I had a creepy neighbor, I think women can really sense these things..Well this was a guy and we had a common cellar and shared the attic's entry. So anyway this guy was everywhere I was. Either by the window or the cellar.
We hung out with him and his with say 3 times. From the very start I didn't feel comfortable around him. I was working at Lahey Clinic at the time {shitty hours} it was Tues. - Sat. 4pm to 12:30 am. While I was at work he came over to our apartment and was asking my husb. how our marriage was. He said good.
In the meantime I had just started going partime. It was a Tues. morning and I was debating whether to take a shower @ 10am or 10:30. Luckily I decided 10:30. So I'm sitting on my couch {where I would be sleeping after getting the kids to school}, and I heard a noise, so I stood up and saw someone standing in our entry way with a nylon over his head and a knife. I had no idea who it was at the time.
Next thing I knew I was on the floor with him on top of me and he was sitting on my chest I couldn't move my arms. He was holding my head down facing my left side, he had on some really smelly wool gloves on. So I just screamed and tried to get him off of me, when I discovered the knife on the floor beside me. I managed to reach and grab it and he got it away from me. I just froze I thought for sure I was going to die.
Then he got up and for some strange reason I was behind him. He went down the cellar stairs, and I called the police. There was no other way for someone to get into my apartment except through his. The police finally came, and asked me if he had any priors.
The police screwed up everything, the main detective knew he was guilty and actually told me that he told him to get out of town or they're going to arrest him.
Anyway when we moved from that apartment which was years later. My son and I were watching the news and they showed him and said his name he had changed in his looks, but then they said his name. At that time they were bringing him back from Georgia. At that time I found out he had murdered someone 9 years before my attack. I called the detective on that case and mentioned what happened in mine. I had to go before a grand jury and he got indicted.
The judge would not hear my case because it would have been prejudicial against him. He did get convicted of the murder though, but I feel I didn't get my justice.
So what I'm trying to say is stay away from this woman. You don't really know what your dealing with. I hope my story as long as it is, helps you in some way..
Good Luck
OMG that's horrifying!!! I'm glad you got out of that situation safe. What a fuck up with the cops though :mad: I would think that would be enough to arrest and charge the guy - wtf?
I agree - trust your gut! There's something seriously off with this woman and nothing you do or say is gonna make her change. Just keep your distance. She'll get pissy, but she's already pissy so I wouldn't worry too much about that. No wonder she's so damn clingy! If she doesn't trap people they run far far away! :eek:
Our mutual friend that I mentioned thinks that she might quit the program because she is just so unhappy with everything. Apparently she is always concerned about comparing her work to me. She was partnered with our friend during peer reviews the other day and kept telling our friend, "don't tell sarah I don't have my work done, I don't want her to know.. I don't care!!! I honestly am not concerned with anyone's work there at all. I am only concerned with my grades and working really hard. I couldn't careless how other people do!
She thinks she is so important to me, and that I worry about her shit all the time. It's so odd.
chick needs some intensive therapy...
oh and if she shows up one day with the same hair cut and color and the same outfit, run to a cop
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That's what I was thinking. Tell that guy to run for the hills!!;)
I agree - trust your gut! There's something seriously off with this woman and nothing you do or say is gonna make her change. Just keep your distance. She'll get pissy, but she's already pissy so I wouldn't worry too much about that. No wonder she's so damn clingy! If she doesn't trap people they run far far away! :eek:
chick needs some intensive therapy...
oh and if she shows up one day with the same hair cut and color and the same outfit, run to a cop