I wanted to share how much the bands music means to me and I don't know how.

Given2fly98Given2fly98 Raleigh, NC Posts: 36
I can't.  I started typing and then erased it. I cannot express it in words, I don't know how. I am a grown man, been a fan since I was 10. This is ridiculous. 

Some may say I am not as big a fan as those that have seen them live 5, 10, 50 times because I have never seen them live, but I am. I have not been loyal to the 10c. In fact the first time I ever joined was a few years ago when my wife surprised me with a year subscription and got me a shirt and a bunch of stickers. 

Something told me to reup my subscription this past September, I don't know what or why, but I did. I am so glad I did. I was able to get tickets through the 10c for the upcoming Raleigh, NC show and this will be my first time to ever see them live and I cannot put in words how excited I am. I am going to share this experience with my Wife and again on the second night with my Wife and my Son. The seats are not the greatest but I really don't care. I don't know if I believe in fate or not but whatever got me to this point I'm grateful. 

I used to be able to articulate feelings and emotions in words better when I was younger, I guess I'm just getting old or something, idk. I hope I don't get emotional at the show, because I basically did writing this.  I want to just delete this post but fuck it, I'm going to send it.
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  • CROJAM95CROJAM95 Posts: 9,981
    All good

    emote my friend….. we all here for love of their music
  • Given2fly98Given2fly98 Raleigh, NC Posts: 36
    CROJAM95 said:
    All good

    emote my friend….. we all here for love of their music
    I appreciate it. I just felt like I should leave my small mark on these forums.
  • Go AnimalGo Animal Posts: 6,175
    edited December 2024
    Give us your setlists, man. If you could write one, or both, what would you throw on? Make it 24-26 songs ea. Share away!
    Post edited by Go Animal on
    PJ - 09/23/98: West Palm Beach II, 08/12/00: Tampa, 04/12/03: Orlando, 04/13/03: Tampa, 06/12/08: Tampa, 06/27/08: Hartford, 09/22/09: Seattle II, 04/11/16: Tampa, 05/01 & 05/02/16: MSG I & II, 09/18/21: Sea Hear Now, 10/01 & 10/02/21: Ohana Encore I & II, 05/06 & 05/07/22: Los Angeles I & II, 09/11/22: MSG, 09/16/22: Nashville, 09/02/23: St. Paul II, 09/07/23: Chicago II, 09/18 & 09/19/23: Austin I & II, 05/16 & 05/18/24: Las Vegas I & II, 08/29 & 08/31/24: Wrigley Field I & II, 09/03 & 09/04/24: MSG I & II, 09/27 & 09/29/24: Ohana Festival I & II

    EV - 08/04 & 08/05/08: (Eddie solo, w/Liam Finn) NYC I & II, 11/27 & 11/28/12: (Eddie solo, w/Glen Hansard) Orlando I & II, 02/09 & 02/10/22: (Eddie & the Earthlings) Chicago I & II, 09/30/23: (Eddie & the Earthlings) Ohana Festival

    Song Wishlist: Oceans, Brother, Alone, Let Me Sleep, full W.M.A., Hold On, Bugs/all of Vitalogy, Gremmie Out Of Control (BAM!), Mankind, Around The Bend (full band), Whale Song (DOUBLE BAM!), The Long Road, Don't Gimme No Lip, Pilate, Push Me Pull Me, All Those Yesterdays, Rival, Parting Ways, Ghost, Bu$hleaguer, WWS, Parachutes, Army Reserve, low octave Driftin', Strangest Tribe, Other Side, Undone, Fatal, Hitchhiker, Education, Black Red Yellow, Of the Earth, Love Reign O'er Me, Gonna See My Friend, Amongst the Waves, Santa Cruz, Infallible, Yellow Moon, Alright, Comes Then Goes, Got to Give, and the Mamasan Trilogy.

    Wanted Posters: WPB '98, Tampa/WPB '00, Tampa '03, EV Batmobile '08        ISO: any picks, or setlists from any of my shows!
  • pjl44pjl44 Posts: 9,837
    CROJAM95 said:
    All good

    emote my friend….. we all here for love of their music
    I appreciate it. I just felt like I should leave my small mark on these forums.
    That's why they're here!
  • MikeDigsMikeDigs Santa Monica, CA Posts: 1,680
    You are not alone in these feelings, as I'm sure others have similar thoughts about this truly amazing band.  I've been a fan since VS hooked me in 93, and when I was at the LA shows this year, seeing them perform Go, Leash, Daughter, and RVM, it really hit me.  It's 2024, and that same band that I loved when I was 11 years old, is still rocking and performing these amazing songs that I cherish, while I'm now in my 40s. 

