You're gonna blow it if you keep calling her... give her the 'I don't care' attitude. While you're at it, go out and date some other girls... might as well stay busy while you're waiting for her to call:D
exactly he needs to practise on others in the long run he'll actually be doing a favor to this girl he is dating cause he's going to be more experienced
after reading this thread, i will say text her or if you do call her get straight to the point ( say you've got low credit on your phone ), or be just freaking up front with her and say you prefer talking in person.
it's ok if on the first date you're fishing for something to talk about, but next time you both still find it hard talking to each other, then don't bother with it at all, because it's more likely you don't have "connection"
at least then they don't have to progress to the relationship stage and stay friends if one of them doesn't feel the same way.
i've made a mistake recently, and now i've learned from it
as for betrayal, ah you can't trust no one these days.
trust=NO ONE for sure. its hard. and as far as relationships.....yeah HANG OUT a while BEFORE making mistakes man but still have fun and give the person your best. you never know what may become of it.
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trust=NO ONE for sure. its hard. and as far as relationships.....yeah HANG OUT a while BEFORE making mistakes man but still have fun and give the person your best. you never know what may become of it.
did you just call me a man? it's funny when it happens
yep of course i will hang out, but recently i was with this guy whom i saw once or twice a year or so ago. and then saw him again one evening and from that evening with started "hanging out". guess what the second time i saw him after that evening he started being jealous when i told him i was going to meet my male friend. and he was quick to call me his girlfriend too.and he would text me every day!! god, i felt suffocated.
he also started asking me why i don't want to call him my boyfriend because he said if i ain't your boyfriend then what the hell are we doing???
damn, if wish i said to him at that point that i wanted to be friend, but no instead i said, yeah, yeah you're my boyfriend. :rolleyes: my point is any guy tries that shit with me again, i will say it's either you're my friend or lets just end it here.
did you just call me a man? it's funny when it happens
yep of course i will hang out, but recently i was with this guy whom i saw once or twice a year or so ago. and then saw him again one evening and from that evening with started "hanging out". guess what the second time i saw him after that evening he started being jealous when i told him i was going to meet my male friend. and he was quick to call me his girlfriend too.and he would text me every day!! god, i felt suffocated.
he also started asking me why i don't want to call him my boyfriend because he said if i ain't your boyfriend then what the hell are we doing???
damn, if wish i said to him at that point that i wanted to be friend, but no instead i said, yeah, yeah you're my boyfriend. :rolleyes: my point is any guy tries that shit with me again, i will say it's either you're my friend or lets just end it here.
oh HELL NO. theres no WAY any guy that gets jealous right away is staying material. I have or USED to have alot of guy frenz. If the 'special' guy cant handle it then SEE YA!!! it works both ways though. chicks should realize guys have frenz that are girls and THEY shouldnt get jealous either. Someone from here is teaching me stuff that i knew before but havnt practiced in years! not only THAT, they arent even saying a word! its just the feeling or.....something.
~~~~~~ALWAYS HAVE A GOOD TIME~~~~~~
Sir Mike McCready is....THE MASTER!!! WAHHH!!!
EVENFLOW PSYCHOS H.N.I.C~FEEL THE FLOW!!!
"Pearl Jam fans are obsessed, they'd see the boys in HELL if tickets were sold."-CROJAM95
oh HELL NO. theres no WAY any guy that gets jealous right away is staying material. I have or USED to have alot of guy frenz. If the 'special' guy cant handle it then SEE YA!!! it works both ways though. chicks should realize guys have frenz that are girls and THEY shouldnt get jealous either. Someone from here is teaching me stuff that i knew before but havnt practiced in years! not only THAT, they arent even saying a word! its just the feeling or.....something.
i agree with this one that guy had double stanards going on, because later on, he told me he had "two sisters" who were actually his 2 best female friends which is fine by me, it's the double standards that pissed me off.
exactly he needs to practise on others in the long run he'll actually be doing a favor to this girl he is dating cause he's going to be more experienced
hahahahaha
i love practicing on others.. hahaha
Whoa, chill bro... you know you can't raise your voice like that when the lion's here.
