For a change, I actually had a really good first date last night..

LikeAnOcean
LikeAnOcean Posts: 7,718
edited February 2008 in All Encompassing Trip
I'm going to have to equate it to a blind date almost because it was someone I met from online, but it seemed to go over really well.. I'm actually concerned this time with not messing up a good thing.

How soon we be appropriate to give her a call back? Would calling her tonight be a little much or should I give it some air and wait a few days???
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  • Jeremy1012
    Jeremy1012 Posts: 7,170
    give it another day. got to be cool :cool:

    :D
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  • MattCameronKicksButt
    MattCameronKicksButt Posts: 4,317
    Why don't you guys just do what feels right? Then you won't be cheating her into thinking you're something you're not! :rolleyes:
  • LikeAnOcean
    LikeAnOcean Posts: 7,718
    MattCameronKicksButt wrote:
    Why don't you guys just do what feels right? Then you won't be cheating her into thinking you're something you're not! :rolleyes:
    So I should call her tonight?

    Another question, the next day we'll both be available to do something is valentines day, we're obviously not in a relationship yet, but would asking her out on Valentines day be a little much?
  • Brain of J.Lo
    Brain of J.Lo Posts: 3,259
    That's awesome! :)

    Don't play games. If you want to talk to her, call her! :)
  • MattCameronKicksButt
    MattCameronKicksButt Posts: 4,317
    Brain of J.Lo wrote:
    That's awesome! :)

    Don't play games. If you want to talk to her, call her! :)

    Exactly! You can't trick someone into liking you. You can but it won't last. It depends what you want. She's either interested or not. If not, that's life. :( (IMO).

    Do what you want to do. :)
  • Lizard
    Lizard So Cal Posts: 12,091
    good for you!!!

    :)
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  • SPEEDY MCCREADY
    SPEEDY MCCREADY Posts: 26,947
    LikeAnOcean wrote:
    I'm going to have to equate it to a blind date almost because it was someone I met from online, but it seemed to go over really well.. I'm actually concerned this time with not messing up a good thing.

    How soon we be appropriate to give her a call back? Would calling her tonight be a little much or should I give it some air and wait a few days???
    it wasnt that good of a date.....

    because if it was she would be making you coffee and cooking you breakfast right now.....

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  • GraySaturday
    GraySaturday Posts: 2,878
    Congrats on the good date. I would call her when you feel like talking to her again. Just be natural. Following some weird set rules starts the "relationship" off on a weird foot. I say, if you want to call her tonight, then go ahead!

    And, if she told you she was free on Valentines day, then maybe she was hoping you'd be free to go out too! I've been out with friends on Valentines day.. its not only for couples. Go have a nice dinner or drinks or something. Valentines day is just a day in the end :)

    Good luck!
  • brain of c
    brain of c Posts: 5,213
    SPEEDY MCCREADY wrote:
    it wasnt that good of a date.....

    because if it was she would be making you coffee and cooking you breakfast right now.....

    heheheheheheheehehe..................

    down, boy.

    call her!
    d'oh!!!!!!

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  • Jeremy1012
    Jeremy1012 Posts: 7,170
    MattCameronKicksButt wrote:
    Why don't you guys just do what feels right? Then you won't be cheating her into thinking you're something you're not! :rolleyes:
    :D I was only kidding. It always makes me laugh when people think there are rules about this shit.

    chances are, if you had a good time, she probably did too. call her if it seems right.
    "I remember one night at Muzdalifa with nothing but the sky overhead, I lay awake amid sleeping Muslim brothers and I learned that pilgrims from every land — every colour, and class, and rank; high officials and the beggar alike — all snored in the same language"
  • LikeAnOcean
    LikeAnOcean Posts: 7,718
    GraySaturday wrote:
    Congrats on the good date. I would call her when you feel like talking to her again. Just be natural. Following some weird set rules starts the "relationship" off on a weird foot. I say, if you want to call her tonight, then go ahead!

    And, if she told you she was free on Valentines day, then maybe she was hoping you'd be free to go out too! I've been out with friends on Valentines day.. its not only for couples. Go have a nice dinner or drinks or something. Valentines day is just a day in the end :)

    Good luck!
    Well she didn't exactly say she'd be free. She said she'd probably end up going out with her friends for "singles awareness night".. So I didn't really catch if I was supposed to change that, or let her have her time with friends. :o
  • mookie9999
    mookie9999 Posts: 4,677
    LikeAnOcean wrote:
    Well she didn't exactly say she'd be free. She said she'd probably end up going out with her friends for "singles awareness night".. So I didn't really catch if I was supposed to change that, or let her have her time with friends. :o

    I'm pretty sure she's already "aware" of her single status. Talk to her some more and see if she's free!
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  • Byrnzie
    Byrnzie Posts: 21,037
    If in doubt, watch 'Swingers'.
  • Hartydog
    Hartydog Posts: 2,060
    I'd say call her tomorrow and avoid the Hallmark holiday for a 2nd date.
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  • LikeAnOcean
    LikeAnOcean Posts: 7,718
    Hartydog wrote:
    I'd say call her tomorrow and avoid the Hallmark holiday for a 2nd date.
    Or maybe see if she's free that night and pretend its just a regular Thursday?
  • Trailer
    Trailer Posts: 1,431
    Call her the day AFTER Valentine's Day ;)... hehehe
    Whoa, chill bro... you know you can't raise your voice like that when the lion's here.
  • Brain of J.Lo
    Brain of J.Lo Posts: 3,259
    I think you should just ask her when she's free this week, rather than specifically asking her if she's free on Thursday.
  • Hartydog
    Hartydog Posts: 2,060
    LikeAnOcean wrote:
    Or maybe see if she's free that night and pretend its just a regular Thursday?

    I think there's just too much room for interpretation and confusion by trying to do something that night. But I'm no love doctor so...
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  • AmentsChick
    AmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    What's that like? A "good" first date? :confused:
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  • Hartydog
    Hartydog Posts: 2,060
    AmentsChick wrote:
    What's that like? A "good" first date? :confused:

    Don't worry it will happen sometime.
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