The PRoblem of Feminism & A Problematic Feminist

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  • NMyTree
    NMyTree Posts: 2,374
    Here's what I suggest you read: "Egalia's Daughters" by Berg Bratenbergg. It's about a matriarchal society where men groom their beards and take the baby to his wife's office to be breastfed (while she works). Where women in offices get to playfully slap the little laddie secretaries' butts. It's an old book, and it was published in Seattle.


    What, not even a chuckle or giggle at my parody?

    Tough crowd:D
  • Oh, that's what I hate about some feminists. I have a friend, and he's dating this wpman who already has a kid. HIs mom (incidentally my professor and is one of the movers of feminism in our local literature) doesn't like her, because she had an "accident" that made her pregnant. Aren't we women supposed to work together, despite the mistakes we've made in the past?


    That would be nice. If we could all be sisters. But then all we're doing anyway is fighting over men, so how can we be sisters?

    Kidding aside, women are their own worst enemy.

    I think of my grandmother, made to marry at 16. She never had any say over anything and saw life as babies and drudgery. I have all these choices. Lucky me.
  • El_Kabong
    El_Kabong Posts: 4,141
    d. There is a common misconception of feminism, that it is a mass of raging females with short hair wearing flannel trying to strike a mass takeover. Feminism and the feminist movement has always been about equality. Even today men with the same qualifications as women make more, women have to work twice as hard and twice as long to make as much of an impact. It's all about equal rights, and with every movement there are always going to be individuals that will set you back a few steps along the road.


    manhattan is an island
    like the women who are
    surrounded by children in a car
    surrounded by cars
    or manhattan was a project
    that projected the worst of mankind
    first one and then the other
    has made its mark on my mind

    it's sixty years later
    near the hypo-center of the a-bomb
    i'm in the middle of hiroshima
    watching a twisted old eucalyptus tree wave
    one of the very few lives that survived and lives on
    remembering the day it was suddenly
    thousands of degrees in the shade
    and what all of nature gave birth to
    terror took in a blinding ray
    with the kind of pain
    it would take cancer so many years just to say

    oh to grow up gagged and blindfolded
    a man's world in your little girl's head
    the voice of the great mother drowned out
    in the constant honking
    haunting the car crash up ahead
    oh to grow up hypnotized
    and try to shake yourself awake
    cuz you can sense what has been lost
    cuz you can sense what is at stake

    yeah, so
    it took me a few years to catch on
    that those days i catch everyone's eye
    correspond with those nights of the month
    when the moon gleams like an egg in the sky
    and men are using a sense
    they don't even know they have
    just to watch me walk by
    and me, i'm supposed to be sensible
    leave my animal outside to cry

    but when all of nature conspires
    to make me her glorious whore
    it's cuz in my body i hold the secret recipe
    of precisely what life is for
    and the patriarchy that looks to shame me for it
    is the same one making war
    and i've said too much already
    but i'll tell you something more

    to split yourself in two
    is just the most radical thing you can do
    so girl if that shit ain't up to you
    then you simply are not free
    cuz from the sunlight on my hair
    to which eggs i grow to term
    to the expression that i wear
    all i really own is me
    yes to split yourself in two
    is just the most radical thing you can do
    goddess forbid that little adam
    should grow so jealous of eve
    and in the face of the great farce
    of the nuclear age
    feminism ain't about equality
    it's about reprieve
    standin above the crowd
    he had a voice that was strong and loud and
    i swallowed his facade cos i'm so
    eager to identify with
    someone above the crowd
    someone who seemed to feel the same
    someone prepared to lead the way
  • El_Kabong wrote:
    manhattan is an island
    like the women who are
    surrounded by children in a car
    surrounded by cars
    or manhattan was a project
    that projected the worst of mankind
    first one and then the other
    has made its mark on my mind

    it's sixty years later
    near the hypo-center of the a-bomb
    i'm in the middle of hiroshima
    watching a twisted old eucalyptus tree wave
    one of the very few lives that survived and lives on
    remembering the day it was suddenly
    thousands of degrees in the shade
    and what all of nature gave birth to
    terror took in a blinding ray
    with the kind of pain
    it would take cancer so many years just to say