Well first things first...1 date does NOT equal a relationship. So there's nothing to be doomed yet.
Second, if she said she might be available Saturday and she said "I'll get back to you" or something like that, then let her do that. If she didn't say that, then call her Friday.
talking on the phone is a waste of time in my book. i HATE it! i think you should have quick coversations with her, and just discuss where your next date should be. THEN when you are face to face, in a more relaxed atmosphere, you can discuss anything in the world together.
edit: i'm basically saying, you shouldn't get to know someone over the phone, i think it needs to be done in person.
Does it usually mean the relationship is doomed if the phone conversation after the first date seems to be a little awkward, even though the date was good?
We first talked on the phone last week for about an hour and a half. Obviously it was a little awkward, so it wasn't like we were having a great time. Pretty much strangers trying to know more about each other.
The first date started of with more of the same, actually started to get kind of boring for the first hour or two, but as we got a few beers in us, we both started to have a blast! She goes from serious career woman, to telling me stories about how she made beer bongs in college, was a skater in high school, lots of laughing, throwing her hair around, showing me her shoes and so forth. She seemed REALLY cool when we got to that point. We spent 6 hours at the bar, talking and having a good time. As we left she hinted at inviting me back to her place to watch a movie, but her bathroom was broke (the toilet really was broke, we established that in conversation at the beginning of the evening). It ended with me saying I had a really good time, and wanted to get together again sometime soon. She seemed to agree, hugged me and we went our own ways..
Two days later, I call her, leave a message, she sends me text later on saying she's busy at her parents, but will call me Monday..
So she just called me about an hour ago, but after all the fun we had, things seem to be back to that stage right before we had fun. Maybe I'm not good at conversation over the phone, maybe she isn't either. We both seemed to to dig around for anything to talk about, and seemed to only come up with the most boring things. The phone conversation ends with me offering a second date. She still seems interested by her tone, but has a busy schedule this week and "might" be available Saturday..
Should I call her back later this week, or wait for her to call me? Remember now, even though she called me back tonight, I've said twice I'd like to get together again, and she's the one with the "busy" schedule this week..
If this thread is any indication, there's a reason why I don't like dating and don't do it very much. :cool:
if she said she might be available saturday you should call her back this week. she may just not want to seem overly available or aggressive, that's all. she also maybe playing the game a little.
I would call Thursday and put the ball in her court. Say "I was just calling to see if you were available Saturday - I know you said you might be" - if she is, great. If not, put the ball in her court and say "ok, well you seem to have a busy schedule...why don't you give me a call or send me a text when you have a day in mind and we'll get together then"
talking on the phone is a waste of time in my book. i HATE it! i think you should have quick coversations with her, and just discuss where your next date should be. THEN when you are face to face, in a more relaxed atmosphere, you can discuss anything in the world together.
edit: i'm basically saying, you shouldn't get to know someone over the phone, i think it needs to be done in person.
i try my best to stay out of the "romance" threads ......
but....
i agree with you....
who says the phone conversation needs to be more than 2-3 minutes???
let her know you had a good time on the date.....
see if she wants to go out again.....
ask her when she is available to go out again....
tell her to give you a call...or ask her when is a good time to call again....
end of conversation.....
Take me piece by piece..... Till there aint nothing left worth taking away from me.....
I actually. like dating. I hate girls that play games and leave them at that.
Those that like to go out and have a good time makes it all worth while! (No, I don't mean it like that...I just like meeting and learning about new people)
If only it were that simple. <sigh>
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if it was that simple, wouldn't everyone be involved/married?
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I'll settle for it being as easy as some of those guys on 90210 or something.. just minus their other problems/issues..
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"I play good, hard-nosed basketball.
Things happen in the game. Nothing you
can do. I don't go and say,
"I'm gonna beat this guy up."
I'll settle for it being as easy as some of those guys on 90210 or something.. just minus their other problems/issues..
Once again, I hate to sound like a broken record but just get her good and drunk, slobber a bit on the roast beef curtains, then hit her g spot and you'll be golden.
