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mikalina

Beach wrote:

Please God give me strength..

Strength.... I need some myself, right about now.

runaway

Beach wrote:

Please God give me strength..

Please give me strength too, I can't do this on my own...I need help
Thank you PJ Family for your words...xo

CHANGEinWAVES

this book says everything I've been feeling...

StillHere

runaway wrote:

Beach wrote:

Please God give me strength..

Please give me strength too, I can't do this on my own...I need help
Thank you PJ Family for your words...xo

whats wrong?
if you can talk about it a little bit
maybe it will help.
only if you want to that is.
both of you
i mean it
i'm a good listener
and you know, sometimes i even have
some good advice

chadwick

CHANGEinWAVES wrote:

this book says everything I've been feeling...

thank you.
my poetry does that.

StillHere

chadwick wrote:

CHANGEinWAVES wrote:

this book says everything I've been feeling...

thank you.
my poetry does that.

justam

It's fun having my sister and brother-in-law in town. They tend to laugh a lot.

supersonicyears

Saw dolphins swimming in the intracoastal today. Haven't seen that in years.

prism

hmm....is 32 too young? :?

supersonicyears

Please see it from my side. What I was in. The abuse.
Don't stand there. Say something.

runaway

prism wrote:

hmm....is 32 too young? :?

36 lost a man, no kids...32...you're fortunate

prism

not sure who you were addressing...but that's okay.

i survived an abusive relationship w/ my kids dad. left him, i took my kids with just our clothes, a few baby items and toys, and got on a ferry & buses to cross the canadian border back to the u.s.; to a city and state where i didn't know a soul....that was 21 yrs ago.

we stayed at the shelter here for a couple weeks, went back for a yr & a half for counseling, then i voluteered there for almost 3 yrs...so there's a few things i know...

ppl should always speak up. not just if they've been, but anyone that's witness to it. the abused person can sometimes be in some heavy denial, so call and report it to the cops. if you not positive that physical abuse took place...call them anyway and let the cops figure it out if there's any sign of it... even if the victim is unwilling to cooperate, by saying nothing happened, by law cops have to make an arrest if there's a sign.

many still go back to their abuser, but that doesn't mean everyone else has to turn a blind eye also...every county has shelter(s), volunteers, advocates and other resources for DV help. there's times when others speaking up is the only way the abused person will get the required help in order to become and stay safe.

pm me if you need or want to

prism

runaway wrote:

prism wrote:

hmm....is 32 too young? :?

36 lost a man, no kids...32...you're fortunate

you must've misunderstood my meaning. i was just wondering if 32 is too young a man for me? i'm 46

my kids are old enough (early 20's) to think that no man is ever good enough to come near their mommy... hahaha

runaway

prism wrote:

runaway wrote:

prism wrote:

hmm....is 32 too young? :?

36 lost a man, no kids...32...you're fortunate

you must've misunderstood my meaning. i was just wondering if 32 is too young a man for me? i'm 46

my kids are old enough (early 20's) to think that no man is ever good enough to come near their mommy... hahaha

No, I'm thinking about becoming a "cougar" myself....I am too old for men my age and I don't want someone my dad's age...haha

prism

runaway wrote:

prism wrote:

runaway wrote:

36 lost a man, no kids...32...you're fortunate

you must've misunderstood my meaning. i was just wondering if 32 is too young a man for me? i'm 46

my kids are old enough (early 20's) to think that no man is ever good enough to come near their mommy... hahaha

No, I'm thinking about becoming a "cougar" myself....I am too old for men my age and I don't want someone my dad's age...haha

maybe become a baby cougar?

though by the point of around mid-20's how mature or responsible a person is has lil to nothing to do with age...goes for both men and women

runaway

sweet pic...do you think 36 is too young???

prism

runaway wrote:

sweet pic...do you think 36 is too young???

i dunno...actually i don't much see the reason for labels

i do know that my uncle was 24 when he married my aunt in 1950....she was 36...she also outlived him by 9 years. they had 4 daughters....my cousins have been known to refer to their mom as 'the original cougar'

runaway

prism wrote:

runaway wrote:

sweet pic...do you think 36 is too young???

i dunno...actually i don't much see the reason for labels

i do know that my uncle was 24 when he married my aunt in 1950....she was 36...she also outlived him by 9 years. they had 4 daughters....my cousins have been known to refer to their mom as 'the original cougar'

haha...that gives me hope

StillHere

prism wrote:

runaway wrote:

prism wrote:

hmm....is 32 too young? :?

36 lost a man, no kids...32...you're fortunate

you must've misunderstood my meaning. i was just wondering if 32 is too young a man for me? i'm 46

my kids are old enough (early 20's) to think that no man is ever good enough to come near their mommy... hahaha

that depends on the man
is he "mature" enough to deal with a lady like yourself
but still fun enough to do all the things you want to do?
if so
go for it
good luck!

mikalina

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