    In addition to that, Dark Matter came out of the blue, and is a stellar album, in a collection that already includes several stellar albums. I have not had this same experience with other bands.  I am very grateful, and even though we pay for the music and concerts, it feels to me that the value Pearl Jam has given is greater than the money that we spent.
    I'm spinning, oh-oh-oh I'm spinning
  • julieooliernjulieooliern WA Posts: 221
    edited December 2024
    I can't.  I started typing and then erased it. I cannot express it in words, I don't know how. I am a grown man, been a fan since I was 10. This is ridiculous. 

    Some may say I am not as big a fan as those that have seen them live 5, 10, 50 times because I have never seen them live, but I am. I have not been loyal to the 10c. In fact the first time I ever joined was a few years ago when my wife surprised me with a year subscription and got me a shirt and a bunch of stickers. 

    Something told me to reup my subscription this past September, I don't know what or why, but I did. I am so glad I did. I was able to get tickets through the 10c for the upcoming Raleigh, NC show and this will be my first time to ever see them live and I cannot put in words how excited I am. I am going to share this experience with my Wife and again on the second night with my Wife and my Son. The seats are not the greatest but I really don't care. I don't know if I believe in fate or not but whatever got me to this point I'm grateful. 

    I used to be able to articulate feelings and emotions in words better when I was younger, I guess I'm just getting old or something, idk. I hope I don't get emotional at the show, because I basically did writing this.  I want to just delete this post but fuck it, I'm going to send it.
    Welcome to 10c. We all love PJ as much as you do and we’re happy YOU are here with us!! 
    you are going to absolutely FALL HARD for PJ live! They are so fuckin amazing live, all the feels and all the 90s angst rolled into one amazing band. Have a fantastic first (of many to come!) show!!! 🤘🤘💜

  • I have been a fan from the start and been to many shows, never thought it made me a bigger fan than someone who loves the band but has never seen them, just more fortunate.

    Just be prepared for an addiction once you have been to your first show 😀
  • F Me In The BrainF Me In The Brain this knows everybody from other commets Posts: 31,499
    edited December 2024
    Awesome.
    You are going to have so much fun, that is great.
    Nobody is a bigger fan of the band or music just because they have seen them live more than someone else - it is music and for the individual to do with as they wish.
    Viewing together is bumping into a lot of other people who are passionate about the band, and that is all sorts of fun.  You will no doubt become one of those fans that rejoice in the opportunity to see them play live again and again!
    The love he receives is the love that is saved
  • cblock4lifecblock4life Posts: 1,747
    I can't.  I started typing and then erased it. I cannot express it in words, I don't know how. I am a grown man, been a fan since I was 10. This is ridiculous. 

    Some may say I am not as big a fan as those that have seen them live 5, 10, 50 times because I have never seen them live, but I am. I have not been loyal to the 10c. In fact the first time I ever joined was a few years ago when my wife surprised me with a year subscription and got me a shirt and a bunch of stickers. 

    Something told me to reup my subscription this past September, I don't know what or why, but I did. I am so glad I did. I was able to get tickets through the 10c for the upcoming Raleigh, NC show and this will be my first time to ever see them live and I cannot put in words how excited I am. I am going to share this experience with my Wife and again on the second night with my Wife and my Son. The seats are not the greatest but I really don't care. I don't know if I believe in fate or not but whatever got me to this point I'm grateful. 

    I used to be able to articulate feelings and emotions in words better when I was younger, I guess I'm just getting old or something, idk. I hope I don't get emotional at the show, because I basically did writing this.  I want to just delete this post but fuck it, I'm going to send it.
    I cry/get emotional every time I hear them.  It doesn’t matter if you’ve never seen them or how many times, music was meant to convey feelings.  How many songs have you loved but never saw the artist(s) live?  

    Get emotional at the show! Who doesn’t??? It will be an experience that you will never forget and it will give you a sense of calm and that all will be fine.  

    Don’t forget to get back to us…..would love to hear your thoughts after you attend.  