    oh to grow up gagged and blindfolded
    a man's world in your little girl's head
    the voice of the great mother drowned out
    in the constant honking
    haunting the car crash up ahead
    oh to grow up hypnotized
    and try to shake yourself awake
    cuz you can sense what has been lost
    cuz you can sense what is at stake

    yeah, so
    it took me a few years to catch on
    that those days i catch everyone's eye
    correspond with those nights of the month
    when the moon gleams like an egg in the sky
    and men are using a sense
    they don't even know they have
    just to watch me walk by
    and me, i'm supposed to be sensible
    leave my animal outside to cry

    but when all of nature conspires
    to make me her glorious whore
    it's cuz in my body i hold the secret recipe
    of precisely what life is for
    and the patriarchy that looks to shame me for it
    is the same one making war
    and i've said too much already
    but i'll tell you something more

    to split yourself in two
    is just the most radical thing you can do
    so girl if that shit ain't up to you
    then you simply are not free
    cuz from the sunlight on my hair
    to which eggs i grow to term
    to the expression that i wear
    all i really own is me
    yes to split yourself in two
    is just the most radical thing you can do
    goddess forbid that little adam
    should grow so jealous of eve
    and in the face of the great farce
    of the nuclear age
    feminism ain't about equality
    it's about reprieve

    Grandma had 10 babies by the time she was 30. Her reprieve came when the oldest was big enough to keep grandpa away from her. No more babies.
  • hippiemom
    hippiemom Posts: 3,326
    El_Kabong wrote:
    manhattan is an island
    like the women who are
    surrounded by children in a car
    surrounded by cars
    or manhattan was a project
    that projected the worst of mankind
    first one and then the other
    has made its mark on my mind

    it's sixty years later
    near the hypo-center of the a-bomb
    i'm in the middle of hiroshima
    watching a twisted old eucalyptus tree wave
    one of the very few lives that survived and lives on
    remembering the day it was suddenly
    thousands of degrees in the shade
    and what all of nature gave birth to
    terror took in a blinding ray
    with the kind of pain
    it would take cancer so many years just to say

    oh to grow up gagged and blindfolded
    a man's world in your little girl's head
    the voice of the great mother drowned out
    in the constant honking
    haunting the car crash up ahead
    oh to grow up hypnotized
    and try to shake yourself awake
    cuz you can sense what has been lost
    cuz you can sense what is at stake

    yeah, so
    it took me a few years to catch on
    that those days i catch everyone's eye
    correspond with those nights of the month
    when the moon gleams like an egg in the sky
    and men are using a sense
    they don't even know they have
    just to watch me walk by
    and me, i'm supposed to be sensible
    leave my animal outside to cry

    but when all of nature conspires
    to make me her glorious whore
    it's cuz in my body i hold the secret recipe
    of precisely what life is for
    and the patriarchy that looks to shame me for it
    is the same one making war
    and i've said too much already
    but i'll tell you something more

    to split yourself in two
    is just the most radical thing you can do
    so girl if that shit ain't up to you
    then you simply are not free
    cuz from the sunlight on my hair
    to which eggs i grow to term
    to the expression that i wear
    all i really own is me
    yes to split yourself in two
    is just the most radical thing you can do
    goddess forbid that little adam
    should grow so jealous of eve
    and in the face of the great farce
    of the nuclear age
    feminism ain't about equality
    it's about reprieve

    Thanks Kabong :) That's possibly my favorite of all the things she's written.
    "Nothing in the world is more dangerous than sincere ignorance and conscientious stupidity." ~ MLK, 1963
  • NMyTree wrote:
    What, not even a chuckle or giggle at my parody?

    Tough crowd:D

    I did not feel the need to giggle...i felt the need to run and hide for a world filled with dominant women;)

    lets just hope that no one in that story of yours (considering it wil be 3010)is thinking of dna and the posibility of gendercontrol...before birth....that would change your story even more dramaticly:)....turning it in a complete horror movie!!!lol
    but as far as feminism goes ,i think that women saying they want control over men are doing the same thing as what they are complaining about..repressing some one else!I think men and women are different in a lot of things and that is a good thing;),but i do not see why they should have differt numbers on their paycheck for the same job.so what does that make me....semi feminist? i don't know....
  • VictoryGin
    VictoryGin Posts: 1,207
    That would be nice. If we could all be sisters. But then all we're doing anyway is fighting over men, so how can we be sisters?

