Pearl Jam Ten Club Members - Facebook group

Thoughts_Arrive

True, I often see people I don't know in my feed.
Maybe Instagram is the way then.

PJ_Soul

Thoughts_Arrive said:

True, I often see people I don't know in my feed.
Maybe Instagram is the way then.

I don't think Instagram is any better. People just shouldn't put photos of their kids on social media, period.

Thoughts_Arrive

PJ_Soul said:

Thoughts_Arrive said:

True, I often see people I don't know in my feed.
Maybe Instagram is the way then.

I don't think Instagram is any better. People just shouldn't put photos of their kids on social media, period.

At least the privacy setting is better.

drakeheuer14

PJ_Soul said:

Thoughts_Arrive said:

True, I often see people I don't know in my feed.
Maybe Instagram is the way then.

I don't think Instagram is any better. People just shouldn't put photos of their kids on social media, period.

What exactly has you so worried about it? Live in a bad part of town?

Thoughts_Arrive

drakeheuer14 said:

PJ_Soul said:

Thoughts_Arrive said:

True, I often see people I don't know in my feed.
Maybe Instagram is the way then.

I don't think Instagram is any better. People just shouldn't put photos of their kids on social media, period.

What exactly has you so worried about it? Live in a bad part of town?

Pedophoiles...

PJ_Soul

drakeheuer14 said:

PJ_Soul said:

Thoughts_Arrive said:

True, I often see people I don't know in my feed.
Maybe Instagram is the way then.

I don't think Instagram is any better. People just shouldn't put photos of their kids on social media, period.

What exactly has you so worried about it? Live in a bad part of town?

Lol, no. Like T_A said, pedophiles will take the photos, alter them as needed, and the next thing you know your kids are being enjoyed by the pedo networks all over the world.

mickeyrat

PJ_Soul said:

What, the "official" one? I'm on there... I rarely if ever post on it, but I'm still a member. That group is bat shit crazy for the most part, lol, and not in a good way. There is much too much blind obsession on display there, and it's just awkward. I'm on the other big one too, which is maybe what this thread is asking about? I literally never post to that one, I think because it used to be open, and I would never post to an open group. So I learned to ignore it (might have changed to closed now).

its The Porch.

No thanks.

njnancy

Thoughts_Arrive said:

PJ_Soul said:

What, the "official" one? I'm on there... I rarely if ever post on it, but I'm still a member. That group is bat shit crazy for the most part, lol, and not in a good way. There is much too much blind obsession on display there, and it's just awkward. I'm on the other big one too, which is maybe what this thread is asking about? I literally never post to that one, I think because it used to be open, and I would never post to an open group. So I learned to ignore it (might have changed to closed now).

This one...
https://www.facebook.com/groups/tenclubmembers/

I didn't know which one of the myriad PJ clubs you meant - but yes I belong to this one. There is an Official PJ 10 Club group, Pearl Jam Nation, Official PJ 10Club Women, and on and on. I have about 4 friends from the PJ groups and I have no idea if any of them are on here. 

I haven't been on FB much lately but I'm kind of cyclical. I'll be here more frequently and post occasionally there. And then I will post on FB more often and not be on here. And sometimes I"m just radio silent.

And like Ali, I also belong to other groups - other music, writing, crazy book people like myself, a sobriety group & other more specific ones. Some are closed, some are secret and some are open. I don't mind posting about my favorite Stephen King book or character in an open group but I prefer other groups be secret as what's discussed is personal and I have had problems with my son's father trying to find information about me. It was a huge problem for a long time. Not as much anymore but I still prefer that he &his family or friends not know anything about me. I have a bunch of people blocked - mostly due to that problem. 

I have multiple group settings for my posts for my FB wall, depending on what I'm posting. I have a picture with each of my family members on my profile, so that includes my son. I have unfriended a bunch of people who became Trump crazy and would rant on my wall. But I don't unfriend simply because someone has an opposing view; most times we became friends due to some other aspect of our lives and do not discuss politics.

