Well I think that the dude is expected to pay on her birthday-especially in front of her friends-reaching for the purse on her birthday? No wonder she got turned off-because that is kinda tacky.
Her birthday was the week before when I took her out. this was when her friends could take her out. IMO her friends should have paid. I took the day off of work and had my parents watch my puppy for the night just so I could go. I already did something for her birthday paying again is total B.S. If it was her birthday I would have paid no questions asked.
Her birthday was the week before when I took her out. this was when her friends could take her out. IMO her friends should have paid. I took the day off of work and had my parents watch my puppy for the night just so I could go. I already did something for her birthday paying again is total B.S. If it was her birthday I would have paid no questions asked.
Fucking exactly. Don't feel bad man. You don't need it.
Thanks for the support. I haven't been on the board in a while. We only went out for a few months. Since the end of september. It's for the best I think. Last week was her birthday, I took her out for dinner, stayed in a hotel over night, we went on a sleigh ride and I even bought her ice skates. I spent almost $400. Then we go out for her birthday dinner with her friends and the bill for the tow of us came and she asked me what we should do and I suggested splitting it. I already spent $400 on your stinnking ass last week and now Im broke because of it. Then we go out with her friends to the local pub and her friends are being all lame and not very social which in turn made me that way and not fun to be around. So we get home the next day and she lays into me about how embarssed she was to hacve to pay for her own dinner for her birthday and how she expected me to have had a better attitude while we were out. Shit what was I supposed to do? I apologize up and down. I go to work that night and start asking my friends their opinion on whether or not I was obligated to pay and everyperson I asked said no. What do you guys think. Now last night she says this isnt working out. WTF. I dont want to be with a petty bitch like that anyway. F' Her. I'm going to a 70's costume party tonight and I am going to get funky
so the money was her ONLY reason??? what an idiot! she is going to throw away something good for money? what a cow....oh well good for me and all the other women who are going to get men like you
trust me you don't need her in your life, that money sponger
Her birthday was the week before when I took her out. this was when her friends could take her out. IMO her friends should have paid. I took the day off of work and had my parents watch my puppy for the night just so I could go. I already did something for her birthday paying again is total B.S. If it was her birthday I would have paid no questions asked.
Doesnt matter-that you already did something.
It was a birthday dinner in her honor and she had to reach for the wallet in front of her friends-she was embarrassed, and that was the problem. The image you project reflects on her.
I think it should have been split evenly, but there is no way she should be reaching for that wallet -if her friends didnt man up, than you should have.
And never take a woman out for a meal if your not prepared to pay the entire check-if you cant afford it be upfront about it.
As I said, she is wrong for breaking up for this, and it exposed her as shallow.
It was a birthday dinner in her honor and she had to reach for the wallet in front of her friends-she was embarrassed, and that was the problem. The image you project reflects on her.
I think it should have been split evenly, but there is no way she should be reaching for that wallet -if her friends didnt man up, than you should have.
And never take a woman out for a meal if your not prepared to pay the entire check-if you cant afford it be upfront about it.
As I said, she is wrong for breaking up for this, and it exposed her as shallow.
dude why? why do you think like this? just becuase you are a guy doesn't mean you should fucking pay for a woman every time. i mean why such rules....hell, if i was a guy i'd mighty pissed off for wasting my money on every woman that i meet.
as for image he pojected, so what?if i like a guy a lot i wouldn't give a shit what everyone else thought of him. also is he not allowed to have his bad days when he's feeling not very sociable?
dude why? why do you think like this? just becuase you are a guy doesn't mean you should fucking pay for a woman every time. i mean why such rules....hell, if i was a guy i'd mighty pissed off for wasting my money on every woman that i meet.
Call me old fashioned, but thats how I see it, especially if they are a "new" couple and, you should talk about it before-if you cant swing dinner, then politely decline, or suggest something else. Dont show up expecting that someone else will pay and then hit your date up for cash when it did not play out like you thought it would. Thats your fault and tacky IMHO. Perhaps he should have said, any idea if this place is expensive? Im a little strapped for cash after last week. Honesty is always a better way to go.
as for image he pojected, so what?if i like a guy a lot i wouldn't give a shit what everyone else thought of him. also is he not allowed to have his bad days when he's feeling not very sociable?
Sounds like it was a bit too soon in the relationship for her to think about ditching her friends for this dude. Like I said, he should have declined and or talked about it before.
This may come as a shock to you, but there are women out there that expect men to pay for everything-sounds like she is one of those-I dont agree with what she did, but I most certainly understand why she may have been put off for good-he did not handle it well IMHO.
Call me old fashioned, but thats how I see it, especially if they are a "new" couple and, you should talk about it before-if you cant swing dinner, then politely decline, or suggest something else. Dont show up expecting that someone else will pay and then hit your date up for cash when it did not play out like you thought it would. Thats your fault and tacky IMHO. Perhaps he should have said, any idea if this place is expensive? Im a little strapped for cash after last week. Honesty is always a better way to go.
