For a change, I actually had a really good first date last night..

AmentsChick

Hartydog wrote:

Don't worry it will happen sometime.

Eh...I'm beginning to lose faith.

Hartydog

There's always 2009. Just kidding.

DaytimeDilemma

Call her 37 times in a row right now. That never fails.

AmentsChick

DaytimeDilemma wrote:

Call her 37 times in a row right now. That never fails.

Mike: Hi, uh, Nikki, this is Mike. I met you at the, um, at the Dresden tonight. I just called to say that I had a great time... and you should call me tomorrow, or in two days, whatever. Anyway, my number is 213-555-4679 -
[the machine beeps]

Mike: [Mike calls back, the machine picks up]

Mike: Hi, Nikki, this is Mike again. I just called cuz it sounded like your machine might've cut me off when I, before I finished leaving my number. Anyway, uh, and, y'know, and also, sorry to call so late, but you were still at the Dresden when I left so I knew I'd get your machine. Anyhow, uh, my number's 21 -
[the machine beeps]

Mike: [Mike calls back; the machine picks up again]

Mike: 213-555-4679. That's it. I just wanna leave my number. I didn't want you to think I was weird or desperate, or... we should just hang out and see where it goes cuz it's nice and, y'know, no expectations. Ok? Thanks a lot. Bye bye.
[hangs up]

Mike: [Mike walks away from the phone... then walks back and calls again; once again, the machine picks up]

Mike: I just got out of a 6-year relationship, Ok? That should help explain why I'm acting so weird. I just wanted you to know that. It's not you, it's me. I'm sorry.... This is Mike.
[hangs up]

Mike: [Mike calls back, the machine picks up again]

Mike: Hi, Nikki, this is Mike. Could you just call me when you get in? I'm gonna be up for awhile and I'd just rather speak to you in person instead of trying to fit it all into -
[the machine beeps]

Mike: Fuck!
[Mike calls back, gets the machine again]

Mike: Uh, Nikki? Mike. It's uh, uh, it's just, uh, this just isn't working out. I think you're great, but maybe we should just take some time off from each other. It's not you, it's me. It's what I'm going through, alright? It's uh... it's only been 6 months -

Nikki: [picks up] Mike?

Mike: [very cheerful] Nikki? Great! Did you just walk in or were you listening all along?

Nikki: Don't ever call me again.
[hangs up]

Mike: Wow. I guess you're home.

macgyver06

be yourself... youre gonna have to resort to it anyway in the next few months if you are still going out with her...if your fake....she will know soon enough...(this idea comes with some warning because some women are crazy...and by some i mean most...possibly all...and thats cool because its hard to argue with cuteness and an extremely warm bed) but what im syaing is.... if you are trying to get laid.....be as fake as possible for as long as possible...but be convincing... but if you like her..... be yourself


and some may think just wanting to get laid is a bad thing...but its actually doing a favor to her next guy...because already he is 2 steps higher than you...so really... its a good thing!!! your looking out for the little guy... not a damned thing wrong with that.

KosmicJelli

take her out for Valentine's Day...

Heineken Helen

Brain of J.Lo wrote:

That's awesome!

Don't play games. If you want to talk to her, call her!

I agree... if I went on a first date with somebody and they didn't call or text the next night even just to say they had a nice time and would like to do it again... I'd be wondering what went wrong. I'll never understand the whole 'playing it cool' thing.

audiodave

Heineken Helen wrote:

I agree... if I went on a first date with somebody and they didn't call or text the next night even just to say they had a nice time and would like to do it again... I'd be wondering what went wrong. I'll never understand the whole 'playing it cool' thing.

Me neither. If you aren't cool...why try to play it cool?



:cool:

Heineken Helen

audiodave wrote:

Me neither. If you aren't cool...why try to play it cool?



:cool:

Absolutely! Nah, I've been in that position before where it's actually turned me off seeing him again... where he might 'play it cool' and leave it a couple of days to get in touch, I just don't see the point... if you're not interested, don't contact again, but if you ARE interested well BE interested... but by playing it cool, you're giving her too much time to cool off also.

Sian-of-the-dead

Heineken Helen wrote:

by playing it cool, you're giving her too much time to cool off also.

true that... :cool:

Buru

Heineken Helen wrote:

Absolutely! Nah, I've been in that position before where it's actually turned me off seeing him again... where he might 'play it cool' and leave it a couple of days to get in touch, I just don't see the point... if you're not interested, don't contact again, but if you ARE interested well BE interested... but by playing it cool, you're giving her too much time to cool off also.

you know, you are actually making sense.

Heineken Helen

Buru wrote:

you know, you are actually making sense.

First time for everything!

But yeh, the next day I'd usually be thinking about him, if I were interested, and thinking 'oh I hope he calls', then it goes to 'why isn't he calling' to 'who the fuck does he think he is making me wait like this' to 'that's that... I'm becoming a lesbian... fuck him anyway'

And then I go out the following weekend and it starts all over again and by the time they do call, I can't even be bothered answering their call.