I had one person share a post of mine that was to a specific group and I had her remove it from her wall. I don't tag people in photos ever. 

I don't understand why people post 30 status posts a day, or have their locations available to everyone.  But I enjoy talking to people I know from real life on there and I enjoy the groups I belong to very much. Pearl Jam group I mostly read or check out pictures, videos, etc. I comment on occasion but not very often. 

Meltdown99

Thoughts_Arrive said:

Not a fan of people showing off their kids on facebook. 
What for? Ego boost?

I don't know either.  

Meltdown99

I will never understand these people who advertise on Facebook that they are they going on vacation...

Thoughts_Arrive

mickeyrat said:

PJ_Soul said:

What, the "official" one? I'm on there... I rarely if ever post on it, but I'm still a member. That group is bat shit crazy for the most part, lol, and not in a good way. There is much too much blind obsession on display there, and it's just awkward. I'm on the other big one too, which is maybe what this thread is asking about? I literally never post to that one, I think because it used to be open, and I would never post to an open group. So I learned to ignore it (might have changed to closed now).

its The Porch.

No thanks.

Some PJ fans are crazy like Michael Jackson fans. 

Thoughts_Arrive

njnancy said:

Thoughts_Arrive said:

PJ_Soul said:

What, the "official" one? I'm on there... I rarely if ever post on it, but I'm still a member. That group is bat shit crazy for the most part, lol, and not in a good way. There is much too much blind obsession on display there, and it's just awkward. I'm on the other big one too, which is maybe what this thread is asking about? I literally never post to that one, I think because it used to be open, and I would never post to an open group. So I learned to ignore it (might have changed to closed now).

This one...
https://www.facebook.com/groups/tenclubmembers/

I didn't know which one of the myriad PJ clubs you meant - but yes I belong to this one. There is an Official PJ 10 Club group, Pearl Jam Nation, Official PJ 10Club Women, and on and on. I have about 4 friends from the PJ groups and I have no idea if any of them are on here. 

I haven't been on FB much lately but I'm kind of cyclical. I'll be here more frequently and post occasionally there. And then I will post on FB more often and not be on here. And sometimes I"m just radio silent.

And like Ali, I also belong to other groups - other music, writing, crazy book people like myself, a sobriety group & other more specific ones. Some are closed, some are secret and some are open. I don't mind posting about my favorite Stephen King book or character in an open group but I prefer other groups be secret as what's discussed is personal and I have had problems with my son's father trying to find information about me. It was a huge problem for a long time. Not as much anymore but I still prefer that he &his family or friends not know anything about me. I have a bunch of people blocked - mostly due to that problem. 

I have multiple group settings for my posts for my FB wall, depending on what I'm posting. I have a picture with each of my family members on my profile, so that includes my son. I have unfriended a bunch of people who became Trump crazy and would rant on my wall. But I don't unfriend simply because someone has an opposing view; most times we became friends due to some other aspect of our lives and do not discuss politics.

I had one person share a post of mine that was to a specific group and I had her remove it from her wall. I don't tag people in photos ever. 

I don't understand why people post 30 status posts a day, or have their locations available to everyone.  But I enjoy talking to people I know from real life on there and I enjoy the groups I belong to very much. Pearl Jam group I mostly read or check out pictures, videos, etc. I comment on occasion but not very often. 

Once I made a post on a depression page and a facebook friend saw and messaged me to see if I am ok.
I hate how everything I post on public groups is seen on my facebook friends' news feed.
I wish I knew how to stop this.
I am not a big fan of having relatives on facebook as things I say can get back to my parents.
I've unfriended someone because they made like 3 posts a day about them checking into gym. Annoying.
I have it set to review when someone tags me or checks me in. 

mickeyrat

Thoughts_Arrive said:

njnancy said:

Thoughts_Arrive said:

PJ_Soul said:

What, the "official" one? I'm on there... I rarely if ever post on it, but I'm still a member. That group is bat shit crazy for the most part, lol, and not in a good way. There is much too much blind obsession on display there, and it's just awkward. I'm on the other big one too, which is maybe what this thread is asking about? I literally never post to that one, I think because it used to be open, and I would never post to an open group. So I learned to ignore it (might have changed to closed now).

