Saving your first kiss for marriage.

GraySaturday

So, there are people out there that take part in courtships. My husband had a friend that did this. They only allowed themselves to hug each other until their wedding night, where they shared their first kiss (behind closed doors after the ceremony). I'm also watching a new special on the Duggar family (the family with 17 kids) and its a courtship special, and they are talking about how they are saving their first kiss for marriage. And they have to have chaperons on all dates. And the chaperons have to be of a certain age too.

I'm a little freaked out by this whole concept.. Not a single kiss until marriage.. I can't wrap my head around that.

small town beck

I decided to edit out my comment

Sounds weird. What if you had NO chemistry?

SoonForgotten2

That's just beyond ridiculous. I don't think I could ever see the point behind that. Live a little, people!!

mookeywrench

GraySaturday wrote:

I'm also watching a new special on the Duggar family (the family with 17 kids) and its a courtship special, and they are talking about how they are saving their first kiss for marriage.

I'm confused about this sentence....

You're saying that they're a family of 17 kids, but they're unmarried and have yet to kiss?

GraySaturday

mookeywrench wrote:

I'm confused about this sentence....

You're saying that they're a family of 17 kids, but they're unmarried and have yet to kiss?

Oh sorry, its focusing on the oldest of the 17 children. He's "engaged" or courting.. or something..

whatever it is.. its not kissing.

CHANGEinWAVES

GraySaturday wrote:

So, there are people out there that take part in courtships. My husband had a friend that did this. They only allowed themselves to hug each other until their wedding night, where they shared their first kiss (behind closed doors after the ceremony). I'm also watching a new special on the Duggar family (the family with 17 kids) and its a courtship special, and they are talking about how they are saving their first kiss for marriage. And they have to have chaperons on all dates. And the chaperons have to be of a certain age too.

I'm a little freaked out by this whole concept.. Not a single kiss until marriage.. I can't wrap my head around that.

WTF!!!!???? This is weird...but who am I to say what's weird.:p

SoonForgotten2

GraySaturday wrote:

Oh sorry, its focusing on the oldest of the 17 children.

Oldest of 17 kids? Ha ha ha, that explains it then!

norm

SoonForgotten2 wrote:

Oldest of 17 kids? Ha ha ha, that explains it then!

with 18 on the way :eek:

http://www.duggarfamily.com/

PJGARDEN

First kiss on your wedding night? Assuming their wedding night is like most people's that's a lot to learn in one night.

PJGARDEN

So I guess this means the girls that hug on the first date are the whores?

GraySaturday

Oh my god, these people are wicked brain washed..

the said they are going to trust the lord to bless them with as many kids as possible, just like their parents..

these two met at a "home school conference" :eek:

norm

GraySaturday wrote:

Oh my god, these people are wicked brain washed..

the said they are going to trust the lord to bless them with as many kids as possible, just like their parents..

these two met at a "home school conference" :eek:

who are we to judge a lifestyle but....



these people are just plain creepy

suns rival

GraySaturday wrote:

So, there are people out there that take part in courtships. My husband had a friend that did this. They only allowed themselves to hug each other until their wedding night, where they shared their first kiss (behind closed doors after the ceremony). I'm also watching a new special on the Duggar family (the family with 17 kids) and its a courtship special, and they are talking about how they are saving their first kiss for marriage. And they have to have chaperons on all dates. And the chaperons have to be of a certain age too.

I'm a little freaked out by this whole concept.. Not a single kiss until marriage.. I can't wrap my head around that.

:eek: talking about an ultra-conservative couple...

i didn't know that these kinds of species still exist.

justjoshingu

not quite the same thing but...
i knew a girl who promised God she would stay a virgin so she never had intercourse. intercourse being a penis in vagina.

but she loved it up the b**t i thought that was hypocritical

Left Porch

First Date

Girl: Oh by the way I won't kiss until marriage, that's my rule.

Left Porch: You know theres other things we can do besides kiss

Girl: Like what

Left Porch: (whispers something in girls ear)

Girl: (Slaps the shit out of Left Porch)

muiren77

Left Porch wrote:

First Date

Girl: Oh by the way I won't kiss until marriage, that's my rule.

Left Porch: You know theres other things we can do besides kiss

Girl: Like what

Left Porch: (whispers something in girls ear)

Girl: (Slaps the shit out of Left Porch)

what did u tell her? nah, forget it...you probably deserve the slapping..:D

EquallyWorthless

GraySaturday wrote:

So, there are people out there that take part in courtships. My husband had a friend that did this. They only allowed themselves to hug each other until their wedding night, where they shared their first kiss (behind closed doors after the ceremony). I'm also watching a new special on the Duggar family (the family with 17 kids) and its a courtship special, and they are talking about how they are saving their first kiss for marriage. And they have to have chaperons on all dates. And the chaperons have to be of a certain age too.

I'm a little freaked out by this whole concept.. Not a single kiss until marriage.. I can't wrap my head around that.

yeah you usually take the car for a test drive before you decide you want to drive it for, ummm, you know... FOREVER, if youre picking up what im putting down

nuffingman

Left Porch wrote:

First Date

Girl: Oh by the way I won't kiss until marriage, that's my rule.

Left Porch: You know theres other things we can do besides kiss

Girl: Like what

Left Porch: (whispers something in girls ear)

Girl: (Slaps the shit out of Left Porch)

and that's probably a scene from the Duggars household.

The mother has spent 12 years and 9 months of her life pregnant. :eek:

Heineken Helen

justjoshingu wrote:

not quite the same thing but...
i knew a girl who promised God she would stay a virgin so she never had intercourse. intercourse being a penis in vagina.

but she loved it up the b**t i thought that was hypocritical

ah the excuses some people come up with

justam

GraySaturday wrote:

So, there are people out there that take part in courtships. My husband had a friend that did this. They only allowed themselves to hug each other until their wedding night, where they shared their first kiss (behind closed doors after the ceremony). I'm also watching a new special on the Duggar family (the family with 17 kids) and its a courtship special, and they are talking about how they are saving their first kiss for marriage. And they have to have chaperons on all dates. And the chaperons have to be of a certain age too.

I'm a little freaked out by this whole concept.. Not a single kiss until marriage.. I can't wrap my head around that.

I knew a married couple in college who waited to have sex until they were married, but they had no rules against everything else. They were quite happy at that time and I think they're still together.

I think waiting to kiss is a bit extreme.

muiren77

justam wrote:

I think waiting to kiss is a bit extreme.

i guess they are just super-ultra-mega-conservative-to-the-max!