  • LoujoeLoujoe Posts: 10,004
    edited December 2024
    ❤️ 
    You articulated yourself well. Thanks for posting.. It's nice to have some more company here.
    Post edited by Loujoe on
  • 2-feign-reluctance2-feign-reluctance TigerTown, USA Posts: 23,343
    edited December 2024
    PJ: Teaching men to feel their feelings since 1990
    www.cluthelee.com
  • LoujoeLoujoe Posts: 10,004
    edited December 2024
    Lol^^
    What bring the waterworks? (Asking for a friend)

    Me:
    Hard to Imagine
    Fatal
    Release 
    Inside Job
    Post edited by Loujoe on
  • Shaindli1Shaindli1 MA Posts: 575
    I am also trying very hard to articulate what this band means to me, especially nowadays, when I'm not doing well in general.
    It's not easy to do.
  • I guarantee you’d be a lot more fun to talk about and experience a show with than someone who’s since them dozens of times. Emote and rock the fuck out!  And definitely provide a recap for us to live vicariously through you. 
    Virginia Beach 2000; Pittsburgh 2000; Columbus 2003; D.C. 2003; Pittsburgh 2006; Virginia Beach 2008; Cleveland 2010; PJ20 2011; Pittsburgh 2013; Baltimore 2013; Charlottesville 2013; Charlotte 2013; Lincoln 2014; Moline 2014; St. Paul 2014; Greenville 2016; Hampton 2016; Lexington 2016; Wrigley 2016; Prague 2018; Krakow 2018; Berlin 2018; Fenway 2018; Camden 2022; St. Paul 2023; MSG 1 2024; Baltimore 2024
  • Merkin BallerMerkin Baller Posts: 11,712
    edited December 2024
    I can't.  I started typing and then erased it. I cannot express it in words, I don't know how. I am a grown man, been a fan since I was 10. This is ridiculous. 

    Some may say I am not as big a fan as those that have seen them live 5, 10, 50 times because I have never seen them live, but I am. I have not been loyal to the 10c. In fact the first time I ever joined was a few years ago when my wife surprised me with a year subscription and got me a shirt and a bunch of stickers. 

    Something told me to reup my subscription this past September, I don't know what or why, but I did. I am so glad I did. I was able to get tickets through the 10c for the upcoming Raleigh, NC show and this will be my first time to ever see them live and I cannot put in words how excited I am. I am going to share this experience with my Wife and again on the second night with my Wife and my Son. The seats are not the greatest but I really don't care. I don't know if I believe in fate or not but whatever got me to this point I'm grateful. 

    I used to be able to articulate feelings and emotions in words better when I was younger, I guess I'm just getting old or something, idk. I hope I don't get emotional at the show, because I basically did writing this.  I want to just delete this post but fuck it, I'm going to send it.
    Awesome... welcome back, and congrats on scoring the tickets. 

    RE: expressing in words how much they mean to you.... it's not uncommon for me to tear up hearing Long Road, or Off He Goes, or a few others when played live... I get it. It's a wonderful thing. 

    Have a blast in Raleigh but be warned... you're going to want more.   :) 
  • darthvedderdarthvedder Posts: 2,595
    Loujoe said:
    Lol^^
    What bring the waterworks? (Asking for a friend)

