married, 16 years this june, to the nicest of men.
mad love indeed!
Let's just breathe...
I am myself like you somehow
join the club and i agree with you, i couldn't be a scumbag to advance my personal life either.
Albany 2006 Camden 2006 E. Rutherford 2, 2006 Inglewood 2006,
Chicago 2007
Camden 2008 MSG 2008 MSG 2008 Hartford 2008.
Seattle 2009 Seattle 2009 Philadelphia 2009,Philadelphia 2009 Philadelphia 2009
Hartford 2010 MSG 2010 MSG 2010
Toronto 2011,Toronto 2011
Wrigley Field 2013 Brooklyn 2013 Brooklyn 2013 Philadelphia 2, 2013
Philadelphia 1, 2016 Philadelphia 2 2016 New York 2016 New York 2016 Fenway 1, 2016
Fenway 2, 2018
MSG 2022
St. Paul, 1, St. Paul 2 2023
MSG 2024, MSG 2024
Philadelphia 2024
"I play good, hard-nosed basketball.
Things happen in the game. Nothing you
can do. I don't go and say,
"I'm gonna beat this guy up."
yes... yes indeed they can
I've done both, had relationships with both nice and nasty guys and I have to say... give me nice ANY day!
... and I still think Drive-By Truckers are better.
Nice is all I know. I never could be a nasty/bad guy even if you payed me.
That's what I get for having two older sisters. lol
Strangely, the 'nasty/bad' guy (well tbh, he wasn't 'nasty' as such he just made some bad decisions) I was with last and the genuinely nasty guy I was with before him BOTH had 2 older sisters...
as does my current boyfriend, who happens to be very nice...
... and I still think Drive-By Truckers are better.
In saying that... it's not just men who get the 'nice guy' speech... I've got that in the past... best example was one of the sites I worked on, one of the girls in the canteen was stunningly gorgeous but she was quite the bitch to the lads... so I got told quite often that I was the 'nicest' girl on the site :rolleyes: even though there was only about 5 of us, lol. But that was supposed to mean something to me
Verona??? it's all surmountable
Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
Wembley? We all believe!
Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
Chicago 07? And love
What a different life
Had I not found this love with you
no, I see what you're saying... being 'nice' and approachable can often be more attractive than looks or surface impression. Because you got on with everyone and were on a level with the guys they found you to be 'nicer' for want of a better word.
... and I still think Drive-By Truckers are better.
Sir Mike McCready is....THE MASTER!!! WAHHH!!!
EVENFLOW PSYCHOS H.N.I.C~FEEL THE FLOW!!!
"Pearl Jam fans are obsessed, they'd see the boys in HELL if tickets were sold."-CROJAM95
It takes balls to put out a UKE album!
Sir Mike McCready is....THE MASTER!!! WAHHH!!!
EVENFLOW PSYCHOS H.N.I.C~FEEL THE FLOW!!!
"Pearl Jam fans are obsessed, they'd see the boys in HELL if tickets were sold."-CROJAM95
It takes balls to put out a UKE album!
Verona??? it's all surmountable
Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
Wembley? We all believe!
Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
Chicago 07? And love
What a different life
Had I not found this love with you
Sir Mike McCready is....THE MASTER!!! WAHHH!!!
EVENFLOW PSYCHOS H.N.I.C~FEEL THE FLOW!!!
"Pearl Jam fans are obsessed, they'd see the boys in HELL if tickets were sold."-CROJAM95
It takes balls to put out a UKE album!
Verona??? it's all surmountable
Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
Wembley? We all believe!
Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
Chicago 07? And love
What a different life
Had I not found this love with you
ah but men will never understand women's inferiority complexes (or lack there of) and vice versa....
It was nice of them though, I agree
... and I still think Drive-By Truckers are better.
Verona??? it's all surmountable
Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
Wembley? We all believe!
Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
Chicago 07? And love
What a different life
Had I not found this love with you
Just until i finish my laser hair removal!!!
Being your naughty little self i see!!! Keep up the good work!!
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