This one...
https://www.facebook.com/groups/tenclubmembers/

I didn't know which one of the myriad PJ clubs you meant - but yes I belong to this one. There is an Official PJ 10 Club group, Pearl Jam Nation, Official PJ 10Club Women, and on and on. I have about 4 friends from the PJ groups and I have no idea if any of them are on here. 

I haven't been on FB much lately but I'm kind of cyclical. I'll be here more frequently and post occasionally there. And then I will post on FB more often and not be on here. And sometimes I"m just radio silent.

And like Ali, I also belong to other groups - other music, writing, crazy book people like myself, a sobriety group & other more specific ones. Some are closed, some are secret and some are open. I don't mind posting about my favorite Stephen King book or character in an open group but I prefer other groups be secret as what's discussed is personal and I have had problems with my son's father trying to find information about me. It was a huge problem for a long time. Not as much anymore but I still prefer that he &his family or friends not know anything about me. I have a bunch of people blocked - mostly due to that problem. 

I have multiple group settings for my posts for my FB wall, depending on what I'm posting. I have a picture with each of my family members on my profile, so that includes my son. I have unfriended a bunch of people who became Trump crazy and would rant on my wall. But I don't unfriend simply because someone has an opposing view; most times we became friends due to some other aspect of our lives and do not discuss politics.

I had one person share a post of mine that was to a specific group and I had her remove it from her wall. I don't tag people in photos ever. 

I don't understand why people post 30 status posts a day, or have their locations available to everyone.  But I enjoy talking to people I know from real life on there and I enjoy the groups I belong to very much. Pearl Jam group I mostly read or check out pictures, videos, etc. I comment on occasion but not very often. 

Once I made a post on a depression page and a facebook friend saw and messaged me to see if I am ok.
I hate how everything I post on public groups is seen on my facebook friends' news feed.
I wish I knew how to stop this.
I am not a big fan of having relatives on facebook as things I say can get back to my parents.
I've unfriended someone because they made like 3 posts a day about them checking into gym. Annoying.
I have it set to review when someone tags me or checks me in. 

in the future, if such a thing arises, you dont have to unfriend. Simply unfollow. Then if you chose to keep up you go to their page to see whats up. Keeps it out of your news feed.

Thoughts_Arrive

mickeyrat said:

Thoughts_Arrive said:

njnancy said:

Thoughts_Arrive said:

PJ_Soul said:

What, the "official" one? I'm on there... I rarely if ever post on it, but I'm still a member. That group is bat shit crazy for the most part, lol, and not in a good way. There is much too much blind obsession on display there, and it's just awkward. I'm on the other big one too, which is maybe what this thread is asking about? I literally never post to that one, I think because it used to be open, and I would never post to an open group. So I learned to ignore it (might have changed to closed now).

This one...
https://www.facebook.com/groups/tenclubmembers/

I didn't know which one of the myriad PJ clubs you meant - but yes I belong to this one. There is an Official PJ 10 Club group, Pearl Jam Nation, Official PJ 10Club Women, and on and on. I have about 4 friends from the PJ groups and I have no idea if any of them are on here. 

I haven't been on FB much lately but I'm kind of cyclical. I'll be here more frequently and post occasionally there. And then I will post on FB more often and not be on here. And sometimes I"m just radio silent.

And like Ali, I also belong to other groups - other music, writing, crazy book people like myself, a sobriety group & other more specific ones. Some are closed, some are secret and some are open. I don't mind posting about my favorite Stephen King book or character in an open group but I prefer other groups be secret as what's discussed is personal and I have had problems with my son's father trying to find information about me. It was a huge problem for a long time. Not as much anymore but I still prefer that he &his family or friends not know anything about me. I have a bunch of people blocked - mostly due to that problem. 

