why can't you just erase somebody from your life?

Heineken Helen

It would be so much fucking easier... than constantly having to hear about their attempts to fucking ruin your life. No matter how much you take yourself away from the situation, why can't they just let things go? Stop spreading lies. It's such a fucking waste of a life.

even flow?

I have always found it very easy to just forget somebody for a very long time if not forever. It really isn't that hard.

urbanhippie

Heineken Helen wrote:

It would be so much fucking easier... than constantly having to hear about their attempts to fucking ruin your life. No matter how much you take yourself away from the situation, why can't they just let things go? Stop spreading lies. It's such a fucking waste of a life.

I'm sorry Helen :(
At least you're being the bigger person and trying to let it go...

Heineken Helen

even flow? wrote:

I have always found it very easy to just forget somebody for a very long time if not forever. It really isn't that hard.

Oh I've completely removed myself from the situation but it's the kinda situation where stories will always get back to me. And if it's not me being hurt, it's somebody else that I love... I can ignore it and it's water off a ducks back but if somebody else is getting hurt, well that I find hard to shake off.

Heineken Helen

urbanhippie wrote:

I'm sorry Helen :(
At least you're being the bigger person and trying to let it go...

I have let it go... several times... and several times I've made an effort and each time being proven exactly why I'm better off away... but it just never goes away

KosmicJelli

Ha! I have been forever tormented by my exhusband... I always prayed for death... but you know that never happened, i just figured, it is his calling to forever try to make me miserable...

if I only had enough money Id get someone to throw some cement shoes on him and toss him in the lake....

Heineken Helen

KosmicJelli wrote:

Ha! I have been forever tormented by my exhusband... I always prayed for death... but you know that never happened, i just figured, it is his calling to forever try to make me miserable...

if I only had enough money Id get someone to throw some cement shoes on him and toss him in the lake....

well THAT made me smile... so thanks.

KosmicJelli

Heineken Helen wrote:

well THAT made me smile... so thanks.

IM trying...

Linda

KosmicJelli wrote:

Ha! I have been forever tormented by my exhusband... I always prayed for death... but you know that never happened, i just figured, it is his calling to forever try to make me miserable...

if I only had enough money Id get someone to throw some cement shoes on him and toss him in the lake....

OMG, those insane fuckers, my friend and her two kids are living with us right now, and her ex is saying the same thing, he's is gonna ruin her live....asshole, maybe we can get a discount with the cement and all...;)

Heineken Helen

KosmicJelli wrote:

IM trying...

sorry... I don't want you to think the SITUATION made me smile but your way of dealing with it. I'm pretty similar but I just wish everyone could have the same attitude.

KosmicJelli

Linda wrote:

OMG, those insane fuckers, my friend and her two kids are living with us right now, and her ex is saying the same thing, he's is gonna ruin her live....asshole, maybe we can get a discount with the cement and all...;)

totally understand... then people wonder why there is such a thing as divorce

but sure sounds like a plan to me!!!

maybe find discount mafia guy too...

KosmicJelli

Heineken Helen wrote:

sorry... I don't want you to think the SITUATION made me smile but your way of dealing with it. I'm pretty similar but I just wish everyone could have the same attitude.

cool.. you learn after awhile that you would just be spinning your wheels cause you cant control others actions... sooooo.... you start having the cement fantasy for your own personal enjoyment

Sian-of-the-dead

you'll be fine doll, you're a strong lil' cookie unfortunately we can't change other people actions no matter how close they are to us. I know it's no consolation but try not to sweat it too much.
You know where I am for a good old vent... but then, you knew that

*hugs*

Poncier

Call him

nfanel

this thread reminds me of eternal sunshine of the spotless mind. that movie is so good....

KosmicJelli

nfanel wrote:

this thread reminds me of eternal sunshine of the spotless mind. that movie is so good....

omg
no!!!


would never want to go back... cause essentially thats what was happening in that movie.... ICK!!!! :(

Heineken Helen

Sian-of-the-dead wrote:

you'll be fine doll, you're a strong lil' cookie unfortunately we can't change other people actions no matter how close they are to us. I know it's no consolation but try not to sweat it too much.
You know where I am for a good old vent... but then, you knew that

*hugs*

thanks all. Well there's nothing I can do about any of it :rolleyes:

acoustic guy

Sounds like you need "Dirty Deeds, Done Dirt Cheap"!

Heineken Helen

acoustic guy wrote:

Sounds like you need "Dirty Deeds, Done Dirt Cheap"!

to be honest the person isn't worth it... I'm not having anything to do with them good or bad... but the day nature takes it's course will be a HUGE fucking weight off my shoulders... although knowing the person in question, that will be much longer than anybody anticipates :rolleyes:

moxie

It took me a few tries, but I think I finally did it.

Heineken Helen

moxie wrote:

It took me a few tries, but I think I finally did it.

poison? Sledgehammer? a simple trip as they were going down the stairs?

How?