    Me:
    Hard to Imagine
    Fatal
    Release 
    Inside Job

    Light Years
    Footsteps
  • YAKIMATSUYAKIMATSU Santa Fe Posts: 941
    Long Road into Release to open PHX '13. I had people looking and pointing at me.  Sometimes emotions are overwhelming. 
    Soldier Field 7-11-95, Alpine Valley 6-26-98, United Center 6-29-98, Riverport Amphitheater (St. Louis)7-2-98, MGM Grand Arena 10-22-00, Sprint Center (Kansas City)5-3-10, Adams Event Center (Missoula)9-30-12, Wrigley Field 7-19-13, Jobing.com Arena (Phoenix)11-19-13, Moda Center (Portland)11-29-13, Spokane Arena 11-30-13, Pepsi Center (Denver)10-22-14, Gila River Arena (Phoenix)5-9-22, Moody Center (Austin)9-18-23, Moody Center 9-19-23, Rogers Arena (Vancouver)5-4-24, Rogers Arena 5-6-24, MGM Grand 5-16-24, MGM Grand 5-18-24, Wrigley Field 8-29-24, Wrigley Field 8-31-24
  • cblock4lifecblock4life Posts: 1,747
    PJ: Teaching men to feel their feelings since 1990
    This should be a T-shirt…..hurry up before someone steals it!  
  • cblock4lifecblock4life Posts: 1,747
    I guarantee you’d be a lot more fun to talk about and experience a show with than someone who’s since them dozens of times. Emote and rock the fuck out!  And definitely provide a recap for us to live vicariously through you. 
    This…..I love watching first timers.  Their emotion is raw and authentic.  
  • cblock4lifecblock4life Posts: 1,747
    Shaindli1 said:
    I am also trying very hard to articulate what this band means to me, especially nowadays, when I'm not doing well in general.
    It's not easy to do.
    I wish you peace and a favorable conclusion to whatever is going on, what you’re going through.  When I’m not doing great their sad songs always hit a nerve in some way.  If we can help, everyone here is pretty great about sharing experiences and helping others.  Take care.  
  • Shaindli1Shaindli1 MA Posts: 575
    What doesn't make me cry?

    But if the band wants to guarantee the waterworks here, they should play Immortality. Sobbing guaranteed. 
  • cblock4lifecblock4life Posts: 1,747
    Shaindli1 said:
    What doesn't make me cry?

    But if the band wants to guarantee the waterworks here, they should play Immortality. Sobbing guaranteed. 
    There’s a lot of us around here like that!  
  • julieooliernjulieooliern WA Posts: 221
    PJ: Teaching men to feel their feelings since 1990
    This should be a T-shirt…..hurry up before someone steals it!  
    ^This.
  • I can't.  I started typing and then erased it. I cannot express it in words, I don't know how. I am a grown man, been a fan since I was 10. This is ridiculous. 

    Some may say I am not as big a fan as those that have seen them live 5, 10, 50 times because I have never seen them live, but I am. I have not been loyal to the 10c. In fact the first time I ever joined was a few years ago when my wife surprised me with a year subscription and got me a shirt and a bunch of stickers. 

    Something told me to reup my subscription this past September, I don't know what or why, but I did. I am so glad I did. I was able to get tickets through the 10c for the upcoming Raleigh, NC show and this will be my first time to ever see them live and I cannot put in words how excited I am. I am going to share this experience with my Wife and again on the second night with my Wife and my Son. The seats are not the greatest but I really don't care. I don't know if I believe in fate or not but whatever got me to this point I'm grateful. 

    I used to be able to articulate feelings and emotions in words better when I was younger, I guess I'm just getting old or something, idk. I hope I don't get emotional at the show, because I basically did writing this.  I want to just delete this post but fuck it, I'm going to send it.
    Welcome to the club of people who are unable to articulate certain thoughts and feelings, and rely on the band's music to meaningfully experience those thoughts and feelings. I am jealous - I'd love to be able to go to my first show again.
  • bstoosbstoos Posts: 61
    I can't.  I started typing and then erased it. I cannot express it in words, I don't know how. I am a grown man, been a fan since I was 10. This is ridiculous. 

    Some may say I am not as big a fan as those that have seen them live 5, 10, 50 times because I have never seen them live, but I am. I have not been loyal to the 10c. In fact the first time I ever joined was a few years ago when my wife surprised me with a year subscription and got me a shirt and a bunch of stickers. 

    Something told me to reup my subscription this past September, I don't know what or why, but I did. I am so glad I did. I was able to get tickets through the 10c for the upcoming Raleigh, NC show and this will be my first time to ever see them live and I cannot put in words how excited I am. I am going to share this experience with my Wife and again on the second night with my Wife and my Son. The seats are not the greatest but I really don't care. I don't know if I believe in fate or not but whatever got me to this point I'm grateful. 

    I used to be able to articulate feelings and emotions in words better when I was younger, I guess I'm just getting old or something, idk. I hope I don't get emotional at the show, because I basically did writing this.  I want to just delete this post but fuck it, I'm going to send it.
    I've teared up or had them streaming down my face multiple times during shows: hearing Release during the encore at Bonnaroo with my dad, them opening with Long Road in Toronto, and the opening notes of Pendulum in St. Paul right after they walked on stage (probably others that I'm not thinking of as well). I also have had tears running down my face when we saw Phil Collins a handful of years ago, which was completely unexpected that his songs would hit me so hard. So don't worry at all about being emotional during the show. 

