i could use some reasonable advice

Pennyroyal Tea

Whizbang wrote:

Even though you know her response will be for you to take your apology and shove it, be the bigger person and apologize anyway. Take down your blog while you're at it.

yeah i took it down.

LeilaMoonTurtle

yea
I don't understand y this person is in ur life

and if she is nuts and u know it why continue to keep her in ur life

instead of bothering ur mind and wasting time on thinking y this or that

think of ways to EVACUATE her from ur life

what ever u do do not engage in arguing

give a heartfelt apology and go away

don't do the half ass apology she will know, lol

so stop thinking and act

oo i should b a coach

Pennyroyal Tea wrote:

I think it is reasonable to say that I should apologize....but I'm aware that it was a dumb move. I've said so.

And I probably should apologize for my own good, but she's fucked up so much for me....I'm going to grit my teeth while doing it. She does not deserve an apology, whether I give her one or not.

but reality's called me already, thanks.

WildChildRose

Hmmm I can understand what you are going through. There was a person in my life that I had to keep around for fear of what she would do if we weren't friends. I recently ended the friendship bc of her nasty ways. I regret it now, bc I know she is actively trying to do harm to me but I'll never know....

Couple Q's for you....

myspace... why wasnt' your blog private or for friends only?
and if it was for friends, why is she on your friends list??

I think you should just cut off all contact and ignore her. If and when she does something, call the police. You can't get a restraining order now. She will have to DO something. Just document it and get in once she does. Also don't add any fuel to the fire. IGNORE her!

Heineken Helen

How crazy IS this girl? Are we talking about sleeping with a knife beside the bed crazy? Or just that she might spread some rumours and lies?

If it's the latter, fuck it, not worth losing sleep over and you'd learn who your real friends are then anyway. It can be a good way of getting rid of 'clutter'

If it's the former make sure you've good security on the house, stay in public places as much as possible, carry a can of mace?