By the way I am available for relationship consultation any time.
one foot in the door
the other foot in the gutter
sweet smell that they adore
I think I'd rather smother
-The Replacements-
Once again, I hate to sound like a broken record but just get her good and drunk, slobber a bit on the roast beef curtains, then hit her g spot and you'll be golden.
By the way I am available for relationship consultation any time.
damn good advice............
Take me piece by piece..... Till there aint nothing left worth taking away from me.....
Once again, I hate to sound like a broken record but just get her good and drunk, slobber a bit on the roast beef curtains, then hit her g spot and you'll be golden.
By the way I am available for relationship consultation any time.
I'm not sure if 'Roast Beef on the Curtains' is a metaphor for something? (I never know what anything means... good thing I have a translator)...
But I say give it another shot! I'm with the 2 - 3 minute phone convos! Unless your doing the long distance thing... then it could take 10 - 12
Life's short... and maybe I'm naive... but I prefer to take people at face value rather than assume they're playing games...
I'll keep BWIH in mind if I ever need relationship advice
Exercising her will to lose control...
she lets go
I don't think a followup call would be misplaced, if she said she may be free on Saturday.
If I may though... I don't know how I feel about someone who can only be fun after a few beers. Maybe she would warm up with time, but I would not put all my eggs in her basket
... and the will to show I will always be better than before.
I don't think a followup call would be misplaced, if she said she may be free on Saturday.
If I may though... I don't know how I feel about someone who can only be fun after a few beers. Maybe she would warm up with time, but I would not put all my eggs in her basket
Well, no need for me to worry. She called ME on Valentines day, and we had a good converstation, and she really drilled it it that she had a lot going on this week, just so I wouldn't think she was trying to avoid me..
Well, no need for me to worry. She called ME on Valentines day, and we had a good converstation, and she really drilled it it that she had a lot going on this week, just so I wouldn't think she was trying to avoid me..
She likes me.. She really likes me!
That is so sweet... I really hope it works out nicely for you
... and the will to show I will always be better than before.
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exactly, what happened to being friends first? why people rush into things and start getting serious, they'll only get their hearts broken later on.
it's ok if on the first date you're fishing for something to talk about, but next time you both still find it hard talking to each other, then don't bother with it at all, because it's more likely you don't have "connection"
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It takes balls to put out a UKE album!
at least then they don't have to progress to the relationship stage and stay friends if one of them doesn't feel the same way.
i've made a mistake recently, and now i've learned from it
as for betrayal, ah you can't trust no one these days.
Sir Mike McCready is....THE MASTER!!! WAHHH!!!
EVENFLOW PSYCHOS H.N.I.C~FEEL THE FLOW!!!
"Pearl Jam fans are obsessed, they'd see the boys in HELL if tickets were sold."-CROJAM95
It takes balls to put out a UKE album!
did you just call me a man?
yep of course i will hang out, but recently i was with this guy whom i saw once or twice a year or so ago. and then saw him again one evening and from that evening with started "hanging out". guess what the second time i saw him after that evening he started being jealous when i told him i was going to meet my male friend. and he was quick to call me his girlfriend too.and he would text me every day!! god, i felt suffocated.
he also started asking me why i don't want to call him my boyfriend because he said if i ain't your boyfriend then what the hell are we doing???
damn, if wish i said to him at that point that i wanted to be friend, but no instead i said, yeah, yeah you're my boyfriend. :rolleyes: my point is any guy tries that shit with me again, i will say it's either you're my friend or lets just end it here.
Sir Mike McCready is....THE MASTER!!! WAHHH!!!
EVENFLOW PSYCHOS H.N.I.C~FEEL THE FLOW!!!
"Pearl Jam fans are obsessed, they'd see the boys in HELL if tickets were sold."-CROJAM95
It takes balls to put out a UKE album!
i agree with this one
i love practicing on others.. hahaha
Second, if she said she might be available Saturday and she said "I'll get back to you" or something like that, then let her do that. If she didn't say that, then call her Friday.
lol don't say this. You might as well say "I'm poor and irresponsible"
(sorry genie!)
talking on the phone is a waste of time in my book. i HATE it! i think you should have quick coversations with her, and just discuss where your next date should be. THEN when you are face to face, in a more relaxed atmosphere, you can discuss anything in the world together.
edit: i'm basically saying, you shouldn't get to know someone over the phone, i think it needs to be done in person.
if she said she might be available saturday you should call her back this week. she may just not want to seem overly available or aggressive, that's all. she also maybe playing the game a little.
