For a change, I actually had a really good first date last night..

Buru

Heineken Helen wrote:

Absolutely! Nah, I've been in that position before where it's actually turned me off seeing him again... where he might 'play it cool' and leave it a couple of days to get in touch, I just don't see the point... if you're not interested, don't contact again, but if you ARE interested well BE interested... but by playing it cool, you're giving her too much time to cool off also.

you know, you are actually making sense.

Heineken Helen

Buru wrote:

you know, you are actually making sense.

First time for everything!

But yeh, the next day I'd usually be thinking about him, if I were interested, and thinking 'oh I hope he calls', then it goes to 'why isn't he calling' to 'who the fuck does he think he is making me wait like this' to 'that's that... I'm becoming a lesbian... fuck him anyway'

And then I go out the following weekend and it starts all over again and by the time they do call, I can't even be bothered answering their call.