So I've just been dumped.....

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  • STXLAXSTXLAX Posts: 46
    Like Ed says, make up your own interpretation. I think Other Side was not written about a breakup, but death rather.

    Yes i agree on making your own interpertation. I just think that Other Side, even if it's about death, is good when dealing with a breakup or the lost of a love one for that matter. That's all. Ur right tho, subjective interpretations...
    "And if you gaze for long into an abyss, the abyss gazes also into you."
    -Nietzsche

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  • Loss of someone you love, either way.... is still like greiving a death. Been there and its tough.
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  • STXLAXSTXLAX Posts: 46
    yeh it's tough as hell...sorry for anyone who has to go through it
    "And if you gaze for long into an abyss, the abyss gazes also into you."
    -Nietzsche

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  • STXLAX wrote:
    Yes but what kind of abuse are we talking about? Eddie points to physical abuse but leaves it open so you can familiarize yourself with it. Go deeper with it. Its harder ever physical...

    Not to nitpick, but wasn't Otherside written by Jeff about his parents?

    Credit where it's due ;)
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  • I agree with these two.

    I dunno about the "COT should not be associated with a break up, because it's absolutely beautiful" ... i agree ... it IS beautiful ....

    but lets look at it ...

    for one ... it starts with Chloe Dancer which ends "DREAMS LIKE THIS MUST DIE" ... hmmm ... say what ???

    then, for COT itself ...
    we have lines like:

    "say he who rides the pony must some day fall"
    not exactly inspiring ... kinda foreshadowing badtimes ...

    you get
    "life is what you make it, and if you make it death, well then rest your soul" ... which also ... not the happiest thought ...

    you have directly related to a bad relationship:
    "i used to treat you like a lady ... now you're my substitute teacher."

    hmm? rought waters , anyone?

    and then of course, as stated
    "this is my kind of love ... its a love that MOVES ON ... I'TS UNKIND AND LEAVES ME ALONE." ...

    oh yeah ... thats happy thoughts.

    "i wanna show you that i love you ... but does it really matter..."

    And for CALL ME A DOG ....
    it may be that cornell agrees, he is a dog ... but it's really a beautiful song, that he wrote in the spirit of forgiveness. as in: hey look, this didn't work ... you took a shit load from me, which i gave ... and maybe i suck ... but i'm still gonna call you beautiful ... or maybe just move on and leave it be.
    you call me a dog well that's fair enough
    cause it ain't no use to pretend you're wrong
    you call me out, i can't hide anymore
    i have no disguise you can't see through
    well you say it's bad luck
    to have fallen for me
    what can i do to make it good for you
    you wore me out like an old winter coat
    trying to be safe from the cold
    but when it's my time to throw the next stone
    i'll call you beautiful if i call at all
    you call me a dog
    you tell me i'm low cause i've slept on the floor
    and out in the woods with the badgers and wolves
    you threw me out cause i went digging for gold
    i came home with a handful of coal
    but when it's my time to throw the next stone
    i'll call you beautiful if i call at all
    and when it's my time to call you a bluff
    i'll call you beautiful or leave it alone
    you call me a dog
    well that's fair enough
    it doesn't bother me as long as you know
    bad luck will follow you
    if you keep me on a leash and you drag me along
    and when it's my time to throw the next stone
    i'll call you beautiful if i call at all
    and when it's my time to call you a bluff
    i'll call you beautiful or leave it alone
    you call me a dog...
    chloe don't know better
    chloe just like me, only beautiful
    a couple of years of difference
    but those lessons never learned
    chloe danced the tables in the french quarter
    always been given so i can't always make her laugh
    but i'm proud to say
    and i won't forget
    time spent laying by her side
    time spent laying by her side
    and dreams like this must die
    you ever heard the story of mr. faded glory?
    say he who rides a pony must someday fall
    i been talkin' to my alter
    life is what you make it
    and if you make it death well then rest your soul away
    away away yeah child
    it's a broken kind of feeling
    she'd have to tie me to the ceiling
    a bad moon's a comin' better say your prayers
    i wanna tell her that i love her
    but does it really matter?
    i just can't stand to see you dragging down
    again
    so i'm singing
    this is my kinda love it's the kind that moves on
    it's unkind and leaves me alone
    yes it does
    i uses to treat you like a lady
    now you're a substitute teacher
    this bottle's not a pretty, not a pretty sight
    i owe the man some money so i'm turnin over honey
    you see mr. faded glory is once again doin' time
    this is my kinda love
    it's the kind that moves on
    it's unkind and leaves me alone
    yes it does
    like a crown of thorns it's all who you know
    so don't burn your bridges woman cause someday, yeah
    kick it!
    baby i said com' on, com' on, com' on, com' on yeah i said baby
    don't burn your bridges woman


    lyrics TSIS, of course.
    If I was to smile and I held out my hand
    If I opened it now would you not understand?
  • STXLAXSTXLAX Posts: 46
    Not to nitpick, but wasn't Otherside written by Jeff about his parents?

    Credit where it's due ;)
    Did Jeff write the lyrics?
    This is from theskyiscrape.com

    1. Jeff: This one started off being for my mom and dad. They've been married for 42 years and they've been my biggest inspiration. Over the couple of years that I wrote and reworked it, it turned into me and P. Partnerships are hard, lifelong ones are just absolutely mind blowing.

    2. Ed: If life is a cruise ship and death is to embark to another shore, then this song is what it's like to be on the land while your partner remains out at sea.
    "And if you gaze for long into an abyss, the abyss gazes also into you."
    -Nietzsche

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  • Nadine ZNadine Z Posts: 92
    i highly recommend pearljamlive.com... helps take ur mind of things and its GREAT! helped me through my last break up!

    Good Luck!
  • Thanks for all your input guys. Its been tough, but i guess its just life. You helped a lot. And thank you to Ed, Jeff, Stone, Mike and Matt, too. They played a.... lets face it, HUGE role in keeping my life from falling apart.... :)
  • stonesgstringstonesgstring Posts: 4,613
    Not to nitpick, but wasn't Otherside written by Jeff about his parents?

    Credit where it's due ;)

    yeah i think it was written by jeff about his parents. at least that's what i remember reading somewhere.

    and indeed credit where its due, especially for mr ament xx
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  • paulhealeypaulhealey Posts: 27
    Chloe Dancer/Crown of Thrones is the greatest song to listen to after ending a relationship. Also Rearviewmirros is wicked too. What about MFC, it might make you want to get on with your life really fast, I know it worked for me.
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  • a good break up song is last kiss
    i have seen the writing on the wall
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