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  • Heineken Helen
    Heineken Helen Posts: 18,095
    jlarson75 wrote:
    Your post reminded me of something Adam Carolla said on his radio show yesterday. They were talking about wanting closure when a relationship ended- maybe meeting for lunch to "close" things, or something like that. His take on the idea was that "closure" was really "openjure," meaning that if you want what you think is "closure," you really have feelings left and want things to continue in some manner. As he said, the best "closure" is nothing at all.
    That's bollox. I've got closure a couple of times... it definitely exists... and no, I didn't still have feelings but things didn't end with me having a full understanding of why or because I wasn't letting my true feelings be shown. The way I got full closure was by being completely honest about my past feelings and how I've moved on... therefore CLOSING the chapter.
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  • Obi Once
    Obi Once Posts: 918
    long red wrote:
    she wants to sex you. i say do it and do it rough. revenge is a dish best served in bed. along with breakfast.
    I'm with Long Red, do it and get her out of you system.

    The whole thing sounds very familiar. She just wants to check up on you and see how your feeling about what happened, to see what her options are if the thing she's in turns sour.
    your light's reflected now
  • brain of c
    brain of c Posts: 5,213
    never turn down an offer. even if you don't want it.
    d'oh!!!!!!

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  • EddiE
    EddiE Posts: 125
    brain of c wrote:
    never turn down an offer. even if you don't want it.

    LOL...thanks...helps alot :oS
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  • brain of c
    brain of c Posts: 5,213
    it's a man law.

    after it happened to me, she said "you used to last longer" my reply was "it didn't used to be possible to build a tent city from your panties."



    true story.
    d'oh!!!!!!

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  • SENROCK
    SENROCK Posts: 10,736
    EddiE wrote:
    an ex girlfriend (or boyfriend) from years ago contacted you through Facebook and started talking about the old days, how you made them feel, things you wish had happened etc, even though they said they were now married?
    the only thing you should read into this is the person is NOT happily married.
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  • JordyWordy
    JordyWordy Posts: 2,261
    EddiE wrote:
    WTF am I supposed to think about that??? Yes, I do have feelings for her after all this time (well maybe feelings of "what if")....yes, I know she's married....no, I wouldn't get involved if it did come out that she wanted to. I just don't know what to think. I think I should block her on my msn list, I just don't know wtf to think....as I said, it's been a total headfuck.

    i think Obi once and BrainofC are right....shes just looking to see if u & her cud hook up, and if the chance arises its a great way to get her out of your system.

    It'll only fuck with your head if you let it. Id say she lost her cool because she didnt want to hear that she'd fucked around with your head (its never nice to hear that), but you were right to tell her. say it how it is. just sleep with her and have a general attitude of contempt towards her afterwards and everything will be fine

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