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WildChildRoseWildChildRose Posts: 568
edited September 2008 in All Encompassing Trip
Why is it the most horrible feeling in the world? :-(
"I'll ride the wave where it takes me.."
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  • JOEJOEJOEJOEJOEJOE Posts: 10,619
    WildChildRose wrote:
    Why is it the most horrible feeling in the world? :-(

    Because it counterbalances the joy of love
  • WildChildRoseWildChildRose Posts: 568
    JOEJOEJOE wrote:
    Beacause it counterbalances the joy of love

    Well that makes sense I suppose.
    "I'll ride the wave where it takes me.."
  • ladygooddivaladygooddiva Posts: 4,169
    and there is no medicine or doc for it
  • Phantom PainPhantom Pain Posts: 9,876
    ladygooddiva wrote:
    and there is no medicine or doc for it

    Just alcohol
    My drinking team has a hockey problem

    The ONLY thing better than a glass of beer is tea with Miss McGill



    A protuberance of flesh above the waistband of a tight pair of trousers
  • WildChildRoseWildChildRose Posts: 568
    Phantom Pain wrote:
    Just alcohol

    Ah yes. But alcohol is not working and I cannot drink at work.
    "I'll ride the wave where it takes me.."
  • ladygooddivaladygooddiva Posts: 4,169
    WildChildRose wrote:
    Ah yes. But alcohol is not working and I cannot drink at work.


    no way alcohol is bad when you re in bad moods
  • Indifference71Indifference71 Chicago Posts: 14,861
    Phantom Pain wrote:
    Just alcohol

    That usually seems like the only answer, but usually just ends up making things worse. Just try not to drunk-dial.
  • decides2dreamdecides2dream Posts: 14,977
    JOEJOEJOE wrote:
    Because it counterbalances the joy of love

    so well said.


    if love weren't so worthwhile and life-affirming, it wouldn't hurt much at all.


    sorry for your heartache rose.
    Stay with me...
    Let's just breathe...


    I am myself like you somehow


  • mole1985mole1985 Posts: 1,119
    WildChildRose wrote:
    Why is it the most horrible feeling in the world? :-(


    It's a small consolation but count yourself lucky you had something so special in your life that would make you hurt so much.
    Dublin 2006
    Katowice 2007
    London 2007
  • JonnyPistachioJonnyPistachio Florida Posts: 10,219
    I was just thinking about this earlier today. I went through some bad shit about 1 1/2 years ago, and it's just that desperate feeling that I hated. I felt cornered and like I had no options and had my hands tied behind my back.

    but the age old cliche really does speak wonders: Only time will heal it. I have moved on and found so much passion in many other things, as i'm sure you will do as well. good luck!
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  • WildChildRoseWildChildRose Posts: 568
    Indifference71 wrote:
    That usually seems like the only answer, but usually just ends up making things worse. Just try not to drunk-dial.


    Well I broke up with him. For good reasons. And luckily drunk dialing is not an option. But I wouldn't do that anyway.
    "I'll ride the wave where it takes me.."
  • Phantom PainPhantom Pain Posts: 9,876
    WildChildRose wrote:
    Well I broke up with him. For good reasons. And luckily drunk dialing is not an option. But I wouldn't do that anyway.

    How about rebound sex ?

    ;)
    My drinking team has a hockey problem

    The ONLY thing better than a glass of beer is tea with Miss McGill



    A protuberance of flesh above the waistband of a tight pair of trousers
  • WildChildRoseWildChildRose Posts: 568
    Phantom Pain wrote:
    How about rebound sex ?

    ;)

    No.
    "I'll ride the wave where it takes me.."
  • normnorm Posts: 31,146
    you can't truly know love without heartache
  • LizardLizard So Cal Posts: 12,091
    WildChildRose wrote:
    Well I broke up with him. For good reasons. And luckily drunk dialing is not an option. But I wouldn't do that anyway.
    Is this guy you went through so much with regarding his son?? IF so...sorry to hear that.
    So I'll just lie down and wait for the dream
    Where I'm not ugly and you're lookin' at me
  • WildChildRoseWildChildRose Posts: 568
    Lizard wrote:
    Is this guy you went through so much with regarding his son?? IF so...sorry to hear that.

    Yes and now I've not only lost him but his son. But he has told me he wants me to raise him. I just don't have any means to and I have no right to. Hopefully his bio mom won't find out and try to take him. He's with his grandma right now. :(
    "I'll ride the wave where it takes me.."
  • Gossard_Is_GodGossard_Is_God Posts: 1,031
    Phantom Pain wrote:
    Just alcohol

    and sweet sweet weed
    Pearl Jam - London Astoria 20/4/06....One hell of a night :)

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    Paris 2006 - Fucking amazing

    Wembley 2007 :D
  • WildChildRoseWildChildRose Posts: 568
    Gossard_Is_God wrote:
    and sweet sweet weed