I would call Thursday and put the ball in her court. Say "I was just calling to see if you were available Saturday - I know you said you might be" - if she is, great. If not, put the ball in her court and say "ok, well you seem to have a busy schedule...why don't you give me a call or send me a text when you have a day in mind and we'll get together then"
ps - i hate dating too
i try my best to stay out of the "romance" threads ......
but....
i agree with you....
who says the phone conversation needs to be more than 2-3 minutes???
let her know you had a good time on the date.....
see if she wants to go out again.....
ask her when she is available to go out again....
tell her to give you a call...or ask her when is a good time to call again....
end of conversation.....
Till there aint nothing left worth taking away from me.....
HAHAHAHA. Funny!
If only it were that simple. <sigh>
if it was that simple, wouldn't everyone be involved/married?
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Camden 2008 MSG 2008 MSG 2008 Hartford 2008.
Seattle 2009 Seattle 2009 Philadelphia 2009,Philadelphia 2009 Philadelphia 2009
Hartford 2010 MSG 2010 MSG 2010
Toronto 2011,Toronto 2011
Wrigley Field 2013 Brooklyn 2013 Brooklyn 2013 Philadelphia 2, 2013
Philadelphia 1, 2016 Philadelphia 2 2016 New York 2016 New York 2016 Fenway 1, 2016
Fenway 2, 2018
MSG 2022
St. Paul, 1, St. Paul 2 2023
MSG 2024, MSG 2024
Philadelphia 2024
"I play good, hard-nosed basketball.
Things happen in the game. Nothing you
can do. I don't go and say,
"I'm gonna beat this guy up."
Ideally.
I'll settle for it being as easy as some of those guys on 90210 or something.. just minus their other problems/issues..
Albany 2006 Camden 2006 E. Rutherford 2, 2006 Inglewood 2006,
Chicago 2007
Camden 2008 MSG 2008 MSG 2008 Hartford 2008.
Seattle 2009 Seattle 2009 Philadelphia 2009,Philadelphia 2009 Philadelphia 2009
Hartford 2010 MSG 2010 MSG 2010
Toronto 2011,Toronto 2011
Wrigley Field 2013 Brooklyn 2013 Brooklyn 2013 Philadelphia 2, 2013
Philadelphia 1, 2016 Philadelphia 2 2016 New York 2016 New York 2016 Fenway 1, 2016
Fenway 2, 2018
MSG 2022
St. Paul, 1, St. Paul 2 2023
MSG 2024, MSG 2024
Philadelphia 2024
"I play good, hard-nosed basketball.
Things happen in the game. Nothing you
can do. I don't go and say,
"I'm gonna beat this guy up."
Once again, I hate to sound like a broken record but just get her good and drunk, slobber a bit on the roast beef curtains, then hit her g spot and you'll be golden.
By the way I am available for relationship consultation any time.
the other foot in the gutter
sweet smell that they adore
I think I'd rather smother
-The Replacements-
Till there aint nothing left worth taking away from me.....
I'm not sure if 'Roast Beef on the Curtains' is a metaphor for something? (I never know what anything means... good thing I have a translator)...
But I say give it another shot! I'm with the 2 - 3 minute phone convos! Unless your doing the long distance thing... then it could take 10 - 12
Life's short... and maybe I'm naive... but I prefer to take people at face value rather than assume they're playing games...
I'll keep BWIH in mind if I ever need relationship advice
she lets go
If I may though... I don't know how I feel about someone who can only be fun after a few beers. Maybe she would warm up with time, but I would not put all my eggs in her basket
Roast Beef Curtains is just about the greatest metaphor ever. Think of the female anatomy and you get the picture.
the other foot in the gutter
sweet smell that they adore
I think I'd rather smother
-The Replacements-
She likes me.. She really likes me!
That is so sweet... I really hope it works out nicely for you
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