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  • pearljamjenpearljamjen Posts: 13,578
    Ideally I would not. I have VERY bad allergies, and when I am around smokers, my throat closes up and hurts SOO much, my eyes water and I get the worst headache. I am soooo miserable and not exactly "in the mood" to do anything. :p My ex hid the fact that he was a smoker until after we started dating...before we started dating I think I mentioned once that smoke bothered me. So, by the time I found out he smoked, I already liked him. Most of the time he was pretty considerate and wouldn't smoke around me, and fortunately his roommates did not allow smarking the apartment so he always went outside to smoke and then would pop a mint or something so I didn't have to kiss an ashtray. :p

    So definitely I would prefer to date a non-smoker. But if I develop feelings for someone who happens to be a smoker, then hopefully we can work things out. :)
  • harmless_little_f***harmless_little_f*** Posts: 8,005
    Yes I would date a smoker... why not?
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  • GraySaturdayGraySaturday Posts: 2,878
    I am a non-smoker, and allergic to smoke..

    I actually dated a smoker. I only did because he was my best friend of years, and I thought I could get over it.

    I couldn't, it was disgusting. It was like making out with a dirty ash tray, and it gagged me. Everything smelled like smoke, and I felt sick 100% of the time...

    "other" smoke doesn't bother my allergies, and I have dated many of those smokers.
  • prljmngrlprljmngrl Posts: 320
    libragirl wrote:
    Kind of got inspired by the smoking thread...

    to clarify..I'm referring to cigarettes, cigars or anyother tobacco you could smoke:)
    absolutely not
  • prljmngrlprljmngrl Posts: 320
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  • libragirllibragirl Posts: 4,632
    prljmngrl wrote:
    absolutely not

    Even if he was the nicest person ever?
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  • Hitch-HikerHitch-Hiker Posts: 2,873
    I have, I would. Although I'd prefer if they didn't.
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  • prljmngrlprljmngrl Posts: 320
    libragirl wrote:
    Even if he was the nicest person ever?
    even if. I could NOT live with a smoker. It is really disgusting to me. I wouldn't date a person who did drugs either.
  • libragirllibragirl Posts: 4,632
    prljmngrl wrote:
    even if. I could NOT live with a smoker. It is really disgusting to me.

    That's cool. It really disgusts me too. But I guess I have been lucky to be with smokers who are considerate. But the thing I hate the most is kissing someone right after they smoked. It is so nasty.
    These cuts are leaving creases. Trace the scars to fit the pieces, to tell the story, you don't need to say a word.
  • dawngdawng Posts: 644
    Only if his name was Ed :)
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  • cropdustresscropdustress Posts: 4,339
    *dawn* wrote:
    Only if his name was Ed :)
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  • goldenegggoldenegg Posts: 371
    Honestly, I'm turned off the moment I see a girl pick up a cigarette.
  • Phantom PainPhantom Pain Posts: 9,876
    goldenegg wrote:
    Honestly, I'm turned off the moment I see a girl pick up a cigarette.

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  • MattCameronKicksButtMattCameronKicksButt Posts: 4,317
    I did... and then I took up smoking myself. :o It never bothered me though. Maybe because I grew up in a smokey environment... I never even noticed the smell or the smoke. *shrugs*
  • HartydogHartydog Posts: 2,060
    Nope. However if she was up for an occasional cigar that would be cool.
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  • RolandTD20KdrummerRolandTD20Kdrummer Posts: 13,066
    smoke this...[
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  • ashtrayrockashtrayrock Posts: 167
    libragirl wrote:
    Kind of got inspired by the smoking thread...

    to clarify..I'm referring to cigarettes, cigars or anyother tobacco you could smoke:)

    If they showered daily and were kind to my dog thennn ummmm yeahhhhh...

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  • __ Posts: 6,651
    Not under any circumstances would I date a smoker.

    (Okay - maybe under two circumstances: If his name was Eddie Vedder or Johnny Depp.) :D
  • SENROCKSENROCK Posts: 10,736
    libragirl wrote:
    Kind of got inspired by the smoking thread...

    to clarify..I'm referring to cigarettes, cigars or anyother tobacco you could smoke:)
    If the person is freakin AWESOME but does smoke......i have to say yeah. They might stop someday. :) im not a huge fan of it but....its somethin that doesnt over power who they are.
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  • pearljamjenpearljamjen Posts: 13,578
    scb wrote:
    (Okay - maybe under two circumstances: If his name was Eddie Vedder or Johnny Depp.) :D


    Heehee for them I would suffer with my allergy problems. :p Hopefully they would be considerate though.

    Ooooh there is someone that I hope doesn't see my posts (and that maybe I'd make an exception for) :p Post people post! :eek:
  • small town becksmall town beck Posts: 6,691
    Well at this point I would probably date a crack smoker :p LMAO

    Ok I am only kidding. I wouldn't dismiss someone for being a smoker. I don't like the smell and how it gets on everything. Sadly, once in a while when I am drunk I do like to smoke a cigarette or two :eek: but the next day I feel like even more shit than I would have.

    Pot smoking sure.... the smell is usually pretty nice and I can partake. Wake and bake ?? No thanks... I am not a kid anymore :confused: ... however that happened :p
  • South of SeattleSouth of Seattle Posts: 10,724
    small town beck wrote:
    Well at this point I would probably date a crack smoker :p LMAO

    Ok I am only kidding. I wouldn't dismiss someone for being a smoker. I don't like the smell and how it gets on everything. Sadly, once in a while when I am drunk I do like to smoke a cigarette or two :eek: but the next day I feel like even more shit than I would have.

    Pot smoking sure.... the smell is usually pretty nice and I can partake. Wake and bake ?? No thanks... I am not a kid anymore :confused: ... however that happened :p

    Wake and Bake is a nice low calorie breakfast :cool:
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  • small town becksmall town beck Posts: 6,691
    South of Seattle wrote:
    Wake and Bake is a nice low calorie breakfast :cool:


    Which would likely lead me to a very HIGH calorie breakfast. :p

    I mean on holiday sure...
  • TransplantedNewfTransplantedNewf Posts: 805
    I'm a non smoker but there's nothing more appealing to me than a man that smells of whiskey and smoke. ;)
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  • HinnyHinny Posts: 1,610
    If she smokes, there better be a huge brilliant quality to balance it out, like an equal will to go tour with PJ
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  • know1know1 Posts: 6,794
    Nope.
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  • catefrancescatefrances Posts: 29,003
    NY PJ1 wrote:
    someone as good looking as myself who smokes

    any girl would be crazy to let it stop them ;)

    call me crazy then. ;):p:D cigarette smoke makes me puke.
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  • roarroar Posts: 1,116
    Hinny wrote:
    there better be a huge brilliant quality to balance it out

    i agree, there would have to be major redeeming qualities.

    that's a tough one.
  • CollinCollin Posts: 4,931
    Yes. I don't smoke cigarettes myself and never have (I have smoked reefer on the odd occasion :D), but I wouldn't mind. My father is a chain smoker, he only tried to stopped once and that was when my mother was pregnant with my brother. When she was pregnant with me, he didn't even try, just went outside to smoke. My mom smoked for a very very long time too. I grew up with smokers and I'm around smokers all the time.
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  • sigh eternallysigh eternally Posts: 421
    i just began a relationship with a girl who smokes. it doesn't bother me. i grew up in a family of smokers, i have friends who smoke, and i go to a lot of gigs where smoking is frequent. i can tolerate it. as long as you can handle it, it's all good (until you die from second hand smoke, of course. bu then again, i am a death monger).
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