Sounds like it was a bit too soon in the relationship for her to think about ditching her friends for this dude. Like I said, he should have declined and or talked about it before.
This may come as a shock to you, but there are women out there that expect men to pay for everything-sounds like she is one of those-I dont agree with what she did, but I most certainly understand why she may have been put off for good-he did not handle it well IMHO.
nah, it doesn't come to me as a surprise....that bitches like that exist.
i don't know, but if i was going out with a guy and he told me he couldn't go because he didn't have any money then i would've still asked him to come with me and i would've paid for his drinks... so i would've insisted upon him turning up because i would've wanted to spend my time with him. we could've just bought two drinks, and that would've been enough for me.
and who says she should ditch her friends for this guy? can't women have friends and have a boyfriend at the same time? however if i knew my friends were full of crap i'd ditch them!
i think the OP handled it ok, i mean i wasn't there so i can't say for sure. but from what i've read in here what he's done is ok by me.
Call me old fashioned, but thats how I see it, especially if they are a "new" couple and, you should talk about it before-if you cant swing dinner, then politely decline, or suggest something else. Dont show up expecting that someone else will pay and then hit your date up for cash when it did not play out like you thought it would. Thats your fault and tacky IMHO. Perhaps he should have said, any idea if this place is expensive? Im a little strapped for cash after last week. Honesty is always a better way to go.
Sounds like it was a bit too soon in the relationship for her to think about ditching her friends for this dude. Like I said, he should have declined and or talked about it before.
This may come as a shock to you, but there are women out there that expect men to pay for everything-sounds like she is one of those-I dont agree with what she did, but I most certainly understand why she may have been put off for good-he did not handle it well IMHO.
First off before we went out I told her I was strapped for cash. Secondly we split the check, its not like I showed up with an empty wallet, thirdly it was at unos so it wasnt expensive, fourthly its the principal that pisses me off not the money. I spent $400 the week before on her BDAY this was a party from her friends they should have paid
First off before we went out I told her I was strapped for cash. Secondly we split the check, its not like I showed up with an empty wallet, thirdly it was at unos so it wasnt expensive, fourthly its the principal that pisses me off not the money. I spent $400 the week before on her BDAY this was a party from her friends they should have paid
move on...
you did nothing wrong..........
i wouldnt waste another minute of my life thinking about this girl if i were you.....
because she obviously isnt thinking about you.......
Take me piece by piece..... Till there aint nothing left worth taking away from me.....
First off before we went out I told her I was strapped for cash. Secondly we split the check, its not like I showed up with an empty wallet, thirdly it was at unos so it wasnt expensive, fourthly its the principal that pisses me off not the money. I spent $400 the week before on her BDAY this was a party from her friends they should have paid
i agree with you completely, don't even waste your time thinking about her whatever you've paid for her or done for her she is not worth it
Get Right is old fashioned, he is going to remind me of my dad any time now women's expectations should change, and you guys need to help them with that!
First off before we went out I told her I was strapped for cash. Secondly we split the check, its not like I showed up with an empty wallet, thirdly it was at unos so it wasnt expensive, fourthly its the principal that pisses me off not the money. I spent $400 the week before on her BDAY this was a party from her friends they should have paid
Im not attacking you bro, no need to get defensive.
Obviously, she is shallow and you are better off without her.
new fact you told her you were strapped-ok, thats makes her an even bigger bitch
so dont ya think that little detail of who is going to pay shouldve been worked out ahead time? Thats how it couldve been handled better. Tis all man.
I still think you should have paid-especially now that I know it was a friggin pizza joint!
Im not attacking you bro, no need to get defensive.
Obviously, she is shallow and you are better off without her.
new fact you told her you were strapped-ok, thats makes her an even bigger bitch
so dont ya think that little detail of who is going to pay shouldve been worked out ahead time? Thats how it couldve been handled better. Tis all man.
I still think you should have paid-especially now that I know it was a friggin pizza joint!
Principles often get in the way of reality.
to all the women out there, here is a guy who'll pay for ya, so if you're strapped for cash this weekend just pretend to like him or be his girlfriend and he will buy you whatever you want.
to all the women out there, here is a guy who'll pay for ya, so if you're strapped for cash this weekend just pretend to like him or be his girlfriend and he will buy you whatever you want.
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Her birthday was the week before when I took her out. this was when her friends could take her out. IMO her friends should have paid. I took the day off of work and had my parents watch my puppy for the night just so I could go. I already did something for her birthday paying again is total B.S. If it was her birthday I would have paid no questions asked.