I have multiple group settings for my posts for my FB wall, depending on what I'm posting. I have a picture with each of my family members on my profile, so that includes my son. I have unfriended a bunch of people who became Trump crazy and would rant on my wall. But I don't unfriend simply because someone has an opposing view; most times we became friends due to some other aspect of our lives and do not discuss politics.

I had one person share a post of mine that was to a specific group and I had her remove it from her wall. I don't tag people in photos ever. 

I don't understand why people post 30 status posts a day, or have their locations available to everyone.  But I enjoy talking to people I know from real life on there and I enjoy the groups I belong to very much. Pearl Jam group I mostly read or check out pictures, videos, etc. I comment on occasion but not very often. 

Once I made a post on a depression page and a facebook friend saw and messaged me to see if I am ok.
I hate how everything I post on public groups is seen on my facebook friends' news feed.
I wish I knew how to stop this.
I am not a big fan of having relatives on facebook as things I say can get back to my parents.
I've unfriended someone because they made like 3 posts a day about them checking into gym. Annoying.
I have it set to review when someone tags me or checks me in. 

in the future, if such a thing arises, you dont have to unfriend. Simply unfollow. Then if you chose to keep up you go to their page to see whats up. Keeps it out of your news feed.

Yeah, I've unfollowed before. I mean how do I stop things appearing on other people's newsfeeds?

MayDay10

I think we have it under control, lol.

Like 30% of my facebook feed at any given time is friends and family's kids.  The pedophile boogiemen havent been attacking everybody, and if they do come by, i will kill them.

Our security settings are ramped up, and we dont post locations, times, routines, etc.  Never post while on vacation.  Posting isnt even frequent.  I just counted like 6 posts since july 9th.  


And no, its not for an "ego boost".  We have family and friends across the country, and they like to see the kids, and we like seeing theirs.  Kids also do and say a lot of funny shit.  

Thoughts_Arrive

I wouldn't want to post my kids photos when they had no say as to whether or not they approve.
Photos that when they grow up they might be upset seeing online still.

josevolution

HesCalledDyer said:

mcgruff10 said:

PJ_Soul said:

Annafalk said:

HesCalledDyer said:

Annafalk said:

I have never been on Facebook, I hope I'm not missing out on something.

You’re not.

Thank you, HesCalledDyer.

I disagree. Depending on what your interests are and how you use it, it's very handy/useful and can be a very positive resource. It can also be the exact opposite. It's just up to the person using it.

Agreed, I like Facebook. It all depends how you use it.  One of the greatest things about Facebook is in my opinion it has made the traditional high school reunion obselote.  Many of my “friends” on Facebook are people I haven’t seen since graduation night way back in 96. Now I know what they do, whether they have kids, where they live, etc. 

Creeper!

lol yeah there’s a reason why I never kept contact with high school people it’s called no interest those yrs have long past I’d rather 

josevolution

Not know anymore..

MayDay10

Thoughts_Arrive said:

I wouldn't want to post my kids photos when they had no say as to whether or not they approve.
Photos that when they grow up they might be upset seeing online still.

I think we got it under control and know my kids. thanks though.  


We do not have a voyeur cam set up in our house.  Things like 1st day of kindergarten, first time ice skating without a walker might be special to some people and they want to share it with their family and friends, i dont know.

mcgruff10

MayDay10 said:

Thoughts_Arrive said:

I wouldn't want to post my kids photos when they had no say as to whether or not they approve.
Photos that when they grow up they might be upset seeing online still.

I think we got it under control and know my kids. thanks though.  


We do not have a voyeur cam set up in our house.  Things like 1st day of kindergarten, first time ice skating without a walker might be special to some people and they want to share it with their family and friends, i dont know.

I m the same way. I post photos of my kids, some Christmas shots, graduation, catching their first fish, etc.
the other day I posted a video of my son doing 25 fortnite dances in a row lol.