Saving your first kiss for marriage.

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  • Jennytree
    Jennytree Posts: 5,340
    I watched a documentary on this last night on the channel 4 website called the Virgin Daughters.

    Its the oddest thing ever - waiting until your wedding day for your first kiss... bloody americans :p

    It also told the story of one girl who ended up getting pregnant, cos she was f*ckin this dude, but they were never taught about condoms or the like *facepalm*
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  • Black Diamond
    Black Diamond Posts: 25,109
    Wow! This is awesome!

    So now there is a great for me (uhh... Someone) to use when explaining why they lived with their mom until 26 and can count how many episodes I (they) had on one finger.

    I was doing it for the lord!

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  • petrocs
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    You cant know if the brownies are good unless you taste the batter! I total disagree with this type of behavior
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  • Sian-of-the-dead
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    Man, that's like buying a lifetime's supply of Krispy Kremes without even tasting a Tescos Donut... :eek:

    Not for me :o
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  • Poncier
    Poncier Posts: 17,927
    PJGARDEN wrote:
    First kiss on your wedding night? Assuming their wedding night is like most people's that's a lot to learn in one night.


    Just the kiss will be a bit awkward, thats all they agree to wait on...they've been banging like rabbits for months, just no kissing. :D
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  • Collin
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    Weird.
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  • ladygooddiva
    ladygooddiva Posts: 4,169
    sorry but i was just laughing that is so wired ..but maybe i am the wrong person on these ...well bec. is on my eyes staying virgin for the marriage is wrong ..for what are the condoms
    and beeing happy while sex is important as well as understanding etc.
    how you should now what your needs are when you don t know what is all about ...
  • stu gee
    stu gee Posts: 1,174
    I watched that virgin daughters programme on tv a while back and all the fathers were trying to get their daughters to save their first kiss for marriage. One of them ended up getting pregnant though which must have been fun breaking the news to her parents lol.

    I suppose they could come back with 'well you only said that it was kissing that was forbidden.'

    Was funny though, one of the over protective fathers had about 12 kids with many different women.
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  • sennin
    sennin Posts: 2,146
    What about oral? Is that still ok?

    :p
  • AmentsChick
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    You watched the Duggars last night, too?!!! SOOOO interesting! Joshua seemed SOOOO young (which he is), nervous and inexperienced when he "proposed".
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  • AmentsChick
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    Woah! Apparently they were in a hurry to get to that first kiss! Their engagement was short...they're already married!! :D

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  • BinFrog
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    AmentsChick wrote:
    You watched the Duggars last night, too?!!! SOOOO interesting! Joshua seemed SOOOO young (which he is), nervous and inexperienced when he "proposed".


    That family scares the living hell out of me.
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  • AmentsChick
    AmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    BinFrog wrote:
    That family scares the living hell out of me.

    Why? They're good people...just really conservative in their morals and values. Their kids are polite, intelligent and well-spoken. While I'm the first to admit that their children are indeed sheltered is that necessarily such a bad thing??

    I started a thread awhile back about this exact thing:

    http://forums.pearljam.com/showthread.php?t=294565
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  • Heineken Helen
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    stu gee wrote:
    I watched that virgin daughters programme on tv a while back and all the fathers were trying to get their daughters to save their first kiss for marriage. One of them ended up getting pregnant though which must have been fun breaking the news to her parents lol.

    I suppose they could come back with 'well you only said that it was kissing that was forbidden.'

    Was funny though, one of the over protective fathers had about 12 kids with many different women.
    I guess there are many dads who would have this rule if they thought they could get away with it :D

    If it's the kids decision for whatever reason though... well, fuck it, I'm a dirty slut... who am I to judge? :D
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  • nick1977
    nick1977 Posts: 327
    This is very strange.

    And the stranger thing is....my first girlfriend had this same rule about no kissing until marriage. Obviously that relationship did not last long....about as long as the first time I tried to kiss her! Talk about a boost to my self esteem (I was in 9th grade). That really threw my for a loop.

    I read an article in my local paper about another couple who did this same thing. Apparantly it is the new "conservative Christian" fad. True love waits is not enough.....now no kissing! Yikes! Talk about a lot of rules these kids have to live up to.

    About the oldest Duggar child getting married! This is too funny. Poor girl is in for a looooooong ride. What do you bet she is pregnant by the end of the year.....then she and her uncle/aunt will be the same age. Weird!

    This story is fascinating. It gets more and more bizare!
  • AmentsChick
    AmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    nick1977 wrote:
    This is very strange.

    And the stranger thing is....my first girlfriend had this same rule about no kissing until marriage. Obviously that relationship did not last long....about as long as the first time I tried to kiss her! Talk about a boost to my self esteem (I was in 9th grade). That really threw my for a loop.

    I read an article in my local paper about another couple who did this same thing. Apparantly it is the new "conservative Christian" fad. True love waits is not enough.....now no kissing! Yikes! Talk about a lot of rules these kids have to live up to.

    About the oldest Duggar child getting married! This is too funny. Poor girl is in for a looooooong ride. What do you bet she is pregnant by the end of the year.....then she and her uncle/aunt will be the same age. Weird!

    This story is fascinating. It gets more and more bizare!
    I am totally and completely fascinated with the Duggars (the same way I am with LDS and polygamists)
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  • londonwpr
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    GraySaturday wrote:
    So, there are people out there that take part in courtships. My husband had a friend that did this. They only allowed themselves to hug each other until their wedding night, where they shared their first kiss (behind closed doors after the ceremony). I'm also watching a new special on the Duggar family (the family with 17 kids) and its a courtship special, and they are talking about how they are saving their first kiss for marriage. And they have to have chaperons on all dates. And the chaperons have to be of a certain age too.

    I'm a little freaked out by this whole concept.. Not a single kiss until marriage.. I can't wrap my head around that.

    Did you notice how annoying the excess hand holding became? No matter what they were doing, they kept holding hands. I wonder if when one of them uses the toilet, if the other one has to stand there and hold hands while they do the deed? Before, they'd need a chaperone for this activity, but now they can do it alone since they're married.
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  • xscorcho
    xscorcho Posts: 409
    i dont see what the big deal is if somebody wants to wait for a kiss, sex or whatever else until marriage......
  • Kilgore_Trout
    Kilgore_Trout Posts: 7,334
    ive only come across a handful of bad kissers in my kissing career... but if i had married one of those girls before realizing that i would be pretty upset... its always those people that refuse to get a divorce for religious reasons too... so if the 1st, 2nd, 3rd, and 4th base is no good then youre just shit out of luck

    cant say i really get it... in fact id go as far as to say its completely stupid

    what do these non kisser do when theres an awkward silence?? think of something to say?? OUTRAGEOUS
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  • GraySaturday
    GraySaturday Posts: 2,878
    londonwpr wrote:
    Did you notice how annoying the excess hand holding became? No matter what they were doing, they kept holding hands. I wonder if when one of them uses the toilet, if the other one has to stand there and hold hands while they do the deed? Before, they'd need a chaperone for this activity, but now they can do it alone since they're married.

    I did notice that! My husband was like, do you think they are super glued at the hands? It was a little over the top. He couldn't even eat normally because his hand was stuck to hers.

    I don't know, I mean hell, they seemed super happy, and that family in general seems to be so loving and content, so I mean.. whatever works right? It's just SO different then my own life, or what you hear about on tv/movies/other people's lives...

    I just can't imagine that. I mean it just seems so awkward to me, but thats because its not my life. I'm sure they'd think that putting on some high heels with nothing else and getting down and dirty is awkward.. but you know.. different strokes for different folks? Literally...

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