What do you do when you don't know what makes you happy?

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  • libragirl
    libragirl Posts: 4,632
    genie wrote:
    another thing that makes me feel happy for a short while is looking my best. i.e wearing sexy clothes.

    lol..that is true. I know if I don't like how I look that makes me unhappy.
    These cuts are leaving creases. Trace the scars to fit the pieces, to tell the story, you don't need to say a word.
  • pearljamjen
    pearljamjen Posts: 13,578
    genie wrote:
    another thing that makes me feel happy for a short while is looking my best. i.e wearing sexy clothes.

    haha I mis-read this and thought you said "looking at your chest" LMAO :eek: :p

    Yeah, dressing up in sexy clothes always makes me feel good too :)
  • LONGRD
    LONGRD Posts: 6,036
    That's why you girls always compliments from us even when you're not at your best.
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  • genie
    genie Posts: 2,222
    libragirl wrote:
    lol..that is true. I know if I don't like how I look that makes me unhappy.

    yeah i had too. but what i was saying is that if i already feel sad and have empty feeling then putting my best clothes would make me feel much better
  • genie
    genie Posts: 2,222
    LongRd. wrote:
    That's why you girls always compliments from us even when you're not at your best.

    i don't care for compliments, what i love is when people look at me....men and women.

    what i hate is when i hear comments from sleazy men...but i won't go into this right now cause it's off the topic.
  • EvilMerlin
    EvilMerlin Posts: 1,865
    genie wrote:
    i don't care for compliments, what i love is when people look at me....men and women.

    what i hate is when i hear comments from sleazy men...but i won't go into this right now cause it's off the topic.

    Nono, go right ahead. You might probe an unhappiness pocket. :)

    You wearing sexy clothes makes most men happy. :D It's the ones that say the sleazy comments and realize what's gonna happen after that make them unhappy. :p
  • LONGRD
    LONGRD Posts: 6,036
    genie wrote:
    i don't care for compliments, what i love is when people look at me....men and women.

    what i hate is when i hear comments from sleazy men...but i won't go into this right now cause it's off the topic.
    well, you wouldn't get any sleazy comments if you didn't dress sleazy.
















    *runs out of The Pit* j/k :p
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  • genie
    genie Posts: 2,222
    EvilMerlin wrote:
    Nono, go right ahead. You might probe an unhappiness pocket. :)

    You wearing sexy clothes makes most men happy. :D It's the ones that say the sleazy comments and realize what's gonna happen after that make them unhappy. :p

    :D reading random jokes like yours makes me happy :)
  • libragirl
    libragirl Posts: 4,632
    genie wrote:
    yeah i had too. but what i was saying is that if i already feel sad and have empty feeling then putting my best clothes would make me feel much better

    I got you...yeah being all dressed up always makes me feel better.
    These cuts are leaving creases. Trace the scars to fit the pieces, to tell the story, you don't need to say a word.
  • genie
    genie Posts: 2,222
    LongRd. wrote:
    well, you wouldn't get any sleazy comments if you didn't dress sleazy

    *runs out of The Pit* j/k :p

    Hey! i don't dress sleazy!! now i'm declaring a war with you :D;):p
  • EvilMerlin
    EvilMerlin Posts: 1,865
    libragirl wrote:
    I got you...yeah being all dressed up always makes me feel better.

    Even when you're all dressed up with nowhere to go? If that's the case, go balls to the walls with your dressup every night. :D But then again, too much of a good thing won't make one happy anymore.
  • LONGRD
    LONGRD Posts: 6,036
    genie wrote:
    Hey! i don't dress sleazy!! now i'm declaring a war with you :D;):p
    I'll need to see some pics to determine that, if anyone knows a thing or two about being sleazy it'll be me. :cool:
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  • libragirl
    libragirl Posts: 4,632
    EvilMerlin wrote:
    Even when you're all dressed up with nowhere to go? If that's the case, go balls to the walls with your dressup every night. :D But then again, too much of a good thing won't make one happy anymore.

    lol..well I only do that if Im going out..or else it's a waste..If no one can see my cute ensembles what's the use?
    These cuts are leaving creases. Trace the scars to fit the pieces, to tell the story, you don't need to say a word.
  • EvilMerlin
    EvilMerlin Posts: 1,865
    libragirl wrote:
    lol..well I only do that if Im going out..or else it's a waste..If no one can see my cute ensembles what's the use?

    Very true. I just know there's at least a few people at there that get happy to dress up even when they've got nowhere to go.
  • genie
    genie Posts: 2,222
    LongRd. wrote:
    I'll need to see some pics to determine that, if anyone knows a thing or two about being sleazy it'll be me. :cool:

    short leather top with a lace at the front leaving stomach uncovered with low cut tight black jeans with a silver studded belt.
  • LONGRD
    LONGRD Posts: 6,036
    genie wrote:
    short leather top with a lace at the front leaving stomach uncovered with low cut tight black jeans with a silver studded belt.
    In some groups of people, that is actually classy.
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    EV- 08/09,10/2008.06/08,09/2009
  • libragirl
    libragirl Posts: 4,632
    EvilMerlin wrote:
    Very true. I just know there's at least a few people at there that get happy to dress up even when they've got nowhere to go.

    eh..yeah that is just a little sad. :p
    These cuts are leaving creases. Trace the scars to fit the pieces, to tell the story, you don't need to say a word.
  • EvilMerlin
    EvilMerlin Posts: 1,865
    libragirl wrote:
    eh..yeah that is just a little sad. :p

    Eh, you said it nicer than I would have, so yes, I agree 100% and we'll end it there. :p
  • genie
    genie Posts: 2,222
    LongRd. wrote:
    In some groups of people, that is actually classy.

    so you see, there is a difference between sleazy and classy ;)
  • PJPixie wrote:
    Thank you. I guess it really wasn't fair to say that i'm NOT HAPPY. I'm fine, really. I'm just not EXCITED about anything (outside of Pearl Jam) wow- I really feel pathetic.

    Pearl Jam have really lifted me out of some lousy moods in the, oh... two times that I've seen them. :D But seriously, they kept me on a high for months that couple of times.


    Sometimes I think it feels better to feel sad than directionless and empty.