    Enjoy your first show. My first was when I was in high school in 1996 and I was a fan (had Vs on cassette/knew the radio songs) but wasn't nearly a diehard until after so I didn't know a lot of the songs that were played that night. Going in having been a long time fan would be awesome.
  • Given2fly98Given2fly98 Raleigh, NC Posts: 36
    edited December 2024
    Go Animal said:
    Give us your setlists, man. If you could write one, or both, what would you throw on? Make it 24-26 songs ea. Share away!
    I probably spent way more time on this than I should have lol, I imagine the arrangement is sloppy, but something like this would be cool. I'd love to hear others setlists too if they have em 

    Go
    Spin The Black Circle
    Do The Evolution
    In Hiding
    Gonna See My Friend
    Who Ever  Said
    Wreckage
    Dark Matter
    Once
    Garden
    Won't Tell
    Amongst The Waves
    Given to Fly
    Unthought Known
    Black
    Come Back
    Yellow Moon
    Better Man
    Corduroy
    Animal
    Light Years
    Ghost
    Never Destination
    Hard To Imagine
    I Won't Back Down
    Sonic Reducer
  • HaijayHaijay Posts: 405
    I can't.  I started typing and then erased it. I cannot express it in words, I don't know how. I am a grown man, been a fan since I was 10. This is ridiculous. 

    Some may say I am not as big a fan as those that have seen them live 5, 10, 50 times because I have never seen them live, but I am. I have not been loyal to the 10c. In fact the first time I ever joined was a few years ago when my wife surprised me with a year subscription and got me a shirt and a bunch of stickers. 

    Something told me to reup my subscription this past September, I don't know what or why, but I did. I am so glad I did. I was able to get tickets through the 10c for the upcoming Raleigh, NC show and this will be my first time to ever see them live and I cannot put in words how excited I am. I am going to share this experience with my Wife and again on the second night with my Wife and my Son. The seats are not the greatest but I really don't care. I don't know if I believe in fate or not but whatever got me to this point I'm grateful. 

    I used to be able to articulate feelings and emotions in words better when I was younger, I guess I'm just getting old or something, idk. I hope I don't get emotional at the show, because I basically did writing this.  I want to just delete this post but fuck it, I'm going to send it.
    Wait until the arena is all abuzz, the piano music is playing away, then the lights go down……. Truly hair-raising, one of  best feelings you can have on this planet…….
  • DM282158DM282158 Beverly, MA Posts: 565
    edited December 2024
    It’s always communal, and sometimes it’s spiritual. 

    Thanks for sharing, OP!

    (for the record - stole that line from someone else haha)
    Boston '06
    Mansfield '08
    Hartford '10
    Worcester, Hartford '13
    Global Citizen, NY '15
  • HughFreakingDillonHughFreakingDillon Winnipeg Posts: 37,557
    Loujoe said:
    Lol^^
    What bring the waterworks? (Asking for a friend)

    Me:
    Hard to Imagine
    Fatal
    Release 
    Inside Job
    Saw them in August 1993. My 2nd show wasn't until 2003 in Fargo. When Ed started in on Arc, I fucking lost it. I just started bawling. 

    Fast forward to 2014 in St Paul. Pendulum -> Release opener. I always thought Oceans was the only Ten track I hadn't seen live (didn't keep track back then). But my heart knew. As soon as they started in on Release, I started weeping openly. 
    "Oh Canada...you're beautiful when you're drunk"
    -EV  8/14/93




  • julieooliernjulieooliern WA Posts: 221
    Loujoe said:
    Lol^^
    What bring the waterworks? (Asking for a friend)

    Me:
    Hard to Imagine
    Fatal
    Release 
    Inside Job
    Saw them in August 1993. My 2nd show wasn't until 2003 in Fargo. When Ed started in on Arc, I fucking lost it. I just started bawling. 

    Fast forward to 2014 in St Paul. Pendulum -> Release opener. I always thought Oceans was the only Ten track I hadn't seen live (didn't keep track back then). But my heart knew. As soon as they started in on Release, I started weeping openly. 
    PJ: Teaching men to feel their feelings since 1990
    ^^ waiting for you to print the shirt 2-feign…

    Then you can wear it Hugh.
    You and everyone else here!! One of the million reasons I love PJ…they know how bring out the raw emotions in us all
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