A message to the band...

Just fired off the following email to 10C, but thought it might be a good idea to post here as backup, too, and wanted to share our story with you all. 


At the age of 15 I lost my dad to cancer, just three years after losing my mom to the same disease. Vitalogy was released a month prior, and was essentially my therapy through an incredibly difficult period of life. 

Fast forward eight years, I accidentally met my soulmate through the Message Pit right before the 2003 tour kicked off. We were living 1,000 miles apart (Florida to Pennsylvania) and found each other thanks to a shared love of all things Pearl Jam. We became engaged the day of the October 3, 2005 concert, shortly after closing on the home we purchased together near Philadelphia. 

We will be flying out to to Seattle to celebrate 10 years of marriage with 50,000 of our mutual friends at Safeco Field, and as fate would have it, our actual wedding anniversary happens to be August 8th!

We’ve met so many amazing people through the forum and PJ tours, and a lot of them will also be joining us. We hope it might mean something to the band to know that we’ll be there for such an awesome milestone because of them. And just knowing that they’ve read our story would truly be a wonderful anniversary gift!

With love and gratitude,
Sharon and Greg


*Rock and/or Roll!*

Comments

  • elwayvedderelwayvedder Posts: 9,117
    love it! So grateful for all this band has done to bring us together, all the relationships generated and all the inspiration they cause for us to do things for others. Their music and their art is so healing and such good therapy but yet the byproducts they create from their battles and insistence on carrying on despite all they have been through and fought is priceless.
    Mazel Tov on everything Sharon.  May you and Greg have many more amazing years together
  • Thanks Elway!! 
    *Rock and/or Roll!*
  • pjman75pjman75 Posts: 849
    This is amazing! Happy Anniversary!!  :)
    I'm a lucky man to count on both hands the ones I love.

    8/17/98 Noblesville, 8/18/00 Noblesville, 6/5/03 San Diego, 6/22/03 Noblesville, 9/11/05 Kitchener, 5/7/10 Noblesville, 9/15/11 Hamilton, 11/21/12 Memphis (Ed w/ Glen), 7/19/13 Wrigley, 10/11/13 Pittsburgh, 10/01/14 Cincinnati, 10/03/14 Saint Louis, 4/16/16 Greenville, 4/26/16 Lexington, 5/1/16 NYC, 5/2/16 NYC, 8/20/16 Wrigley, 8/22/16 Wrigley (For Hank), 8/18/18 Wrigley, 8/20/18 Wrigley (For Hank), 9/18/22 Saint Louis, 9/5/23 Chicago, 9/7/23 Chicago
  • bobby dazzlersbobby dazzlers Posts: 2,017
    Have a great time!
    That I no longer give a fuck
    Who is wrong and who’s right
  • tempo_n_groovetempo_n_groove Posts: 40,141
    Happy happy joy joy
  • PP193448PP193448 Here Posts: 4,281
    :clap:
    2006 Clev,Pitt; 2008 NY MSGx2; 2010 Columbus; 2012 Missoula; 2013 Phoenix,Vancouver,Seattle; 2014 Cincy; 2016 Lex, Wrigley 1&2; 2018 Wrigley 1&2; 2022 Louisville
  • Ray J. T.Ray J. T. Posts: 4,023
    Now that is a way to celebrate an anniversary. Enjoy the home shows. 
  • A great story to read -- Happy Anniversary to you both!

    The love he receives is the love that is saved
  • jjflashjjflash Posts: 4,940
    Thanks for sharing your story, Sharon. It's a good reminder of the special and all-encompassing community that's grown from the seeds of the band's music. What a great way to celebrate your 10th. Happy anniversary to you and Greg :joy:
  • PJWGIIIPJWGIII Posts: 810
    What a great story. Happy Anniversary and I really hope you enjoy the home shows!
    "Red Rover, Red Rover, Mike McCready – Take Over!!" - E.V.

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    2018
    : Chicago 2 (Wrigley Field) 8/20 | 20(20)22: St Louis 9/18 | 2023: Chicago 2 (United Center) 9/7, Indianapolis (Deer Creek) 9/10 | 2024: Vegas 5/16-&-18, Indy? Wrigley 2?

    EV:
    2018: CURE Benefit Show (Chicago - Navy Pier) 10/15

    RIP: Andy, Kurt, Chris
                                       * * * * * * * * *
  • D-RodD-Rod Hamilton, Ontario Posts: 1,836
    awesome story Shannon.  I can relate.  One of my first dates with my wife was Pearl Jam Toronto 1996.  we were both teenagers at the time and were still going strong 22 years later. We are both very different people but our love for sports, Pearl Jam, each other and  our 2 boys  ( not necessarily in that order..LOL) have kept us strong.   Hope we run into you two in Seattle.
    1996.....Toronto
    2005.....Hamilton
    2011.....Toronto N1, Toronto N2, Hamilton
    2013.....London, Buffalo
    2014.....Detroit
    2016.....Toronto N1 Toronto N2, Boston  N1, Boston N2, Chicago N1
    2018.....Seattle N1, Seattle N2
    2022.....San Diego, Los Angeles N1, Los Angeles N2, Phoenix, Oakland N1, Oakland N2, Quebec City, Ottawa, Hamilton, Toronto  
    2023.....Fort Worth N1, Fort Worth N2, Austin N1, Austin N2
    2024.....Las Vegas N1, Las Vegas N2, Los Angeles N1, Los Angeles N2, Boston N1, Boston N2
    2025.....????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????
  • darwinstheorydarwinstheory Posts: 6,303
    Sounds like at least 1 Seattle hotel room is going to be going crazy after the 8-8-18 show! 

    Brown chicken brown cow
    "A smart monkey doesn't monkey around with another monkey's monkey" - Darwin's Theory
  • on2legson2legs Standing in the Jersey rain… Posts: 14,967
    Very heart warming story.  =) congratulations!
    1996: Randall's Island 2  1998: East Rutherford | MSG 1 & 2  2000: Cincinnati | Columbus | Jones Beach 1, 2, & 3 | Boston 1 | Camden 1 & 2 2003: Philadelphia | Uniondale | MSG 1 & 2 | Holmdel  2005: Atlantic City 1  2006: Camden 1 | East Rutherford 1 & 2 2008: Camden 1 & 2 | MSG 1 & 2 | Newark (EV)  2009: Philadelphia 1, 2 & 4  2010: Newark | MSG 1 & 2  2011: Toronto 1  2013: Wrigley Field | Brooklyn 2 | Philadelphia 1 & 2 | Baltimore  2015: Central Park  2016: Philadelphia 1 & 2 | MSG 1 & 2 | Fenway Park 2 | MSG (TOTD)  2017: Brooklyn (RnR HOF)  2020: MSG | Asbury Park  2021: Asbury Park  2022: MSG | Camden | Nashville  2024: MSG 1 & 2 (#50) | Philadelphia 1 & 2 | Baltimore


  • The love he receives is the love that is saved
  • Thanks for the well wishes, everyone! I’m almost as excited to see Seattle as I am to go to the shows themselves! 
    *Rock and/or Roll!*
  • darwinstheorydarwinstheory Posts: 6,303
    "A smart monkey doesn't monkey around with another monkey's monkey" - Darwin's Theory
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