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Nonsmokers, would you ever date a smoker?

libragirllibragirl Posts: 4,632
edited January 2013 in All Encompassing Trip
Kind of got inspired by the smoking thread...

to clarify..I'm referring to cigarettes, cigars or anyother tobacco you could smoke:)
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  • DissidentmanDissidentman Posts: 15,378
    I don't think I would
  • PaukPauk Posts: 1,084
    I wouldn't dismiss someone totally for being a smoker, but it would probably irritate me over time.
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  • AmentsChickAmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    Yup, I have and would again.
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  • dunkmandunkman Posts: 19,646
    only if they smoked after sex.. my wife smokes 20 a day
    oh scary... 40000 morbidly obese christians wearing fanny packs invading europe is probably the least scariest thing since I watched an edited version of The Care Bears movie in an extremely brightly lit cinema.
  • eyedclaareyedclaar Posts: 6,980
    Smoking what again? Crack? Almost certainly. Cigarettes? Never...
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  • Solat13Solat13 Posts: 6,996
    Most likely no. Unless she is the occasional - I'm hammered I want to have a cigarette because I'm drunk smoker.

    Worked too many years as a bartender in a smoky bar and had my clothes reeking of smoke every night to want to date someone who smokes.
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  • NY PJ1NY PJ1 Posts: 9,533
    someone as good looking as myself who smokes

    any girl would be crazy to let it stop them ;)
  • libragirllibragirl Posts: 4,632
    eyedclaar wrote:
    Smoking what again? Crack? Almost certainly. Cigarettes? Never...

    lol..sorry I wasn't specific...I edited my post. So you like crackheads? :p
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  • eyedclaareyedclaar Posts: 6,980
    libragirl wrote:
    lol..sorry I wasn't specific...I edited my post. So you like crackheads? :p

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  • EvilMerlinEvilMerlin Posts: 1,865
    NY PJ1 wrote:
    someone as good looking as myself who smokes

    any girl would be crazy to let it stop them ;)

    Just don't quit! The second you quit smoking, those good looks and that coolness go right out the window.

    Oh, and I would, second hand smoke doesn't really bother me at all. At bars I tend to hang out on the patio more than inside anyway.
  • mindimindi Posts: 1,862
    fowls wrote:
    I wouldn't dismiss someone totally for being a smoker, but it would probably irritate me over time.
    Yep.
    I get bad migraines from cigarette smoke so I think it would really bother me.
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  • libragirllibragirl Posts: 4,632
    eyedclaar wrote:
    Doesn't everyone?

    well everyone but me...I'm a maverick I guess.
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  • comebackwomancomebackwoman Posts: 7,271
    I'm the only one in my family who has never smoked...so I grew up with it and it never bothered me. My ex smoked when we met, but quit pretty soon after we got married and I finally realized what it was like not to have smoke all over my clothes and to be able to breathe easier. Now when I go to my parent's house I feel my chest getting tight and I hate smelling the smoke in my hair after I leave. Even when my mom mails me a card it reeks like smoke. I never knew the difference before...but at this stage I don't think I could.
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  • eyedclaareyedclaar Posts: 6,980
    libragirl wrote:
    well everyone but me...I'm a maverick I guess.

    Well they don't call it cracktastic for no reason.
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  • blackredyellowblackredyellow Posts: 5,889
    Doubt it... If I did, they would have to smoke outside and not smell the house up... even then, I think kissing them would make me gag.

    In my opinion there is no bigger turn off than seeing a hot chick smoking.
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  • RygarRygar Posts: 8,690
    Remember Chris - if she smokes, she pokes!
  • Phantom PainPhantom Pain Posts: 9,876
    Definitely not

    I grew up with smokers and can't stand the smell

    The occasional cigar I smoke is nothing like smoking cigarettes everyday
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  • markymark550markymark550 Columbia, SC Posts: 5,179
    As a former smoker, I don't think I could be in a relationship with someone who smokes. The temptation to start back up again would probably be too much.

    I will say that I'm very lucky that my wife even started to date me. She absolutely hated the fact that I smoked and almost didn't give me a chance because of that.
  • AmentsChickAmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    Phantom Pain wrote:
    Definitely not

    I grew up with smokers and can't stand the smell

    The occasional cigar I smoke is nothing like smoking cigarettes everyday

    I actually kind of like the smell of pipe tabacco. Reminds me of my uncle Joe.
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  • Jeremy1012Jeremy1012 Posts: 7,170
    Yes. Wouldn't really bother me, certainly not if I really liked them. As long as they had the courtesy to freshen up.
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  • libragirllibragirl Posts: 4,632
    eyedclaar wrote:
    Well they don't call it cracktastic for no reason.

    ha..ha...

    Although I would prefer a prospective partner to be a nonsmoker, it wouldn't stop me from dating a person if I really liked the. I have dated people who smoked. I didn't like it but usually they would freshen up for me.
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  • urbanhippieurbanhippie Posts: 3,007
    Smoking is way down on the list of things to consider for me if I was thinking of dating someone.
    I'd be far more concerned about what kind of person they are than anything like that.
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  • libragirllibragirl Posts: 4,632
    urbanhippie wrote:
    Smoking is way down on the list of things to consider for me if I was thinking of dating someone.
    I'd be far more concerned about what kind of person they are than anything like that.

    I have met people that I didn't even know smoked and had really liked them and I really didn't care at that point if they smoked. It's definitely not a deciding factor for me.
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  • ZanneZanne Posts: 899
    I'm a smoker, my boyfriend of 7+ years is not and never has been. I *try* to be as considerate as I can of this.. Never smoke in the house, try to move away from him outdoors if I light up.. but then again, I treat everyone that way, even fellow smokers. I want to have the least impact on others while continuing my nasty habit. The only place I feel compelled to smoke in a confined area is in my own car. If I am in someone else's car, of course I wait for a moment when I can jump out, take 2 puffs and be on the road again.

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    EDIT: Oddly enough, in my 42 years on earth, I've only had one boyfriend who was a smoker. =/ Maybe *I* don't like smokers???? LOL
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  • SpunkieSpunkie i come from downtown. Posts: 6,814
    Yes.
  • libragirllibragirl Posts: 4,632
    Zanne wrote:
    EDIT: Oddly enough, in my 42 years on earth, I've only had one boyfriend who was a smoker. =/ Maybe *I* don't like smokers???? LOL

    that is kind of odd :)
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  • haffajappahaffajappa British Columbia Posts: 5,955
    i think i'd be more inclined to date one now, than i would have been a couple years ago.
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  • patrickredeyespatrickredeyes Posts: 8,834
    I'm not a everyday smoker. But yes I would date a smoker. I would hope she would quit someday. But I'll still love her even if she doesn't. :)
  • SpunkieSpunkie i come from downtown. Posts: 6,814
    I stopped smoking a few years back. I love the way smokers taste.
  • Jeremy1012Jeremy1012 Posts: 7,170
    tish wrote:
    I stopped smoking a few years back. I love the way smokers taste.
    :D

    As weird as that sounds... I think the last 2 or 3 girls I kissed are smokers. So clearly the "taste" isn't repulsive

    Or maybe I have low standards.
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