Keepin us close, so close... on down the line... sometimes I burn like a dot on the sun
Fucking exactly. Don't feel bad man. You don't need it.
so the money was her ONLY reason??? what an idiot! she is going to throw away something good for money? what a cow....oh well good for me and all the other women who are going to get men like you
trust me you don't need her in your life, that money sponger
Doesnt matter-that you already did something.
It was a birthday dinner in her honor and she had to reach for the wallet in front of her friends-she was embarrassed, and that was the problem. The image you project reflects on her.
I think it should have been split evenly, but there is no way she should be reaching for that wallet -if her friends didnt man up, than you should have.
And never take a woman out for a meal if your not prepared to pay the entire check-if you cant afford it be upfront about it.
As I said, she is wrong for breaking up for this, and it exposed her as shallow.
dude why? why do you think like this? just becuase you are a guy doesn't mean you should fucking pay for a woman every time. i mean why such rules....hell, if i was a guy i'd mighty pissed off for wasting my money on every woman that i meet.
as for image he pojected, so what?if i like a guy a lot i wouldn't give a shit what everyone else thought of him. also is he not allowed to have his bad days when he's feeling not very sociable?
Call me old fashioned, but thats how I see it, especially if they are a "new" couple and, you should talk about it before-if you cant swing dinner, then politely decline, or suggest something else. Dont show up expecting that someone else will pay and then hit your date up for cash when it did not play out like you thought it would. Thats your fault and tacky IMHO. Perhaps he should have said, any idea if this place is expensive? Im a little strapped for cash after last week. Honesty is always a better way to go.
Sounds like it was a bit too soon in the relationship for her to think about ditching her friends for this dude. Like I said, he should have declined and or talked about it before.
This may come as a shock to you, but there are women out there that expect men to pay for everything-sounds like she is one of those-I dont agree with what she did, but I most certainly understand why she may have been put off for good-he did not handle it well IMHO.
nah, it doesn't come to me as a surprise....that bitches like that exist.
i don't know, but if i was going out with a guy and he told me he couldn't go because he didn't have any money then i would've still asked him to come with me and i would've paid for his drinks... so i would've insisted upon him turning up because i would've wanted to spend my time with him. we could've just bought two drinks, and that would've been enough for me.
and who says she should ditch her friends for this guy? can't women have friends and have a boyfriend at the same time? however if i knew my friends were full of crap i'd ditch them!
i think the OP handled it ok, i mean i wasn't there so i can't say for sure. but from what i've read in here what he's done is ok by me.
First off before we went out I told her I was strapped for cash. Secondly we split the check, its not like I showed up with an empty wallet, thirdly it was at unos so it wasnt expensive, fourthly its the principal that pisses me off not the money. I spent $400 the week before on her BDAY this was a party from her friends they should have paid
Keepin us close, so close... on down the line... sometimes I burn like a dot on the sun
you did nothing wrong..........
i wouldnt waste another minute of my life thinking about this girl if i were you.....
because she obviously isnt thinking about you.......
Till there aint nothing left worth taking away from me.....
i agree with you completely, don't even waste your time thinking about her whatever you've paid for her or done for her she is not worth it
Get Right is old fashioned, he is going to remind me of my dad any time now
Im not attacking you bro, no need to get defensive.
Obviously, she is shallow and you are better off without her.
new fact you told her you were strapped-ok, thats makes her an even bigger bitch
so dont ya think that little detail of who is going to pay shouldve been worked out ahead time? Thats how it couldve been handled better. Tis all man.
I still think you should have paid-especially now that I know it was a friggin pizza joint!
Principles often get in the way of reality.
And a shitty one at that!
"The leads are weak? Fuckin' leads are weak? You're Weak! I've Been in this business 15 years"
"What's your name?"
"FUCK YOU! THAT"S MY NAME!"
to all the women out there, here is a guy who'll pay for ya, so if you're strapped for cash this weekend just pretend to like him or be his girlfriend and he will buy you whatever you want.
yeah well dont get ideas about ordering the lobster at the next meet up!
yes and you need to ask my wife for permission!
Damn! What if I pull the "Look, I'm reaching into my wallet while all along hoping you will say don't worry about it" maneuver?
"The leads are weak? Fuckin' leads are weak? You're Weak! I've Been in this business 15 years"
"What's your name?"
"FUCK YOU! THAT"S MY NAME!"
It better than
"can I write you a check"
it's ok, your wife must be a happy woman. but i will however pass, i need someone who brakes rules and traditions
Please dont impute my opinion on this subject to my entire being-just because I thought he should pay in this instance does not mean Im a sugar daddy.
Brakes rules?
So book the hotel, take care of the bill and let me know what time I should be there!
hahahahahahaha
joke
erm...i didn't think you were sugar daddy
nah, you see if it's upto me then, i'm not going to book a hotel i'll just come to the guys house instead or have him come to mine, problem solved