    Kidding aside, women are their own worst enemy.

    I think of my grandmother, made to marry at 16. She never had any say over anything and saw life as babies and drudgery. I have all these choices. Lucky me.

    No offense, but plenty of women do act as sisters. Maybe you should join them instead of buying into the whole 'play women off each other' thing.

    And you have 'all these choices' because women fought for them for you. So maybe don't villify them.
    if you wanna be a friend of mine
    cross the river to the eastside
  • Many bi women will testify that feminism has its fair share of bigots.
    A restaurant with a smoking section is like a swimming pool with a pissing section
  • VictoryGin
    VictoryGin Posts: 1,207
    Many bi women will testify that feminism has its fair share of bigots.

    Wait. Which way do you mean this?

    Thanks :)
    if you wanna be a friend of mine
    cross the river to the eastside
  • VictoryGin wrote:
    Wait. Which way do you mean this?

    Thanks :)

    One of the many faces of bi phobia. Along with heterophobia and homophobia, bi's also suffer from outright bi-phobia. One of its guises is in the fact that according to a minority of monosexuals (straights and gays) you can't help being straight (if the bigot is gay) or gay (if the bigot is straight). But bi people have a choice and choose to be attracted to the "wrong" sex (this is bollocks since you don't choose your sexuality). Many gay feminists (or bi feminists who convince themselves they're gay) see straight and bi women as traitors, but especially bi women as they're more traitors since they have the "choice".
    A restaurant with a smoking section is like a swimming pool with a pissing section
  • a... definitely a
  • ryan198
    ryan198 Posts: 1,015
    Some of you people's conceptions of feminism are funny. Firstly there is no one feminism, there exists considerable disagreement within the feminist community of what exactly feminism is and/or should entail. I myself am attracted to Joanna Zylinska's model of feminism which questions whether or not there are actually just male/female, straight/gay, etc. binaries. However, this should not preclude what most feminism is based on and that is positive social change for women preferable under the auspices of women.
  • FinsburyParkCarrots
    FinsburyParkCarrots Seattle, WA Posts: 12,223
    ryan198 wrote:
    Some of you people's conceptions of feminism are funny. Firstly there is no one feminism, there exists considerable disagreement within the feminist community of what exactly feminism is and/or should entail. I myself am attracted to Joanna Zylinska's model of feminism which questions whether or not there are actually just male/female, straight/gay, etc. binaries. However, this should not preclude what most feminism is based on and that is positive social change for women preferable under the auspices of women.

    I'm sure you're familar with Julia Kristeva, too. I'd give her credit for formulating the first, major post-structuralist approach to language and gender.
  • surferdude
    surferdude Posts: 2,057
    ryan198 wrote:
    However, this should not preclude what most feminism is based on and that is positive social change for women preferable under the auspices of women.
    What I like about this is that it out right acknlowedges that most feminism is not based on any idea of equality. Meet the new boss, same as the old boss.
    “One good thing about music,
    when it hits you, you feel to pain.
    So brutalize me with music.”
    ~ Bob Marley
  • ryan198
    ryan198 Posts: 1,015
    I'm sure you're familar with Julia Kristeva, too. I'd give her credit for formulating the first, major post-structuralist approach to language and gender.
    Familiar with, but not having read I cannot be a proponent for or against her. You would place her before Foucault and Derrida though? Or are you talking about straight up in your face discussions of gender?
  • VictoryGin
    VictoryGin Posts: 1,207
    One of the many faces of bi phobia. Along with heterophobia and homophobia, bi's also suffer from outright bi-phobia. One of its guises is in the fact that according to a minority of monosexuals (straights and gays) you can't help being straight (if the bigot is gay) or gay (if the bigot is straight). But bi people have a choice and choose to be attracted to the "wrong" sex (this is bollocks since you don't choose your sexuality). Many gay feminists (or bi feminists who convince themselves they're gay) see straight and bi women as traitors, but especially bi women as they're more traitors since they have the "choice".

