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antperlsjam
antperlsjam Posts: 56
edited January 2021 in All Encompassing Trip
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Keepin us close, so close... on down the line... sometimes I burn like a dot on the sun
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  • dcfaithful
    dcfaithful Posts: 13,076
    antperlsjam wrote:
    just broke up with me... :(

    dude man, i'm sorry....what happened?
    7/2/06 - Denver, CO
    6/12/08 - Tampa, FL
    8/23/09 - Chicago, IL
    9/28/09 - Salt Lake City, UT (11 years too long!!!)
    9/03/11 - East Troy, WI - PJ20 - Night 1
    9/04/11 - East Troy, WI - PJ20 - Night 2
  • in_hiding79
    in_hiding79 Posts: 4,315
    Im so sorry....:(
    And so the lion fell in love with the lamb...,"
    "What a stupid lamb."
    "What a sick, masochistic lion."
  • pjoasisrule
    pjoasisrule Posts: 3,412
    Shes not your girlfriend anymore then so you shouldnt have called her "my girlfriend" at the beginning of the thread
    Alpine Valley 2000
    Summerfest 2006

    "Why would they come to our concert just to boo us?" -Lisa Simpson
  • dcfaithful
    dcfaithful Posts: 13,076
    pjoasisrule wrote:
    Shes not your girlfriend anymore then so you shouldnt have called her "my girlfriend" at the beginning of the thread

    i don't really see that being a relavent point...
    7/2/06 - Denver, CO
    6/12/08 - Tampa, FL
    8/23/09 - Chicago, IL
    9/28/09 - Salt Lake City, UT (11 years too long!!!)
    9/03/11 - East Troy, WI - PJ20 - Night 1
    9/04/11 - East Troy, WI - PJ20 - Night 2
  • justjoshingu
    justjoshingu Posts: 538
    that sucks man.. you have my support.


    thought a...
    dont worry man, if it was meant to be, she'll be back. maybe she was just going thru some things or maybe she just needs some time to figure out that you are the best thing for her. the times you've spent together. the fun times. i'm sure she can come around. never count yourself out.

    thought b....
    f that bitch.....

    whichever supports you more, i'm there for you man.
    mean people suck!
    but nice people sw****w

  • nocode23
    nocode23 Posts: 411
    That sucks man. Sorry.
  • pjoasisrule
    pjoasisrule Posts: 3,412
    dcfaithful wrote:
    i don't really see that being a relavent point...

    I know, I was just fuckin around. Shes probably not worthy anyways, do some good drinking, dont shave, and just become a bum for a few days. After that, start fresh to move on.
    Alpine Valley 2000
    Summerfest 2006

    "Why would they come to our concert just to boo us?" -Lisa Simpson
  • dcfaithful
    dcfaithful Posts: 13,076
    pjoasisrule wrote:
    I know, I was just fuckin around. Shes probably not worthy anyways, do some good drinking, dont shave, and just become a bum for a few days. After that, start fresh to move on.

    yeah man, move on...i'm sure she meant a lot to you, but don't let her control the way you feel, get your sadness out but keep your head up, and keep on doing what you do man :).

    good luck to you!
    7/2/06 - Denver, CO
    6/12/08 - Tampa, FL
    8/23/09 - Chicago, IL
    9/28/09 - Salt Lake City, UT (11 years too long!!!)
    9/03/11 - East Troy, WI - PJ20 - Night 1
    9/04/11 - East Troy, WI - PJ20 - Night 2
  • gleemonex
    gleemonex Posts: 848
    It sucks, yeah. I went through that in November and the best thing you can do is surround yourself with friends and try to have fun, even if you have to force yourself.
    “Hello, babies. Welcome to Earth. It’s hot in the summer and cold in the winter. It’s round and wet and crowded. At the outside, babies, you’ve got about a hundred years here. There’s only one rule that I know of, babies — ‘God damn it, you’ve got to be kind.’” - Kurt Vonnegut
  • aNiMaL
    aNiMaL Posts: 7,117
    That's always a bummer....hang in there, man!
  • Sian-of-the-dead
    Sian-of-the-dead Posts: 8,963
    aw man... I'm sorry :(

    any particular reason?
    Been to this many PJ shows: Reading 2006 London 2007 Manchester & London 2009 Dublin, Belfast, London, Nijmegen & Berlin 2010 Manchester 1 & Manchester 2 2012...

    ... and I still think Drive-By Truckers are better.
  • xscorcho
    xscorcho Posts: 409
    that sucks dude, sorry.
  • antperlsjam
    antperlsjam Posts: 56
    Thanks for the support. I haven't been on the board in a while. We only went out for a few months. Since the end of september. It's for the best I think. Last week was her birthday, I took her out for dinner, stayed in a hotel over night, we went on a sleigh ride and I even bought her ice skates. I spent almost $400. Then we go out for her birthday dinner with her friends and the bill for the tow of us came and she asked me what we should do and I suggested splitting it. I already spent $400 on your stinnking ass last week and now Im broke because of it. Then we go out with her friends to the local pub and her friends are being all lame and not very social which in turn made me that way and not fun to be around. So we get home the next day and she lays into me about how embarssed she was to hacve to pay for her own dinner for her birthday and how she expected me to have had a better attitude while we were out. Shit what was I supposed to do? I apologize up and down. I go to work that night and start asking my friends their opinion on whether or not I was obligated to pay and everyperson I asked said no. What do you guys think. Now last night she says this isnt working out. WTF. I dont want to be with a petty bitch like that anyway. F' Her. I'm going to a 70's costume party tonight and I am going to get funky :)
    8/25/00 8/27/00 8/29/00 8/30/00 10/4/00 4/29/03 7/8/03 7/9/03 9/28/04 9/29/04 5/12/06 5/13/06 5/24/06 5/25/06 6/1/06 6/3/06 8/5/07

