brianlux
Moving through All Kinds of Terrain. Posts: 42,764
The following is the philosophy of Charles Schulz, the creator of the 'Peanuts' comic strip.
You don't have to actually answer the questions. Just ponder on them. Just read it straight through, and you'll get the point.
1. Name the five wealthiest people in the world.
2. Name the last five Heisman trophy winners.
3. Name the last five winners of the Miss America pageant.
4. Name ten people who have won the Nobel or Pulitzer Prize.
5. Name the last half dozen Academy Award winners for best actor and actress.
6. Name the last decade's worth of World Series winners.
How did you do?
The point is, none of us remember the headliners of yesterday.
These are no second-rate achievers.
They are the best in their fields.
But the applause dies.
Awards tarnish ...
Achievements are forgotten.
Accolades and certificates are buried with their owners.
Here's another quiz. See how you do on this one:
1. List a few teachers who aided your journey through school.
2. Name three friends who have helped you through a difficult time.
3. Name five people who have taught you something worthwhile.
4. Think of a few people who have made you feel appreciated and special.
5. Think of five people you enjoy spending time with.
Easier?
The lesson:
The people who make a difference in your life are not the ones with the most credentials, the most money ... or the most awards. They simply are the ones who care the most
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"Don't give in to the lies. Don't give in to the fear. Hold on to the truth. And to hope."
-Jim Acosta
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goldrush
everybody knows this is nowhere Posts: 7,640
“Do not postpone happiness”
(Jeff Tweedy, Sydney 2007)
“Put yer good money on the sunrise”
(Tim Rogers)
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goldrush
everybody knows this is nowhere Posts: 7,640
“Do not postpone happiness”
(Jeff Tweedy, Sydney 2007)
“Put yer good money on the sunrise”
(Tim Rogers)
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brianlux
Moving through All Kinds of Terrain. Posts: 42,764
Always stand up when shaking hands. Always walk a woman home. Wear a tie even when it might be overdressed. Do the dishes. Send handwritten thank you notes. Err on the side of being a gentleman. So few seem to get it these days.
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brianlux
Moving through All Kinds of Terrain. Posts: 42,764
Always stand up when shaking hands. Always walk a woman home. Wear a tie even when it might be overdressed. Do the dishes. Send handwritten thank you notes. Err on the side of being a gentleman. So few seem to get it these days.
These are really great, thank you!
My wife has some interesting and somewhat unusual characteristics. She describes herself as a "naturally liberated woman", and says that is because she learned to be that way because her G.I. generation mother was. She's kind but firm in her opinions (when she has a strong opinion about something), capable, smart, very independent yet helpful. But she's also "old fashioned" in some ways. She likes it when I open and close the car door for her (wouldn't anyone do that for the Queen? lol) I sometimes get funny looks from people when they see me do that, but I don't care. It makes my wife happy and I always feel great when I do something that makes her happy.
But then, because it has become a habit, one day I did the same for the mother of my godchildren and she grabbed the door out of my hand, glared at me, and said, "I'm capable of doing that!" It was embarrassing, but it was also a good lesson: know what works and doesn't work for others. As a long-time close friend, I still love my godchildren's mother, and she still loves me, and knowing her boundaries strengthens that bond. But I'll still err on the side of being a gentleman, so if I ever do that to any of you and you don't like it, reprimand gently, please, lol. I'll remember your preference.
"Don't give in to the lies. Don't give in to the fear. Hold on to the truth. And to hope."
Or anyone! Sometimes when our post office is really busy, I'll open or hold the door for someone, and then someone else comes along, and then another, and pretty soon I just tell people I'm the doorman.
"Don't give in to the lies. Don't give in to the fear. Hold on to the truth. And to hope."
"What we want/ and what we need/ has been confused/ been confused." -R.E.M.
One of my all time favourite Michael Stipe lyrics is from ‘Blue’ on Collapse Into Now. Definitely words that I remind myself of pretty regularly:
“I am made by my times I am a creation of now Shaken with the cracks and crevices I'm not giving up easy I will not fold I don't have much But what I have is gold
This is my time and I am thrilled to be alive”
“Do not postpone happiness”
(Jeff Tweedy, Sydney 2007)
"What we want/ and what we need/ has been confused/ been confused." -R.E.M.
One of my all time favourite Michael Stipe lyrics is from ‘Blue’ on Collapse Into Now. Definitely words that I remind myself of pretty regularly:
“I am made by my times I am a creation of now Shaken with the cracks and crevices I'm not giving up easy I will not fold I don't have much But what I have is gold
This is my time and I am thrilled to be alive”
Stipe makes good words!
"Don't give in to the lies. Don't give in to the fear. Hold on to the truth. And to hope."
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my behavior is you.."
Prague Krakow Berlin 2018. Berlin 2022
EV, Taormina 1+2 2017.
I wish i was the souvenir you kept your house key on..
Nice word your mum sent, I like it!
The more you know you don't know
The other pearls of wisdom are lovely.
I learned that one when I moved back east for a while (and no, not the hard way
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Also fishing and gardening over many years has taught me patience
I am so bad with patience that I suspect if there is a god, my job in this life is to teach God to be patient with me learning patience.
And Be Kind. A kind word or nice pleasant hello or smile can do wonders for people
What, me ever be bitching?
(Jeff Tweedy, Sydney 2007)
“Put yer good money on the sunrise”
(Tim Rogers)
(Jeff Tweedy, Sydney 2007)
“Put yer good money on the sunrise”
(Tim Rogers)
-R.E.M.
Always walk a woman home.
Wear a tie even when it might be overdressed.
Do the dishes.
Send handwritten thank you notes.
Err on the side of being a gentleman.
So few seem to get it these days.
Or anyone! Sometimes when our post office is really busy, I'll open or hold the door for someone, and then someone else comes along, and then another, and pretty soon I just tell people I'm the doorman.
astoria 06
albany 06
hartford 06
reading 06
barcelona 06
paris 06
wembley 07
dusseldorf 07
nijmegen 07
this song is meant to be called i got shit,itshould be called i got shit tickets-hartford 06 -
“I am made by my times
I am a creation of now
Shaken with the cracks and crevices
I'm not giving up easy
I will not fold
I don't have much
But what I have is gold
This is my time and I am thrilled to be alive”
(Jeff Tweedy, Sydney 2007)
“Put yer good money on the sunrise”
(Tim Rogers)
Stipe makes good words!