    Ah, thanks for the explanation.
    if you wanna be a friend of mine
    cross the river to the eastside
  • FinsburyParkCarrots
    FinsburyParkCarrots Seattle, WA Posts: 12,223
    ryan198 wrote:
    Familiar with, but not having read I cannot be a proponent for or against her. You would place her before Foucault and Derrida though? Or are you talking about straight up in your face discussions of gender?

    She was very influenced by Derrida, and Lacan. She was at the vanguard of the post-structuralism, and formulated a psychoanalytic approach to linguistic signification. She argued that in the pre-linguistic stages of language acquisition, a child communicates with their mother through sound and through physicality. She argued also, that the first intervention of the father in the child's psychological development, what Freud called the oedipal stage, arrives at the same time as the beginning of learning language as words or symbols/tokens for thoughts. Spoken or written language, Kristeva proposed, is male, and phallocentric. A child loses their pre-genderedness in learning language, and is assimilated into the "symbolic order" (where words are phallic symbols of male power). Kristeva argued that, by exploring emotive vowel sounds, fluid syntax, wordplay and any stream of consciousness that breaks down traditional male, linguistic constructions of reality, a writer could subvert language from within and disrupt the symbolic order, re-discovering their pregendered voice.

    Anglo-American, materialist feminists often argue that that's just a load of pretentious guff, that pleases the post-structuralists in male-dominated academies. But Kristeva's ways of looking at semiotic interventions in language provide interesting ideas for reading, say, Woolf's Mrs Dalloway, or The Waves, as novels or even prose poems, that work against previous conventions of realism.
  • ryan198
    ryan198 Posts: 1,015
    She was very influenced by Derrida, and Lacan. She was at the vanguard of the post-structuralism, and formulated a psychoanalytic approach to linguistic signification. She argued that in the pre-linguistic stages of language acquisition, a child communicates with their mother through sound and through physicality. She argued also, that the first intervention of the father in the child's psychological development, what Freud called the oedipal stage, arrives at the same time as the beginning of learning language as words or symbols/tokens for thoughts. Spoken or written language, Kristeva proposed, is male, and phallocentric. A child loses their pre-genderedness in learning language, and is assimilated into the "symbolic order" (where words are phallic symbols of male power). Kristeva argued that, by exploring emotive vowel sounds, fluid syntax, wordplay and any stream of consciousness that breaks down traditional male, linguistic constructions of reality, a writer could subvert language from within and disrupt the symbolic order, re-discovering their pregendered voice.

    Anglo-American, materialist feminists often argue that that's just a load of pretentious guff, that pleases the post-structuralists in male-dominated academies. But Kristeva's ways of looking at semiotic interventions in language provide interesting ideas for reading, say, Woolf's Mrs Dalloway, or The Waves, as novels or even prose poems, that work against previous conventions of realism.
    Well I must say that I am all for tearing apart any pretense at realism or objectivity, so I'll bet that I'd find her at least somewhat useful. Isn't semiotics a somewhat dated philosiphical theory in that we all use forms of semiotics everyday? This isn't to say that it's not useful, but just reading the text doesn't necessarily get at the production (values) in and around the text(s).
  • FinsburyParkCarrots
    FinsburyParkCarrots Seattle, WA Posts: 12,223
    ryan198 wrote:
    Well I must say that I am all for tearing apart any pretense at realism or objectivity, so I'll bet that I'd find her at least somewhat useful. Isn't semiotics a somewhat dated philosiphical theory in that we all use forms of semiotics everyday? This isn't to say that it's not useful, but just reading the text doesn't necessarily get at the production (values) in and around the text(s).

    Kristevan semiotics is a very different concept, from conventional semiotics (the study of signs, that goes back to Saussure and is common in structuralism). "Semiotic", in Kristevan terminology, means pre-oedipal, pre-linguistic signification.
  • ryan198
    ryan198 Posts: 1,015
    well I'll actually have to do some reading on this, but does this pre-xxx form of semiotics get into the modes of pre-xxx production? In other words does she consider the relative levels of (under)privilege that the baby experiences in the womb?