Do you ever wish you could just bite the bullet?

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  • TrixieCat
    TrixieCat Posts: 5,756
    Jeremy1012 wrote:
    I hear their mum is quite old...

    :D

    but it's nice to hear another view in the thread :) I'm weighing it all up.
    I just wouldn't want you to see you risking the relationship with your friend, even tho you say she seems cool with it.
    19 is difficult enough and I know how important the bonds you create with your friends can be. Hell, I know that now even.
    Like I said, if you are only vaguely interested, I would not chance it. Especially since you seem so cautious about getting involved anyway.
    Cause I'm broken when I'm lonesome
    And I don't feel right when you're gone away
  • Jeremy1012
    Jeremy1012 Posts: 7,170
    TrixieCat wrote:
    I just wouldn't want you to see you risking the relationship with your friend, even tho you say she seems cool with it.
    19 is difficult enough and I know how important the bonds you create with your friends can be. Hell, I know that now even.
    Like I said, if you are only vaguely interested, I would not chance it. Especially since you seem so cautious about getting involved anyway.
    Well what I'm saying is that vaguely interested is where I'm comfortable being but not where I'm comfortable pursuing things because I wouldn't want my friend to think that I am pursuing a shallow relationship with her sister BUT I'm not comfortable in becoming more interested at the moment because of past experiences which have left me very wary and unsure.

    It's a fucking tightrope and one that has good times and possible shitty repercussions on one side and dull times and no repercussions on the other.

    It's a fucking tightrope spud.
    "I remember one night at Muzdalifa with nothing but the sky overhead, I lay awake amid sleeping Muslim brothers and I learned that pilgrims from every land — every colour, and class, and rank; high officials and the beggar alike — all snored in the same language"
  • TrixieCat
    TrixieCat Posts: 5,756
    For what it's worth, I am sorry to hear about your broken heart.
    Cause I'm broken when I'm lonesome
    And I don't feel right when you're gone away
  • Jeremy1012
    Jeremy1012 Posts: 7,170
    TrixieCat wrote:
    For what it's worth, I am sorry to hear about your broken heart.
    Hah well, it was a fair while ago now and i'm over it as best I can be. It just still influences my decisions on other things because I don't much fancy feeling like that again. As you all say, I'm far too young to think this shit through too much. Can't completely ignore it though.
    "I remember one night at Muzdalifa with nothing but the sky overhead, I lay awake amid sleeping Muslim brothers and I learned that pilgrims from every land — every colour, and class, and rank; high officials and the beggar alike — all snored in the same language"
  • Rhinocerous Surprise
    Rhinocerous Surprise Posts: 4,423
    Jeremy1012 wrote:
    Hah well, it was a fair while ago now and i'm over it as best I can be. It just still influences my decisions on other things because I don't much fancy feeling like that again. As you all say, I'm far too young to think this shit through too much. Can't completely ignore it though.

    Just get blazing drunk, get them blazing drunk, and do them both. :D
    Smokey Robinson constantly looks like he's trying to act natural after being accused of farting.
  • FinsburyParkCarrots
    FinsburyParkCarrots Seattle, WA Posts: 12,223
    Rhinocerous Surprise wrote:
    Just get blazing drunk, get them blazing drunk, and do them both. :D

    This man is wise beyond his years.
  • Jeremy1012
    Jeremy1012 Posts: 7,170
    Rhinocerous Surprise wrote:
    Just get blazing drunk, get them blazing drunk, and do them both. :D
    :D I have already received this advice from a good friend. When I noted that it would be bordering on incest he just maintained that if I was skilled enough, I could keep them apart :D:D:D

    But no, my friend has a boyfriend. A good man. A veritable gentleman by all accounts.
    "I remember one night at Muzdalifa with nothing but the sky overhead, I lay awake amid sleeping Muslim brothers and I learned that pilgrims from every land — every colour, and class, and rank; high officials and the beggar alike — all snored in the same language"
  • Rhinocerous Surprise
    Rhinocerous Surprise Posts: 4,423
    Jeremy1012 wrote:
    :D I have already received this advice from a good friend. When I noted that it would be bordering on incest he just maintained that if I was skilled enough, I could keep them apart :D:D

    But no, my friend has a boyfriend. A good man. A veritable gentleman by all accounts.

    Hehe - well then, I'm all out of ideas. :p

    Seriously though, just go for it. If it crashes and burns, it crashes and burns. If it doesn't, even better. But at least you won't be bored. :)
    Smokey Robinson constantly looks like he's trying to act natural after being accused of farting.
  • Jeremy1012
    Jeremy1012 Posts: 7,170
    Rhinocerous Surprise wrote:
    Hehe - well then, I'm all out of ideas. :p

    Seriously though, just go for it. If it crashes and burns, it crashes and burns. If it doesn't, even better. But at least you won't be bored. :)
    You speaks tha truth,

    Only shitty thing is, I'm not going to see this girl for at least a month.

    Housewarming party here we come.
    "I remember one night at Muzdalifa with nothing but the sky overhead, I lay awake amid sleeping Muslim brothers and I learned that pilgrims from every land — every colour, and class, and rank; high officials and the beggar alike — all snored in the same language"
  • Rhinocerous Surprise
    Rhinocerous Surprise Posts: 4,423
    Jeremy1012 wrote:
    You speaks tha truth,

    Only shitty thing is, I'm not going to see this girl for at least a month.

    Housewarming party here we come.

    Hooray! A month to torture yourself about this. :p;)
    Smokey Robinson constantly looks like he's trying to act natural after being accused of farting.

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