    Keepin us close, so close... on down the line... sometimes I burn like a dot on the sun
  • DaytimeDilemma
    DaytimeDilemma Posts: 2,008
    So she's single then?


    PM me her digits.
  • mookie9999
    mookie9999 Posts: 4,677
    antperlsjam wrote:
    I'm going to a 70's costume party tonight and I am going to get funky :)

    Starsky or Hutch? Sorry to hear about everything else! Keep your head up and have fun tonight! :)
    "The leads are weak!"

    "The leads are weak? Fuckin' leads are weak? You're Weak! I've Been in this business 15 years"

    "What's your name?"

    "FUCK YOU! THAT"S MY NAME!"
  • Hawkshore
    Hawkshore Posts: 2,185
    antperlsjam wrote:
    Thanks for the support. I haven't been on the board in a while. We only went out for a few months. Since the end of september. It's for the best I think. Last week was her birthday, I took her out for dinner, stayed in a hotel over night, we went on a sleigh ride and I even bought her ice skates. I spent almost $400. Then we go out for her birthday dinner with her friends and the bill for the tow of us came and she asked me what we should do and I suggested splitting it. I already spent $400 on your stinnking ass last week and now Im broke because of it. Then we go out with her friends to the local pub and her friends are being all lame and not very social which in turn made me that way and not fun to be around. So we get home the next day and she lays into me about how embarssed she was to hacve to pay for her own dinner for her birthday and how she expected me to have had a better attitude while we were out. Shit what was I supposed to do? I apologize up and down. I go to work that night and start asking my friends their opinion on whether or not I was obligated to pay and everyperson I asked said no. What do you guys think. Now last night she says this isnt working out. WTF. I dont want to be with a petty bitch like that anyway. F' Her. I'm going to a 70's costume party tonight and I am going to get funky :)

    Does she have a hot sister or friend you could nail ;)
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  • josevolution
    josevolution Posts: 31,827
    antperlsjam wrote:
    Thanks for the support. I haven't been on the board in a while. We only went out for a few months. Since the end of september. It's for the best I think. Last week was her birthday, I took her out for dinner, stayed in a hotel over night, we went on a sleigh ride and I even bought her ice skates. I spent almost $400. Then we go out for her birthday dinner with her friends and the bill for the tow of us came and she asked me what we should do and I suggested splitting it. I already spent $400 on your stinnking ass last week and now Im broke because of it. Then we go out with her friends to the local pub and her friends are being all lame and not very social which in turn made me that way and not fun to be around. So we get home the next day and she lays into me about how embarssed she was to hacve to pay for her own dinner for her birthday and how she expected me to have had a better attitude while we were out. Shit what was I supposed to do? I apologize up and down. I go to work that night and start asking my friends their opinion on whether or not I was obligated to pay and everyperson I asked said no. What do you guys think. Now last night she says this isnt working out. WTF. I dont want to be with a petty bitch like that anyway. F' Her. I'm going to a 70's costume party tonight and I am going to get funky :)

    that's the spirit go out and have some fun and keep your confidence up you tell your self you can do better ,now give me her # he he he j/k keep your chin up .....
    jesus greets me looks just like me ....
  • jojo
    jojo Posts: 645
    antperlsjam wrote:
    just broke up with me... :(

    dude
    wtf?

    we need to chat
    aim me
    when you feel up to it
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  • Jeremy1012
    Jeremy1012 Posts: 7,170
    pjoasisrule wrote:
    Shes not your girlfriend anymore then so you shouldnt have called her "my girlfriend" at the beginning of the thread
    yawn
    "I remember one night at Muzdalifa with nothing but the sky overhead, I lay awake amid sleeping Muslim brothers and I learned that pilgrims from every land — every colour, and class, and rank; high officials and the beggar alike — all snored in the same language"
  • Pacomc79
    Pacomc79 Posts: 9,404
    Keep your chin up and your confidence high.

    This too shall pass. It initially sucks big time, then comes the anger as you start to realize how much wasted emotion investment etc you've put in on it all... Eventually you'll get past it and find someone new. Most of the time there isn't anything that is wrong with you it's just that a lot of times peoples paths in life change and they feel the need to move on. It's important not to dwell on it. Know in your heart you are a good person, start doing things that make you happy and things will come a lot easier for you soon.

    Cheers. Hope you feel better soon... you're better off already.
    My Girlfriend said to me..."How many guitars do you need?" and I replied...."How many pairs of shoes do you need?" She got really quiet.

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