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patrickredeyes

It's true what they say. When your young your folks take care of you. And as your folks get older you take care of them.

justam

patrickredeyes wrote:

It's true what they say. When your young your folks take care of you. And as your folks get older you take care of them.

Yes, and if you're a certain age, you are "The Sandwich" generation between your parents (who need care) and your teenagers who are not yet out of the house and still need care!!

My mom is getting frailer and so I'm almost in the deli.

PearlOfAGirl

I need a big hug...

justam

HeartShapedBox wrote:

I need a big hug...

Aww, hugs are free! {{HSB}}

How is your transition going? Is your divorce final? Have you moved into your own place?

I think big change is always stressful even if it's the right thing to do. It's natural.

I'm getting MY house ready to sell and it's stressing me out (!) even though I want to do it and we need to do it to buy our new house! :? :geek:

CHANGEinWAVES

I wish it would rain.

justam

It's raining here this morning. I'll be driving to Buffalo in it and I'm so glad it's not SNOW!!

Rain at least has the quality of sounding good on the windshield.

megatron

i hope the clouds break

CHANGEinWAVES

Perfect day...sleep and rain...and a little thunderstorm.


Now time to clean a bit.

PearlOfAGirl

justam wrote:

HeartShapedBox wrote:

I need a big hug...

Aww, hugs are free! {{HSB}}

How is your transition going? Is your divorce final? Have you moved into your own place?

I think big change is always stressful even if it's the right thing to do. It's natural.

I'm getting MY house ready to sell and it's stressing me out (!) even though I want to do it and we need to do it to buy our new house! :? :geek:

Thanks for the hugs... Nothing can happen until we get the paperwork filled out, which is only two pages, but he's all of a sudden not cooperating with me here...

Good luck on selling your house, I hope you get a really good deal on that...

I would just like to know why everything has to be so damn difficult????

((((((((((((((((((((( hugs ))))))))))))))))))))))))))

CHANGEinWAVES

living in solitary confinement .... on death row.

illegal pants

middle ground please

justam

HeartShapedBox wrote:

Thanks for the hugs... Nothing can happen until we get the paperwork filled out, which is only two pages, but he's all of a sudden not cooperating with me here...

Good luck on selling your house, I hope you get a really good deal on that...

I would just like to know why everything has to be so damn difficult????

((((((((((((((((((((( hugs ))))))))))))))))))))))))))

Thanks.

I think difficulty is the engine behind change sometimes. Not that life should be hard all the time (that can be stifling because there's no room to change when one is overwhelmed!) but I think that when it comes in phases it forces us to do more than we thought we could.

Sometimes we need to push back against adversity to realize how strong we are.
And, I think that it's the fantasy of inexperienced folk that leans on the idea that lives WON'T have big challenges sometimes.

Me, I'm impressed with how quickly you started your divorce proceedings! It seems like you have moved on it very quickly. I think you can feel proud of yourself for following through on what you wanted to do. :geek:

CHANGEinWAVES

Not looking forward to this teeth cleaning.

megatron

CHANGEinWAVES wrote:

living in solitary confinement .... on death row.

uh oh

CHANGEinWAVES

The ice cream truck still excites me...

justam

I keep getting rid of stuff for the move and yet I still feel burdened by all these possessions that are left!! :shock:

mfc2006

i actually enjoy doing yardwork. it's relaxing.

CHANGEinWAVES

Some days.

justam

Time for a sigh. *sigh*

CHANGEinWAVES

* slaps self in face*
Wake up! Wake up! Wake up!!!