    TGFW. It's the only reason I dont want to jump off a bridge when I get home.
    "I'll ride the wave where it takes me.."
  • Jeremy1012Jeremy1012 Posts: 7,170
    ladygooddiva wrote:
    no way alcohol is bad when you re in bad moods
    Bad or not, it's the only thing that works for a brief amount of time.
    "I remember one night at Muzdalifa with nothing but the sky overhead, I lay awake amid sleeping Muslim brothers and I learned that pilgrims from every land — every colour, and class, and rank; high officials and the beggar alike — all snored in the same language"
  • TrixieCatTrixieCat Posts: 5,756
    Jeremy1012 wrote:
    Bad or not, it's the only thing that works for a brief amount of time.
    For me it works for a brief amount of time until I take that sip that puts me over the edge into deep heart wrenching, blinding sadness. :(
    But a couple drinks can always perk me up. :)
    Cause I'm broken when I'm lonesome
    And I don't feel right when you're gone away
  • Jeremy1012Jeremy1012 Posts: 7,170
    TrixieCat wrote:
    For me it works for a brief amount of time until I take that sip that puts me over the edge into deep heart wrenching, blinding sadness. :(
    But a couple drinks can always perk me up. :)
    Oh absolutely, and I always seem to take that sip over the edge, and then some. Like tonight.

    But sometimes it must work, I'm sure.
    "I remember one night at Muzdalifa with nothing but the sky overhead, I lay awake amid sleeping Muslim brothers and I learned that pilgrims from every land — every colour, and class, and rank; high officials and the beggar alike — all snored in the same language"
  • TrixieCatTrixieCat Posts: 5,756
    Jeremy1012 wrote:
    Oh absolutely, and I always seem to take that sip over the edge, and then some. Like tonight.

    But sometimes it must work, I'm sure.
    A little heartache yourself? :(
    Sorry to hear it.
    Eat a sandwich. That makes me feel better.
    Cause I'm broken when I'm lonesome
    And I don't feel right when you're gone away
  • JamalJamal Posts: 2,115
    cutback wrote:
    you can't truly know love without heartache
    but what isn't fair is that you can have true heartache without having had true love ...
    :(

    And alcohol helps.. in a way, it gets you sadder than before, but it helps the healing process
    At least, with me it does
    Surf little waves big... Charge big waves hard

    - Antwerp '06, Nijmegen '07, Werchter '07
  • Jeremy1012Jeremy1012 Posts: 7,170
    TrixieCat wrote:
    A little heartache yourself? :(
    Sorry to hear it.
    Eat a sandwich. That makes me feel better.
    Ha, I'm not sure that'll work in this case but thanks.

    More than anything, the alcohol is the problem tonight, otherwise nothing has changed :( Well, almost nothing.
    "I remember one night at Muzdalifa with nothing but the sky overhead, I lay awake amid sleeping Muslim brothers and I learned that pilgrims from every land — every colour, and class, and rank; high officials and the beggar alike — all snored in the same language"
  • my2handsmy2hands Posts: 17,117
    TrixieCat wrote:
    Eat a sandwich. That makes me feel better.

    an Italian Hoagie from Shanks in South Philly could probbaly turn my worst day into a half way decent day... and turns an average day into a GREAT day :)

    it is the perfect sandwich
  • fuckfuck Posts: 4,069
    When you're pushed, killing's as easy as breathing.
  • decides2dreamdecides2dream Posts: 14,977
    _outlaw wrote:
    When you're pushed, killing's as easy as breathing.



    :eek:



    i'll be sure never to break your heart. ;)


    and i have to agree....alcohol helps. even when it hurts, it helps. :p i know there are those who would say it is a poor coping mechanism and to them i say go fuck yourself. :D it feels good, it tastes good...it's a fantastic distraction and sure sometimes it makes you feel the pain more intensely, but sometimes, that's a good thing too.


    much love to the broken-hearted...
    Stay with me...
    Let's just breathe...


    I am myself like you somehow


  • angie76angie76 Posts: 646
    decides2dream wrote:
    :eek:



    i'll be sure never to break your heart. ;)


    and i have to agree....alcohol helps. even when it hurts, it helps. :p i know there are those who would say it is a poor coping mechanism and to them i say go fuck yourself. :D it feels good, it tastes good...it's a fantastic distraction and sure sometimes it makes you feel the pain more intensely, but sometimes, that's a good thing too.


    much love to the broken-hearted...

    Yeah alcohol helps, but then you get sober and the hurt is still there.
    Dig a ditch deep enough
    To keep you clear of the sun
    You've been burned more than once
    You don't think much of trust
  • decides2dreamdecides2dream Posts: 14,977
    angie76 wrote:
    Yeah alcohol helps, but then you get sober and the hurt is still there.



    sure.
    never suggested it rids yourself of it....just eases it some.
    hell, i find alcohol makes most things, good or bad, better. :)
    the hurt takes time to heal...that's the hard and painful truth. nothing will rid yourself of it, just coping....and playing out the waiting game to move on.
    Stay with me...
    Let's just breathe...


    I am myself like you somehow


  • angie76angie76 Posts: 646
    decides2dream wrote:
    sure.
    never suggested it rids yourself of it....just eases it some.
    hell, i find alcohol makes most things, good or bad, better. :)
    the hurt takes time to heal...that's the hard and painful truth. nothing will rid yourself of it, just coping....and playing out the waiting game to move on.


    Yeah I guess i was just speaking from personal experience. I have done some strange stuff while under the influence.

    but yeah it mostly comes down to the old saying about time healing all.
    Dig a ditch deep enough
    To keep you clear of the sun
    You've been burned more than once
    You don't think much of trust
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